Love - Unrequited Vs Unexpressed Vs Unadmitted

Page

Next Last

Divya

@mitthoo

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

🤔 Love is a roller-coaster ride indeed.

The three men under Laxmi's (oopsI mean Nanijis's ) roof are going through different emotions..I think this is the direction.. but all 3 will suffer the pangs and go through different stages.

Wonder which one of them will suffer the most ?

ASR is an author backed character (granted Barun is yummy, but the direction of his scenes and reactions does make us root for him as Khushi's soulmate) even though he is in a relationship himself.
Shyam may not have grey shades but right now everything points to him turning sour pretty soon. Aakash will have its own uphill battle.

ASR & love😍😕

Current: Unadmitted (to self) in obvious denial. Will fight attraction once he admits it.
Near Future: Unexpressed
Future : Unrequited (I think Khushi will not fall in love that easily)
Far-away future: returned and together with Khushi (long time comin)

Aakash & love 😭😔

Current: Unexpressed
Near Future: Returned .
Future: together with soulmate Payal after overcoming Mamiji's objections

Shyam & love (Ghar mein Raam ..gali mein shyam.. grrr) 🤬👎🏼
Current: Expressed with looks (but not admitted to anyone else)
Near Future: Unrequited
Future: Revenge

Quote

Frequent Posters

@-RD-

Stunner

+ 9

Posted: 14 years ago

V Nice topic...

The various phases of love
come with a single aim
That which ever phase u go thru
All that comes yr way is pain
But then no pain no gain
Cause u don't see the rainbow
until u haven't danced in the rain

Un admitted love is just like some botheration tht keeps coming and going leaving u confused ...unrequited love is like u atleast even though u didnt get the result u wished for but unexpressed love is the worst phase ...and the lines below

The most painful love there is, is the love left unshown
A love that cannot be expressed, affection left unknown
And the most painful thing about unexpressed love is... it never fades away
the feeling lives on forever ...forever doe sit stay

Edited by rdfan - 14 years ago

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

current

@current

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

I think in terms of suffering ..in the short term Arnav is most likely to suffer..the realisation which is clearly manifesting itself and then going through hell and back..first with his inner demons and then fighting off Khushi's rejection after accepting his attraction...Poor guy..But he has the most to gain..

Shyam in the short term am not sure will gain much at all in terms of Love itself..yes Khushi's respect and possibly Friendship too but has the most to lose..not only Khushi but his wife and then hell to pay with Arnav..

Akash..is a sitting duck as far as I am concerned for someone to come along and hit him hard..read..Cupid..to motivate him enough to make a first move..

Great post..

Pooji..Maar Daala...Yaar kiya poetry hai..Yaar aap key rooh main and saans mein poetry hai...Bahut aala..👏👏👏👏

Edited by current - 14 years ago

Quote

Sejal

@-Leah-

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

I think Khushi will fall for Arnav more easily that he will admit and commit himself to her.I may be wrong here but just the way the story is and with the episodes I have seen thus far Khushi is free to fall in love once she opens her heart..once the animosity and hatred between them subsides she is more likely to give in to him than he is to her.Arnav has issues and with his past taking the toll his love life is affected.He will want to be with her but for various reasons cannot,reasons which are still a mystery to us.Khushi carries no such baggage,atleast not now.She is open to the idea of marriage,to falling in love but I feel it will be Arnavs rejection which will be a spoke in the wheel.

As far as the other two males you are bang on.!

Quote

..Anita..

@..Anita..

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

I like you post, i think your bang on about akash and shyam. but as for arnav i think khushi if fall easily for arnav after everything is clear up but arnav will have a hard time admit his love because his ego won't allow him to, and said if did fall in love he will go far away, so i feel if he does realize it, he will distance himself from khushi or do something that will make her hate him.

Quote

Sunaina Mitra

@sunaina02

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

I am not bothered about Akash and Shyam . Akash is a simple person and I dont think there will be any drama in this Akash - Payal relationship before marriage. After marriage it may have has Saas Bahu angleI dont know why but Shyam never interests me .

ASR's love is the most interesting part . His character is not a simple one and has many layers to it . Why is he taking so much time to realize his love? What is his reason to maintain the relationship with Laanya when he is not attracted towards her ( he never responds to Lav's advances) .

I guess ASR will realize his love for Khushi first but will keep on resisting it . But once Khushi realizes her love - she will confess and will not resist it .

ASR will realize it first but khushi will be the first one to confess.

Quote

Vistaa

@Vistaa

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

Hey Girl...you are on a roll...😆...such wonderful posts👏👏

Roller coaster indeed.

As far as Arnav-Khushi love story is concerned, I am going by the pre-launch promo where she says "kaash mein tumse nafrat kar paati" and he says "mohabbat dard banke in aankhon mein basti hai" ...haaayyyee💔...and "Kaash mein tumse mohabbat kar paata". Also, recently he tells Anjali that even if he finds the girl who leaves him breathless, he will stay away from her because he doesn't let his heart overrule his mind.

All of this indicates that :

1) Once Khushi realizes, she won't resist...she may or may not confess to him, but she will definitely accept her heart's call to herself.

2) Arnav will take a very long time to confess to Khushi.

Bottomline to me is that although their love for each other may at some stage be unexpressed or unadmitted, but at no time will it be unrequited.

Quote

bikerider

@bikerider

Inactive

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: asr4ever
🤔 Love is a roller-coaster ride indeed.

The three men under Laxmi's (oopsI mean Nanijis's ) roof are going through different emotions..I think this is the direction.. but all 3 will suffer the pangs and go through different stages.

hehe good point 👏👏 3 men 😆😉

Wonder which one of them will suffer the most ?

ofcourse Arnav 😭😭😭 i am ready to shed buckets of tears 😆😉

ASR is an author backed character (granted Barun is yummy, but the direction of his scenes and reactions does make us root for him as Khushi's soulmate) even though he is in a relationship himself.

@bold, yes it is author backed if they are following the novel even if there is alteration to make it daily soap compatible 😳 I agree with you its the whole package that is very yummy for us
a dashing, cute, emotional (though he does not agree) and arrogant what a combination 😉

Shyam may not have grey shades but right now everything points to him turning sour pretty soon. Aakash will have its own uphill battle.

shyam i still have my fingers crossed that he is kushi's brother 😆😉

ASR & love😍😕

Current: Unadmitted (to self) in obvious denial. Will fight attraction once he admits it.
Near Future: Unexpressed
Future : Unrequited (I think Khushi will not fall in love that easily)
Far-away future: returned and together with Khushi (long time comin)
I guess kushi will love him back, its him who is running away and will remain so
and is biggest looser because of his ego

Aakash & love 😭😔

Current: Unexpressed
Near Future: Returned .
Future: together with soulmate Payal after overcoming Mamiji's objections

he is a very slow mover , and bigger hurdle is his own mom 😆😉

Shyam & love (Ghar mein Raam ..gali mein shyam.. grrr) 🤬👎🏼
Current: Expressed with looks (but not admitted to anyone else)
Near Future: Unrequited
Future: Revenge

🤢 i have no comments on him as of now i will leave it to Cvs 😆

Quote

BIackSwan

@BIackSwan

Trailblazer

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

beautiful and a fabulous post 👍🏼

i think su & vista share my pov on this one so it's needless to repeat da same but i must add that in order to see da world war 3 in arnav's heart, trying to fight feelings abt kushi, we need a core ingredient; jealousy!!

he's a cold man who is adamant to fight his feelings and stay away from love. such egoistic, stubborn personality needs an extra push to overcome this battle of passion and feelings. da only way forward is 'jealousy', i think da moment he sees or believes somebody else is interested in kushi or get closer to her at least, his feelings mite enter into a whole new level and that's when he won't resist his mind to rule his heart

therefore, we need third party's assistance to get arnav realize his feelings for kushi. i guess devan will be da cupid between arhi's realization of love

i must agree with u guys cz arnav will be da first to realize his feelings and it'l take some time for kushi to fall for him...

oohh we'v to discuss akash & da pervert too i see?!?!? oh hell im too lazy to waste my time and words on da pervert but as for akash, his only villain in his love story with payal will be maamiji. since everybody including naani will most probably back him up, i doubt if maamiji has a chance to share her 2 cents on akash's love story until he gets married. post marriage we will see da normal saas bahu drama for sure!!!