What chandni means when she says Mere pass mat aana - Page 2

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Posted: 8 years ago
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She subconsciously has accepted him as her husband
So she obeys him and does as he says
But a part of her still wants Indrani to approve of this marriage
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Monday blues.. Office etc,, but only thing good is 5 days of iss pyar ko now :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post. May be she is scared of his touch for a different reason but munda really minded it. kya hai na baat chub gayi and hence the threat and punishment.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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for the first time when chandni met advay at shiv's temple advay enforced her,his touch made her unconformable as advay was stranger for her, plus she is suffering from PSTD so each and every man's touch remind her of that bad accident..

when advay came to haveli for the first time remember he crunched her fingers and she again became nervous as she hates being touch by man...

But situation gets better after she started knowing him slowly...all the little small but romentic things which advay had done for chandni ,simply changed chandni's POV towards man..her heart gets started melting after that [virtual star show which advay arranged for chandni was played major role as girls mostly like chand-taare wala stuffs alot]

We hate man's touch when he is stranger but we started loving his touch after we started loving him...same thing happened with chandni...

Chandni loves being touch by advay as one part of her loving him but she unaware about the fact that how much his touch effects her!

On other hand second part is against all this as more than her feelings she cares about her stepmum's feeling as pp ka rishta and shaadi was so imp for IV even though knowing the fact that PP had bad intensions she said yes for his rishta and this is one the reason she wants to kick advay out from the haveli so she can tie the knot with PP without any hurdles...when she got fake passorts of advay's she felt more powerful as he had all proofs against him that's why she felt strong at that time and she confidently said him 'don't touch me'.

Yes chandni is way more stronger personality it just her overly emotional nature is ruing her life.

Yes indeed advay's touch effects her...big big time effects her but as i said few things like kidnapping accident and immense love for IV and love for her family holds her back...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: jagrutid

I think it's just fear, she went through trauma at one point and that probably haunts her. The thought of anyone touching her is probably a no go.,
I do think a apart of her is aware that she is now married to advay and the way she behaves at the moment is because she and the situation are both very fragile.

Odd the topic abit but When people talk about her being a door mat she isn't she's just aware of her reality at this time.
Her hurt
Her fear and dare I say she hopes for things to turn around for the better because somewhere she knows advay is still miles better than that pp.
I do think she's attracted to advay also think the wedding means more to her than just a way to keep a secret.
When advay is seen overpowering her it's not just fear that comes across she responds to him like a wife. (A little bit oppressed but you get my point)


She is not comfortable to touches
But she hugged Advay in trauma
So her subconscious finds him safe
She knows this is a hate marriage too
She will try her best to adjust with Advay
As you said she knows he is far better than PP
She obeys Advay now as she is his wife
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neelum.drashti

Nice post. May be she is scared of his touch for a different reason but munda really minded it. kya hai na baat chub gayi and hence the threat and punishment.


Usko gussa aaya ki Chandni ko lagta hai ki woh PP jaisa hai
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well said Jenisha
A part of her is attracted to Advay
And is affected by his touch
A part of her wants Indrani's love
A part of her is waiting for Dev
So all these conflicts
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Kisi ne notice kia jab advay ne chandnani ka dupatta hataya she closed her eyes n surrendered herself? M sure if he does continue she won't object as she did in haldi rasam! When he comes closer she cant credit wat even she is doing..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes it is like her heart makes her surrender to him
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20
Oh God, I hope they just romance. And advay goes wow seeing her in her awesome designer lehenga

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