Cvs! ASR's feelings towards LA... - Page 10

@Zainza and hiru,

If ASR did not feel the depth of emotion he displayed while breaking up, he would have not broken up at the first place. He was Arnav that time, right from the moment kushi was in distress. The way La requested, he simply couldn't resist hugging her out of guilt ! He realized how much he has wronged her. Also if you could see how soft he was with her before, ots not surprising.

With Kushi its a different ball game for Arnav.

Originally posted by: somzz007

WHAT THE!!

I thought I was doing that for you..😆...You betrayed me frock...😭

Originally posted by: Teesha

I actually like how concerned Asr is towards Lavanya. His concern is much more cause he knows somewhere down he has hurt her very much. A break up is one thing, but to break up at a moment when a girl feels so close to her dreams, is big. And he realizes that, for which I respect him a lot.

I also feel he is having a tough time letting go because he is guilty, and even if its not the guilt, its very natural for him to find it hard to let go. She has been with him for long and just because he does not feel the same way does not mean he wants her out of his life. He just didnt want a romantic relationship, I am sure he still wants her as his friend. She has turned out to be someone who is very mature and sound of reality.

I find comfort in thinking if he is so concerned about Lavanya, whom he takes as a very good friend and respects, imagine if Kushi was leaving, how restless would he be :)

i absolutely agree with teesha, if ASR is showing so much concern for La it is a good think, it means he is aware that he has hurt her, and is sorry. so imagine how much he feels when he hurts Khushi who he cant bare to see in tears. it must be tearing him inside to see her in pain. this sensitive side of Arnav is needed so that when he come to know about Shayams Duplicity. he will know that khushi is not at fault and will stand by her or will loose her forever which would be unbearable to him. Keep it up ASR

Originally posted by: hirushinz

I have the same question. While I noticed some of your posts raised valid questions, I don't understand how you want Arnav to act.

You had a problem when he was man handling Kushi. You had problem when he harboured/showed feelings for Kushi while being engaged to La (which I agree is not sound)

Now when he finally realised that he's not being fair to La and break things off with her, you again have a problem. Is it not right to be civil to your ex fiancee and inquire about her plans? Afterall she was his responsibilty until one day back. If something happenes to her, Arnav would be blamed for not taking care of her.

Or do you want the manhandling ASR back and drag Lavanya out of the house and tell her never to step inside again?

I'm sorry I might sound harsh but you got to decide how you want Arnav to behave.

Originally posted by: zainza

Exactly! They could have just delivered the dialogues( they were good) but I also didn't like the tears in Arnav's eyes...since when did they start coming so easily.I know he felt bad for Lavanya, but as callous as he was towards her, he should have just felt regret for tagging her along, not deep grief or sorrow, as if he is losing someone very important. ASR and La never had that kind of bonding.

Exactly...that's the reason for me...ASR and LA never had a relationship that close...

Originally posted by: icebraker

<font face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" size="3">Anu,</font>

<font face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" size="3">I usually read all of ur posts and find them really unique. I
know u want ASR to be perfect. Even if Khushi accepst him with his faults but u
wont. U hate him, hate him so much that u have fallen for him and u have fallen
hard that why u mixed up fiction with reality.</font>

<font face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" size="3">U want ASR to live up with urexpectations not khushi's. So no matter what
he does will never be good enough for u. Ur pyaar for ASR make me say "Iss pyaar
ko kya naam du".</font>

<font face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" size="3"></font>

I can never like a character who is abusive towards women and ASR is...it's personal for me becausing I work towards putting bad guys behind bars. ASR is a character is been repeatedly glorified and I find it disgusting.

Anyways...it's my pov and I am entitled to it.

its not that i'm mad at arnav for being concerned towards LA. Its portrayed in a very realistic manner and you empathize with both characters..with LA whose hearts breaking and with Arnav who is beyond guilty and remorseful for his action. It shows him growing up, being responsible for his actions and realizing that his actions do in fact affect other people. Its just hard to see him hug LA in such an emotional way and be compassionate towards her when we havent seen him be that way with khushi. I guess thats what makes me frustrated.

Well, he's really confused when it comes to Khushi. and technically he has known La for longer. they were supposed to get engaged! He's afraid of being close to Khushi because of whatever happened in his past. I remember him saying "even If i feel something liike that for someone, i'll stay away from her" to Anjali. We'll see some passionate hugs between them soon, im sure ;)

What is going on here? So much of forum rule breaking, I've repeated myself several of times READ THE FORUM RULES BEFORE POSTING.

Members have turned this thread to a messy thread and a thread where nothing but unhealthy discussions are taking place. This thread is full of personal remarks/attacks/bashing/instigating posts and is a mess.

This is an open forum, EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO POST THEIR POV but in a sensible manner, which means having sensible discussions.

I need to review this thread..

Closed.