Why..?

Why are all the greatest love stories on earth just tragedies?

Romeo and Juliet, Laila and Majnu. and all the other classics that come associated with when you think of 'inevitable love'.. Is love that hard to find? or when you find it, is it that hard to win?

Thinking of why Arnav Singh Raizada hates to love and loves to hate, made me wonder if the story of his parents too, was a tragic love story? there have been references to state that it was tragic, but none that say it was a love story. But seeing the man have a heart-felt hate for love feels like he has had some infamous clash with a story of love that left such a scar on him. He has choosen to distance himself from normal humans and dissolve into being a workaholic. And nani said something like : "i've lost your parents already, so i don't want to loose you too?" plus the flashbcks keep hinting to something of this kind. And when someone tries to sympathise with the loss of his parents (read KKG), he feels that noone can feel the way he does..and why not? only he knows what he has gone through..

Did the shocking state of his parents' story leave such an effect on him? or was he born like that? Can he see more to love than just it as a life-destroyer? Can he love more than just the plants in his garden or his dear di? Can his story of love get beyond just romance?(ok inspiration from 'mausam')
Will the girl in his life change his notion towards love? (reference to the girl in his life is not la, by the way) or will it too, just remain a tragedy, like his parents' unconditioned love story?

Hola sinnie...

Its too early for us to decide but his pain n hurt makes me curious about his past...It may b love inclined to a third person or lack of love between his parents may b the reason...

I posted this quote couple of days back in Zain's thread, nevertheless I post it here cos I feel it suits here as well and it reads Arnav's mindset ...

"To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable."

- C.S. Lewis

I m just keeping my fingers crossed...

Nice post !

Originally posted by: cindrella255

Hola sinnie...

Its too early for us to decide but his pain n hurt makes me curious about his past...It may b love inclined to a third person or lack of love between his parents may b the reason...

I posted this quote couple of days back in Zain's thread, nevertheless I post it here cos I feel it suits here as well and it reads Arnav's mindset ...

"To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable."

- C.S. Lewis

I m just keeping my fingers crossed...

Nice post !

how i thought you would be the 1st person to answer this!!😆😳🤗
i know its too early on the day to talk about it,, but just gor thinking you know.
wondeful lines by lewis, eh? so u did get reading? thats the case with arnav, he has given himself to the plants!.. i wish those last lines would be true for arhi..

btw, whats the forum, huh? i am MIA for one single day, and looks like barunomia has swept across😆.. its all in the man SOBTI!! 😍

i think khushi will change all that for him..😳😍

Originally posted by: srinijha

i think khushi will change all that for him..😳😍

yes, thats the main idea i guess, that how one bubbly lucknow girl can change the very nature of this powerful, 'heartless' man

nice point 👏 maybe why arnav really hates love is because his parents story did not have a happy ending

@ sinnie - Thanks for having faith!😆
I do read sinnie...I said nah...Its only Romance from which I keep myself away...
Btw, I don know anything about Lewis except for Chronicles of Narnia...This quote I accidentally stumbled on while searching something else😆

Barunomia at its peak for sure! pataa nahi aage kya kya hoga!

Originally posted by: sanjanashaika

nice point 👏 maybe why arnav really hates love is because his parents story did not have a happy ending

thanx hun, yep thats what it feels like, coz they keep showing these flashbacks and thats why i got thinking😆

Originally posted by: cindrella255

Hola sinnie...

Its too early for us to decide but his pain n hurt makes me curious about his past...It may b love inclined to a third person or lack of love between his parents may b the reason...

I posted this quote couple of days back in Zain's thread, nevertheless I post it here cos I feel it suits here as well and it reads Arnav's mindset ...

"To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable."

- C.S. Lewis

I m just keeping my fingers crossed...

Nice post !

Wow !! Beautiful Quote, Sharmi ..

I would take it in another way, Sharmi... I would say that Arnav's heart which had become impenetrable , Irredeemable is being changed although the process is so slow that even the ever alert ASR is not aware that his heart , the brittle heart that he had kept locked in a deepest, darkest dungeon has found a ray of light and his heart is basking in that light, seeking it avidly if the light even moves away from it ..Unbeknownst to him, His heart is becoming soft malleable , penetrable and redeemable ...



@ Sindhu ,

we can all speculate about His parents tragic history etc etc,, A thought strikes me what if it is Anjali's tragic past that has brought in the repulsion for love..

Originally posted by: tanthya

@ Sindhu ,

we can all speculate about His parents tragic history etc etc,, A thought strikes me what if it is Anjali's tragic past that has brought in the repulsion for love..

hey sathya, i was just youtubing for the airtel commercial of baruns to put up in ur post!😆
brilliant point sathya!!!!😃 truly, what if both of the parents and anjali;s past had a history of a tragic story, so left a scar on him!! and what could be in the anjali story? hmm.. did she get ditched by someone before marrying shyam?