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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL am I the only one who doesn't see any reason to get all upset over this spoiler about them signing the divorce papers? 😆

As I already stated, they are so beyond questions of labels, what, when, why...


Even when the divorce papers first came up, Om himself said, their relationship exists beyond a piece of paper and it's not hostage to that...and didn't Tej mention today that the divorce will still take 6 months to be finalized after signing the papers?


LOL they can sign the papers, heck even finalize the divorce and nothing will change...they are already too far gone in how attached they are to each other...all this presents is just another means for them to cry in judaai briefly before finding a way to be together again😆...this show just doesn't know how to keep Anika out of OM or Shivaay's life...they find a way to come back to each other.


Anyways, I guess it's just me...I want to see this latest "angsty" twist and how these two cry...haha ab toh Shivaay aur bhi struggle karega no matter how cold he tries to act😆



This

aur papers ka kia hai kabhi bhi.also padhe ja sakte hain😉 having said that am actually excited for the judaai track too esp from him he'll realize how much her presence matters to him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Pinki itni pagla gayi hain pota/poti ki muh dekhne ke liye ki ab toh when that much coveted baby takes its birth sans her billu's kanji ankh and with all of Robin wala grumpy features, tab jaake unki dimag ki batti jalegi ! what the wuck woman. stand by your son when he needs your support the most!!😡

no wonder, puri show billu use ingore karta raha aur yeh gana gaati rahi meri koi sunti i nehi !! she must have done same stupid nautanki before, issliye shivay ko adat hogaye hain not now mom bolne ka.
Edited by milinda.shreyz - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL am I the only one who doesn't see any reason to get all upset over this spoiler about them signing the divorce papers? 😆



Anyways, I guess it's just me...I want to see this latest "angsty" twist and how these two cry...haha ab toh Shivaay aur bhi struggle karega no matter how cold he tries to act😆



Nope !! you are not the only one. I am rooting for it too and I am aware a lot of like-minded people here are doing the same.we have one wicked sadistic soul here!


And before you wonder who the hell am I, dropping on your thread out of blue, let me tell you I am a regular stalker of your post threads, I wait for them to come up. waise toh I am a silent reader but aj maan kiya toh samne aake sukriyada karrahi hoon. your and geet's posts are the reasons I visit this forum regularly. Thank you for your lovely analytical posts...and you know what I appreciate the most, itz the unbiased stance you take while writing, they are never pro/anti-shivay / Anika. Neither there are any unnecessary patriarchy vs feminism drama...what honestly you feel while watching,you just dip your ink in it and write...may be thatz why they come across as genuine emotions straight from heart. Thanks a lot again...keep writing !
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL am I the only one who doesn't see any reason to get all upset over this spoiler about them signing the divorce papers?😆

As I already stated, they are so beyond questions of labels, what, when, why...


Even when the divorce papers first came up, Om himself said, their relationship exists beyond a piece of paper and it's not hostage to that...and didn't Tej mention today that the divorce will still take 6 months to be finalized after signing the papers?


LOL they can sign the papers, heck even finalize the divorce and nothing will change...they are already too far gone in how attached they are to each other...all this presents is just another means for them to cry in judaai briefly before finding a way to be together again😆...this show just doesn't know how to keep Anika out of OM or Shivaay's life...they find a way to come back to each other.


Anyways, I guess it's just me...I want to see this latest "angsty" twist and how these two cry...haha ab toh Shivaay aur bhi struggle karega no matter how cold he tries to act😆

Oh no no no buddy, u r not alone. I am with you in this. Somewhere down the line we just keep forgetting that this is not Anika's or even ShivIka's story, but it is Shivaay's story.

Now what's funny about this is he is one hell of a flawed character & over that he is the protagonist.People find it difficult to relate or defend him bcoz he is not the sobbing, crying, sacrificing person. People defend Anika & hate him for that. Bcoz Anika is what we have been served on a platter till now as a protagonist & have been habitual to relate to.

It would be fun to see him go through the hell he deserves & come out better. Of course Anika will have to go through that too with only one fault on her name, that she fell irrevocably in love with Shivaay.

We have one hell of a angsty ride in front of us. And like u said the sadists in us are gonna be so so happy!
Edited by poemssyndrome - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#25
Completely agree the button scene was the best. I like how they switched it and made it different. The subtle hint about her past was nice too.

Pinky is in for a lot of surprises 😆

I don't feel bad about his situation because he did this to himself, but I do feel bad for him in regards to his mom. She doesn't even support him or question Tia even after his protests and obvious discomfort. No wonder they don't have a relationship. She clearly doesn't know him at all. She only cares about him being the heir and making sure he is ahead of Omru at any cost.

I love angst so I'm actually liking all the drama with the divorce. He is innocent, but can't prove it and now someone else is making decisions for him. Anika is a sweetheart so of course she wants to help especially since she knows the real Tia. The truth is she is emotionally stronger than him and doesn't care what society thinks of her. All that matters to him is his family and his reputation I wouldn't be surprised or blame him if he caved to Tia's demands. A separation would make for some amazing angst so I'm happy with the divorce 😆

There is so much unresolved conflict between them with the Daksh misunderstanding, the forced wedding and now we have the divorce too. It didn't last long, but I liked the way they put aside their differences and wanted to work together. Whether they sign the papers or not doesn't matter anymore.

A plus about this pregnancy track is his straight-forwardness and his genuine W*F faces. He is legit confused and you can see him trying to find the logic in her story 😆
Edited by yellomellow - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: milinda.shreyz



Nope !! you are not the only one. I am rooting for it too and I am aware a lot of like-minded people here are doing the same.we have one wicked sadistic soul here!


And before you wonder who the hell am I, dropping on your thread out of blue, let me tell you I am a regular stalker of your post threads, I wait for them to come up. waise toh I am a silent reader but aj maan kiya toh samne aake sukriyada karrahi hoon. your and geet's posts are the reasons I visit this forum regularly. Thank you for your lovely analytical posts...and you know what I appreciate the most, itz the unbiased stance you take while writing, they are never pro/anti-shivay / Anika. Neither there are any unnecessary patriarchy vs feminism drama...what honestly you feel while watching,you just dip your ink in it and write...may be thatz why they come across as genuine emotions straight from heart. Thanks a lot again...keep writing !



Hey thanks! LOL I honestly think this show isn't meant to be taken seriously enough to start crusades over...I write cuz I'm enjoying character interactions. Thanks for the appreciation :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: sinamika

word. the tenderness ,softness and comfort in bohat he scenes was applause worthy. dil ko chu gayi bas. as you guys said it's only are to see this these days. the care for each other is such a delight to watch.loved loved loved the button scene and how he realized why she was doing it and then the slight touch of humour there with her not understanding the English and him going tumhein kuch samjhe nahi aaya in that soft voice.

the mutual understanding is again such a plus. these days they don't even need words. I loved how he sushed pinky and said she is by my side when you aren't.


and yeah props to team for not making it clichd.

also nayi soch ftw how often it is that we get to see the guy sewing his own button and it was so subtly done withhout making tall claims . truly refreshing



Aww that was a sweet bit...I loved it too...NM and SC do these bits very naturally together...the banter doesn't feel forced...it flows organically.


LOL yes, definitely nayi soch on a hero for once managing to sew his own button khade khade hi onto his own shirt😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: geet.a

Hello loves!

I only saw the button scene and really really liked it for the softness in their tone. They manage to add friendship and equality in romance which is so rarely seen in tv shows. The way shivaay tried to make amends after that subtly powerful way in which anika just threw her bachpan ka isolation at him, in such an offhand manner. What a slight but significant shift in their dynamics!
I really enjoyed their conversation too and how comfortable they are with each other's proximity.


Shivaay's 'button body pe nahi lagana' dialogue cracked me up so bad.

Yeh scene bhi insta pe hi dekha tha maine.

Anu, i totally agree with you about the cocoon, the comfort, the way in which anika's heart expands to absorb all of shivaay's anger and turmoil. Sure, people can and will call her a doormat, but the fact that she KNOWS what she's doing with proper knowledge that she still wants to help him, is on his side, and is his partner makes those views irrelevant for me. People are reacting out of context as usual, not even bothering to think about the complex elements in anika's character that usually mean more to her than her regular hasi-mazaak bindaas attitude


Some people should be SUED for writing SO badly and I think i should be given an honorary mention in their dissertation. Ugh.



Loved how you put it, Geet...I remember you had explained a couple of weeks back during her reactions to the video being revealed to the family too but it hadn't clicked for me then...feel like it came together much better this week and I've begun to understand this side of Anika better now...SC is playing this side with just the right amount of balance so that Anika never falls into that typical doormat category...there is a strange sense of strength in her even as she softens immensely to absorb all his harsh edges.


I forgot to talk before about that little bit where she mentioned how there was no one there to teach her how to sew a button...it was a surprising poignant touch for many reasons...ek toh a heroine is shown always to have this talent by default in every show...so showing an otherwise multi-tasking independent Anika not knowing how to do this one simple thing was a refreshing touch...on top of that showing the Mr. SSO who goes around turning his nose up at everything actually knowing how to do a simple house chore like sewing a button...lol it was a sweet touch...I suppose I shouldn't be surprised given how homely this guy is in the kitchen too...sabke liye khaana banaata hai😆...anyways back to that actual bit where she mentions that there was no one to teach her...and as you said, he so subtly managed to shift the topic away from the ache of loneliness she expressed there on to a lighter vibe...something sweet about it...


This is their equation na...she will distract him in such a roundabout manner, breaking off his button, taking off on tangents about darzis in her gali...and he will take her mind off her lonely past by switching to their conversational banter too...


That said, it would be nice to see that curious Shivaay back at some point who badly wants to know her past, what makes her tick...hopefully once they are past this Tia drama, it might happen...there are so many things he needs to know...and so do we...the reason for Anika's lack of faith in God, her struggles, her past, her beliefs beyond the light hearted hassi mazaak...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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In these past few episodes, I'm getting this sense that Shivaay and Anika have been playing "house" and have frankly gotten used to their little world and haven't yet realized they need to return to reality. the divorce drama is a good start😆 I'm glad that they've signed the divorce papers...excluding the Shivika feels that we've been getting, this is a pointless marriage for both of them. His KKN is very much intact, to the point that Anika alone is not enough for him yet...so at this point, she really shouldn't be with him. Right now, it's just puppy eyes and "baat karo mujhse"..this girl deserves much better than what she's getting.

And also don't forget their lame shaadi sequence (who could lol). They need to remarry just to save face with their offspring😆 Like what were they even going to tell their future kids/grandkids?...like 'oh yeah I just blackmailed your mom into getting married, hid her face from public view, and then told the world another woman was my wife'...yeahhh sooo romantic, not😆

A judaai track would be SO MUCH FUN! If shaadi-waala-din Shivaay felt living with Anika was going to be torture, then living without her will be so UNBEARABLE...especially after she has started to form the "Great Wall" to his moronic brains...good luck dude on dealing with the future separation😆Anika toh, she'll be sad, but she's the stronger one, and so if need be, she'll be able to put up a strong front and move on. Shivaay I predict will go bonkers😆




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Posted: 8 years ago
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The button scene was really nice, she was the one who didn't know what she was doing, he buttoned his own shirt with full on tadi, and there was no prolonged lame eye-lock. especially since they highlighted that there are things that Anika doesn't know because there wasn't someone around to really guide her. The way they both distracted each other was very cute. And Anika's English...I have no doubt she will one day be fluent, but her English will be even more khidkitod than Pinky's🤣

The tabasco allergy was interesting...had no idea they mixed that with drinks. I liked that Shivaay returned to being a petulant child for a bit and then quickly realized he was way over line and politely had a discussion with Anika with how he is feeling. It's been mentioned in previous posts, but I also agree, I really like the tone that both NM and SC have been using for Shivika in their quiet moments together...it seems like a real husband-wife speaking to each other...it's very sensual and you can tell they're really connecting so much more with each other

I don't get the extremes in this forum anyhoo because to me Anika doesn't seem to be a doormat by any means (especially when compared with other telly soaps). Even after realizing her love for Shivaay, she never really moped around with the thoughts that he doesn't love her for example...

I had this thought today during the episode that if OmRu were here to observe this changed dynamic, the first thing they would exclaim is "Ye ho kya raha hai?!"😆😆...pity they aren't

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