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Posted: 7 years ago
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We have asked in the past for wrongs to be made right and were never granted any. So now that we have been granted that request, I think I owe an appreciation post to Writer Saheba since I hounded her the most I feel as well. 🤣 🤣🤣

I know it probably will not be read by her but let it not be said that we at the forum here only bash when things go wrong and never praise when they are set right. 😉

I am talking about the 'Tanya meri biwi hai' that turned more than one stomach when it happened, which was addressed today in the most perfect way possible, at least as per me.

It was done simply and without fanfare and that was the beauty of it all. They had a small but mature dialogue and he said all the right things without any comedy or taddi to spoil it. It was a pure husband and wife normal conversation and I for one was thirsting to hear ShivIka have one of those.

His gesture was so simple and straightforward - not the grand ones he is used to making.

He moves his wife's things back to her rightful place in his cupboard beside him and in his room that she shares with him. Perfect prelude to what comes next because he knows it will automatically draw her here in their private space where he will then be able to right the wrong, honestly and from his heart.

And when he did apologize, Shivvay rectified and expressed regret like an everyday normal husband would. He admitted that what he had done was wrong and that he had been foolish enough to take that step. He messed up and he was sorry. Pure and simple words but they were the most effective.

It was addressed by a husband who it seemed was bothered by it for a while because he truly looked like he recognized the hurt it might have caused his wife when he did that. Maybe Annika's words did make their mark when she was upset the other day and maybe he did start thinking about it. Of course that is left for us to assume and I completely get that.

It was a huge mistake, and that would still be an understatement for what he did, but him recognizing that he had been wrong to succumb to Tanya's blackmail and give her Annika's place, respect and identity as his wife, was what was important for him to acknowledge. He righted the wrong by stating that there was place for her and only her in his house, in his room and in his life.

Nothing can beat that Diwali gift in my opinion. Now here's hoping this statement has not come with a 'Good before 15 days' expiry date (like the wedding vows), before another woman waltzes in again wanting to be Mrs. Shivvay Singh Oberoi.

Fingers, toes and eyes crossed. Writer Saheba don't make me eat my words written here!!😆😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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That simple yet meaningful sorry was so sweet. I really liked it. I have a gut feeling the writers do stalk here and got to know how many of us were pissed with that Tanya wife declaration😆
And there she gives this scene. 😆 excited for today's episode😳

Awesome post 👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ufff as always we are shivaay home girls - what a heart stealer today

And pearl as always making me come to IF just with her amazing write up (insert horrified but I love how you express our thoughts gif if it exists 😉 )
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I like the fact he acknowledge the stupidity and apologized for it. Simple and to the point. I loved the end of your post because I'm thinking the same thing who knows how long this will last before the writers decide to give us the next blackmail Shivaay track😆


Every woman that comes doesn't have to be Shivaay's fake wife or fake fiancee. Not every man that comes in the show has to be a manipulative psycho like Daksh and Ajay. Some variety and better setup for the conflicts would do wonders for the show and our patience 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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That simple yet meaningful sorry was so sweet. I really liked it. Me too ... 'My Boy' made me very proud today ... as a Shivvay fan you have no idea how this feels ...lol

I have a gut feeling the writers do stalk here and got to know how many of us were pissed with that Tanya wife declaration😆 If they do then they are wise because we give honest opinions ... we don't get paid or recognized for what we express here ... it is the honest truth

And there she gives this scene. 😆 yes.. I was quite surprised actually - pleasantly surprised for a change mind you 🤣🤣
excited for today's episode😳 ShivIka romance is good but what i got today was better ... I am happy with today's episode - tomorrows is just the icing on the cake
The matter and the substance of the relationship was shown today

Awesome post 👏 TY

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ufff as always we are shivaay home girls - Oh Yeah Ruzzie ... all the way love - all the way 😳❤️

what a heart stealer today Yup... the words he spoke is more than a dozen romantic scenes for me
👍🏼

And pearl as always making me come to IF just with her amazing write up (insert horrified but I love how you express our thoughts gif if it exists
😉 lol Ruzzie ... you are a cutie ... but the truth is you love to hear praises of Shivvay 😆😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Truly speaking - I was waiting for a post from both U and Anisa. Ur post is here. More Glad...

The apology was actually unexpected!!! I hope the half an hour slot will produce crispy writing instead dragging, what we were experiencing since the Mahasangam episodes. OMG, 5 months of drag, I can't believe I have been so much patient. 😆 😆

P.s: the last two stanza cracked me up. Ur words reminded of my husband's - he always says, when I reprimand u, for two days u will b perfectly fine, from the third day, u r back to square one 🤣 🤣
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: yellomellow

I like the fact he acknowledge the stupidity and apologized for it. Simple and to the point.
Yes ... thank the Gods for that ... they did not make a 'song and dance' about it or use unnecessary emotions on Annika ... I liked her response as well
She did not stop him from apologizing this time like she always would... that means she needed to hear this from him but at the same time she did not drag the topic as she realized that he understood at last what she felt ... this is a normal wife reaction ... this silence of neither acknowledging or refuting means that he better not repeat it ever again.
Perfect scene and perfect dialogues 👏 Not to less and not too much

I loved the end of your post because I'm thinking the same thing who knows how long this will last before the writers decide to give us the next blackmail Shivaay track😆 That unfortunately, with Writer Saheba, has no guarantee 😆


Every woman that comes doesn't have to be Shivaay's fake wife or fake fiancee. Not every man that comes in the show has to be a manipulative psycho like Daksh and Ajay. Some variety and better setup for the conflicts would do wonders for the show and our patience 😆 Exactly ... and this itself proves that Writer Saheba is talented when she puts her mind to it 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Truly speaking - I was waiting for a post from both U and Anisa. Ur post is here. More Glad... lol ... yeah seems I beat Anisa but maybe she will make one tomorrow ... the romantic stuff she is good at ... I am the 'fact and figures' kinda writer most times except for my FF


The apology was actually unexpected!!! I hope the half an hour slot will produce crispy writing instead dragging, what we were experiencing since the Mahasangam episodes. OMG, 5 months of drag, I can't believe I have been so much patient. 😆 😆 Yes the apology was 'gold' in my opinion and a perfect prelude to enjoy ShivIka better from here on ... no bitter thoughts as he has washed those away ... I am hoping that as well ... and a break from Vamps and Villains that want to marry someone or the other from OM ...lol 🤣


P.s: the last two stanza cracked me up. Ur words reminded of my husband's - he always says, when I reprimand u, for two days u will b perfectly fine, from the third day, u r back to square one
🤣 🤣 lol ... that is adorbs 😆😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Nice post.. completely agree, if we criticize bad things we must acknowledge good things too. And give to due credit.

A lot of times the "tracks" or "arcs" are not closed leaving an unpleasant feeling about the characters.
We don't know what will happen to the 'raaz' as a whole, but atleast Tanya part is resolved. He made a mistake, acknokedged it, apologized for it n rectified it by shifting her back to THEIR room.
My only issue now is, please start saying OUR family, OUR home, OUR room etc.
When you have been married for a while & in love the word "hamara" comes naturally.
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