Let's clear it all About Anika!!!Here

Anika is a part of family and OmRu shares a special bond with Anika, what don't like is her becoming mahaaan in everything, yes I agree with the point that obros must have sorted out all that by themselves without Anika's influencing them because that's the base of their bond, Sadiyon se hai yeh waasta, hai rooh ka raabta" this waasta and raabta was between them before Anika happened to oberois, so the scenario would be interesting if ShivOmRu only sorting this all out.
Anika is part of family and as a family member now she will always be there in all good and bad times, what I don't like is, particularly at this stage, when Shivaay has accused of her being characterless,how did she forget he told her at the wedding day that she sleep with other guys for money, then he kept saying tumhari ghatiya harkatein, then yesterday when Anika said muje shaadi karni padi, SSO said haan jo bhi, even after all this she still became mahaan saying insaan ghalat nahi, it was disappointing that it came from Anika, I agree she cannot remain indifferent from what's going on but then there must also be the correct choice of words or silence what have been better in yesterday's episode, she must have taken sahil to some place alone to make him understand the situation but as far as the elders of the house are concerned there was no need for her to favor shivaay to this extent, yes I will call it favor, it was like she has already forgiven Shivaay without him showing the slightest signs of being apologetic, anika does not even clearly know now that shivaay is thinking still so low about her, if anika wanted to make things right she could have done that subtly without influencing Obros so much, these two things are connected with each other, it's like she has already forgotten the insult and pain she was put through by shivaay and the only thing that matters to her is that she's the bahu of Oberoi family.


I believe that's the thing which many must be thinking and are disappointing why anika is trying to become so mahaan which is indeed frustrating.

Mallu

It could also be that she just didn't want this to be dragged...like she has resigned herself about whatever happened ...now the rest need not break because of her...somewhere yet she still has some kind of soft corner for him or it could be her years of loneliness that makes her heart turn when another person is lonely...

arey e gul mata ki show hai logic window ki bahar and female lead has no self respect punching bag,poking nose mayan atma and star plus super bahu who forgives and embrace hero and live happy every after

Originally posted by: Bsangama

arey e gul mata ki show hai logic window ki bahar and female lead has no self respect punching bag and forgives and embrace hero and live happy every after .

as person sometimes it becomes impossible to relate to somethings, having a soft corner for someone is understandable but itna soft kay sab aapko insult krna shuru kardey and you still don't care.

Originally posted by: -LetItGo-

as person sometimes it becomes impossible to relate to somethings, having a soft corner for someone is understandable but itna soft kay sab aapko insult krna shuru kardey and you still don't care.

Anika is just as complex as Shivaay when she is with him all alone she fight with him and give it back to him but when she's around the family she either keep quiet or she defend him. I don't think she forgive him at all but she just don't want to see his family against him she feel whatever happened is between him and her only.

Originally posted by: Simplypriceless

Anika is just as complex as Shivaay when she is with him all alone she fight with him and give it back to him but when she's around the family she either keep quiet or she defend him. I don't think she forgive him at all but she just don't want to see his family against him she feel whatever happened is between him and her only.

hmmm that can be one good reason, but it can still be shown in a subtle way, like anika is here doing the magic but magical ways are hidden something like that and then she will never be called a mahan or saint, as much as I hate to say it, sometime I do say it out of frustration.

See I am quite not sure what I feel about today so this might seem a little haphazard.
Anika is a orphan with a brother who means world to her. She meets a family, slightly broken but something she knows she will never have. She falls in love with them & they love her back too. She meets a man who has this family & who truly values his family. He is a tad bit difficult to handle & a little slow. She fights with him, they have their quarrels & slowly she things he is annoying yet good.
He thinks low of her & that hurts her but even after knowing what he is, she falls in love with him. He loves her, she knows that too. It's like a unsaid deal between them. She wants him to confess. He doesn't but while asking him to do that she herself confesses her feelings. Not through words but through her actions. She doesnot expects anything from this relationship. But she truly loves him. Bcoz even when he rejected her she couldn't stop herself from putting some sense in him when he went all sorts of crazy.
He did something terrible to her. And a little more terrible again. She said it herself. He stripped her off her dignity, used her weaknesses against her, made decisions for her. She was put through a decision. She chose to accept what was served to her.
Whatever marriage, divorce, humiliation & now when everything is out there, support & apologies. But you can't deny any where that she loved him. So maybe seeing him alone, what she had been for most of her life, without his family, she decides to approach these people & ask them to just understand him for once. Here I feel she sympathizes with him. This is not sane & I agree to it.Call it Stockholm Syndrome. Call it just a toxic relationship.
We cannot deny the fact that she loves him & it is so apparent she can't see him in pain. She is angry with him for what he did to her. But that's between them to solve. As she said today.
so if you ask me what if I was in her place, or some friend of mine. Well I will seek therapy & ask my friend to do that. Bcoz right now he is in no state to reciprocate what she feels neither he is any way sorry for what he did. So she is gonna end up giving, always & he is gonna end up taking till the point where one of them are tired. The relationship is currently, till Shivaay's ego breaks & he redeems himself a toxic one. And Anika doesn't mind staying in it which we can definitely see & it drives us crazy.
It's just that we feel bad about her bcoz we see that friend in her who is ruining her own life.

on serious note--anika is matured enough to know the value of family because she was orphan and adopted kid herself ..