Akash is not insecure... - Page 2

I totally agree with you Fatima.

Humility and good attitude towards others is most important than a dazzling resume😊

If he cannot control his temper, he should not have agreed to live with people for 2 mths!

One has to adjust when living with people. We adjust with roomates, with friends etc. Not everyone agrees to what we say or do. That does not give anyone an authority to throw their weight around.

And yes, he may be the youngest of the family comprising of 8 siblings and he maybe used to having his way, since the youngest child usually gets a lot of attention and pampering. But even then, this does not give him an added advantage and people need not bear his tantrums.

He said that Chetan being his buddy should have stood up for him. Well. knowing that your friend is wrong and still supporting him is blind friendship. A friend should always let the friend know where he errs. And only a true friend would do that.
I am glad Chetan does not agree to his wrong doings😃

To thrive in a community one needs to be amicable else he should put a finger on his mouth and keep quiet. Perhaps, it may not be his fault. Like Mona said what kind of upbringing he has had. he may not have been corrected for any wrong doings as c hild, hence he does not know the difference between what is the right/wrong way. I hope this stay in the jungle makes him realize what his parents should have taught him much before in life.😕

he sure is representing his "well-established" family & his class😵

At the end of the day, its not what you do/did, its all about how you treat people. You will be remembered for the person you were, not for your achievements in life. However high you might have climbed in life, if you have trodden on people and pushed them down they will only remember that about you, not where you reached. And if you go high in life and look down on people, then that speaks very poorly of you as a person. Thinking you are superior to others will only bring you grief in due course. Lessons will be learnt the hard way.

He needs to not just treat his friends right, or respect them 'coz they are 'celebrities', they are people first, his camp mates at the moment whom he has to live and eat with under trying conditions for a month. He has to realize and understand this and learn to control his tongue and anger.

I agree with susan29 who said that there is no point in keeping things to yourself and stewing about something that is bothering you, but there is a way and a right approach. You can't jump on people or hammer on their heads any which way.

The guy is suffering from inferiority complex and that is why he is having the superiority complex and tries to underestimate everyone.

well-established" family my foot.... ppl frm slums can behave and have better manners than him....

and wat s*** abt carrying the show on his shoulders... he was nt they for the first 5yrs of the show... where the show only ran on the name called tulsi.. aka smithi.

Originally posted by: gossipgurls

well-established" family my foot.... ppl frm slums can behave and have better manners than him....

and wat s*** abt carrying the show on his shoulders... he was nt they for the first 5yrs of the show... where the show only ran on the name called tulsi.. aka smithi.

Hmmm....on the contrary I do think he is a little insecure. Why else does he throw his weight around and try so hard to make his presence felt? A secure and confident person will not go to lengths to scream and act out so badly - just for attention. It almost seems like he loves to maintain his "bad boy" image...coz that is what makes him different from the rest of the boys of the Balaji camp.