ENOUGH is ENOUGH!! everyone has a level.. - Page 10

😛..Thanks for this topic..Even I am tired of all these negative posts floating in forum..Sum1 compared Arnie with Snake ..and other post saying all domestic abuse and even one mentioned rape..It is really hurtful for ppl like me who are really attached to this character..As for me he will always be lonely warrior fighting his own battles..Why do people forget that he is hero in this show..and so far they have showed it in a really amazing way that he is..even Devi Maiyya knows it. I know ppl love khushi a lot and her state is also to feel for at this stage..but guys try to understand poor guy's condition here..and if there was any other person in his shoes ..mark my words he would have done worse..than this..
It is really sad that people still have not figured out Male lead character after watching this show for so many months..To me I think he is protector for both his sister and khushi -now his woman too!!..
I am here to defend him always...😃

I agree. What is with some people I dont understand. Track has not unfolded at all and they have started slogans. I mean come on, there should be limit to everything. Both the lead characters have their own flaws and strengths, if Khushi would have trusted Arnav and told everything about Shyam then today Arnav would have believed her. Both misjudged each other. Lets not be sadist here, I am sure something good will out of this for both of them and that too soon.

Originally posted by: CandYlicious_MS

@Nymra: Have to disagree with u on this.. 😳 Khushi hid the truth, and it was VERY wrong.. YES..!! Khushi hid the truth for her OWN sister's happiness..? a big NO.. When she came to know about Shyam's marriage and she crashed in ASR'a arms, she was about to tell him but then she stopped herself and guess what she thought at that moment..?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVCMcd6yP40

She did not, for once, thought about Payal.. Her FIRST thought was Arnav and HIS love for his Di.. How HE will be broken and how HE will be smashed by the truth as for HIM, his DI meant his world.. She had flashbacks of HIM, caring for his di and how crazy he became when he saw his di in pain.. His pain was unbearable for Khushi and she was herself so vulnerable at that time. Would she be able to handle him then in his vulnerable state.? No..

Yes.. Above decision was cuz she LOVED him deep down and cared for him and his Di and as eternally optimistic as she is, she though Shyam would change.. Wrong and impulsive and naive decision..? YES.. A big YES.. And for that she is paying off now.. And THAT is her flaw in character and she WILL grow now.. But we cant call her SELFISH as she never ever displayed that EVER.. She did this for Arnav and his di and she thought that Shyam could change.. 😕 But she is inexperienced, and she didnt know that people like Shyam could NEVER change..

But yes.. Agree with u.. We cant blame anyone here. Its just test of fate and m sure both of them will emerge stronger than ever after this phase. 😳 And m sure and i trust Arnav 100% that he wont ever abuse Khushi cuz no matter how much he hates her, he LOVES her like HELL..! 😳 😳 ❤️

Hun, what I'm trying to say is that none of this is in black and white, regardless of why she did it she withheld information that was crucial to another person's life. It's liking stealing, even when done with the best of intentions it still in the eyes of the law is punishable under the CRPC as 'theft'. And your very line "Would she be able to handle him then in his vulnerable state.? No.." - this is not about her. This is not about ASR either. This is about Anjali and she had a duty of care towards her simply as another human being, all the more so as a friend her, neglecting to inform her could have cost Anjali her life and the of her unborn child.

Which weighs heavier on the moral scale?

I have never said that she doesn't love ASR she does, infact that is why I used the term 'selfish', we can be selfish when the benefit goes to others too you know, it's about being selfish because you know their pain is your pain. I'm not blaming Khushi, she is young and nave a mistake like this would be very easy to make, and she is growing which I applaud her for, but her reasoning was flawed none the less. And I can't seem to believe her motives were completely selfless and Arnav based, she was thinking about all of it when she made her decision, it's like in her mind there were so many reasons not to take the chance that she convinced herself she shouldn't.😳

Its a forum for everybody but comments should be decent like you said..and i noticed that some members like ASR and for them whatever he does is correct..and KKG supporters do the same...i really hated it when she spit water on his face and slapped his face..and that time my posts are against her childish behaviour..but now i think what asr doing is wrong and commenting on that...but my posts are never disrespect to any of the character.. because i like both characters equally..

Originally posted by: incandescent

Nice post. I will copy paste some of the things I have written in my thread.

When you make a point in the forum...there is a civil way of putting forward your point. No body owns the forum, you are free to defend and criticize characters whether it is ASR or Khushi.

If you don't like something , you can surely share your views, but why do it in an offensive manner?

People have their own way of seeing of things. It's not necessary that everyone has to agree with everything. It has happened many times, even when you logically defend ASR's actions you are termed as brainless or a drooler and that you lack self respect.

Same applies for Khushi, if you defend Khushi you are a member of the Mahila Mandal and you a ASR hater.

The point I am trying to make is, it is a show after all. Why get so serious about everything and personally attack others or make them feel uncomfortable in any way?

All of us are here in this forum because we are IPKKND / Arhi / Sarun fans. The forum is clearly divided into two groups now, Pro-Khushi/ Anti-ASR and Pro-ASR/ Anti-Khushi...why ???

Character's can be criticised...you don't have to like ASR or Khushi, but it can done in a way that you don't offend the actors, character's or members.

Please respect other's views,,,,that way you views will be respected as well.

@black.. exactly yaar i love asr.. because his character is unique and not any same Star plus pati or beta or etc.. i drool over too i defend too but does not mean i cannot see the faults!!

but there is a nice way to put our thoughts too!!

very well said thank you!! 👏

Nice one! I for one agree that forumn is for people to voice their opinions..and its nice to read others perspective but sometimes it really gets out of hand..seriously people think Arnav can rape kushi or he lusts after her?? Its difficult to digest even the title sometimes..really the writers have taken pains to explain the change in from ASR (the guy who broke her pearls) to Arnav who is her protector ..he is her soul mate..they have shown innumeable times how he turns the other way when her dupatta flies off and when she winces in pain or tears he is more hurt...after watching all this still people can think he can rape her..it just pains me..just imagine the plight of the writers...so hope all these can be voiced as doubts not facts.

Nice Post!

I just want to say that please see the other side of the coin too. people who are actually bashing Arnav they love him so much that they do not want to see him doing anything wrong.

Even a mother also get angry with her kid when he or she make mistake because she does not want her kid to turn out bad or do something very bad in future or hurt someone and then regret too much. that's what Arnav lovers are doing...that's how I see it. You only get angry to the person whom you love...

well written! Good points and I agree. Constructive criticism and calling names are two very different things!

Originally posted by: sanjanashaika

<font color="#CC0000" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">sorry about caps, but i've had enough!! everyone has a level of tolerance and am done with mine!

i understand that everyone is annoyed with Arnav with the friday's episode.. yes! he was wrong! and yes! he may have to repent for all his actions.. but he is also human.. and even if what he made is not an unforgiveable mistake, the least i can expect is that some decency in putting forward your hatred for him!

i've come across such untoward incidents!! seriously??

-<font color="#0000FF"> Arnav does not deserve to be on earth! he is an animal!

- Arnav is not the right guy for Khushi Kumari Gupta, she should live on her own! (and written in caps.. isin't caps considered shouting online?)

- Arnav needs to repent like a crazy frog before he'll win back Khushi's love

- Arnav is not worth living. he should be slapped by Khushi for his misdeeds!

- and the most best of all : shyam is better guy for KKG, she should get married to him!
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okay then? lets marry shyam to KKG and see what your reaction will be? he is not any angel that he'll protect Khushi from Arnav.. in fact, the marital rape someone was talking about may as well be done by shyam only!!

whats worse is that some members make decent posts with valid points, but such comments totally turn me off while reading these sensible posts.. and whats more? <font size="3">i can't believe that some members bring up the
same post again and again repeatedly to say the same thing again and again..</font>

seriously guys? this is a love-story.. and like it or not, Arnav Is the lead of the story.. you cannot get him out of the show just by saying the same thing on 2-3 times on 6 posts!! lalit mohan will not listen.. no wonder zee news posted that Lalit and the actors got upset reading such kind of posts..

and please arnav may have done so many wrong things now, but remember you were the ones who cheered for him when he kissed Khushi, when he saved Khushi, when he loved Khushi.. so every character has a low and high.. learn to respect that!

its a request.. STOP saying such nasty things about him.. it'd be really nice if you learn to put your thoughts in a decent and public way..</font>

THANK YOU THANK THANK THANK YOU very much (sorry for the caps) for making this. Hope some people cools down

Originally posted by: Zuzana

Nice one! I for one agree that forumn is for people to voice their opinions..and its nice to read others perspective but sometimes it really gets out of hand..seriously people think Arnav can rape kushi or he lusts after her?? Its difficult to digest even the title sometimes..really the writers have taken pains to explain the change in from ASR (the guy who broke her pearls) to Arnav who is her protector ..he is her soul mate..they have shown innumeable times how he turns the other way when her dupatta flies off and when she winces in pain or tears he is more hurt...after watching all this still people can think he can rape her..it just pains me..just imagine the plight of the writers...so hope all these can be voiced as doubts not facts.

excellent dupatta point!👏 i really think you should write a post on that.. it'll help people understand what we are saying better!!