Hostile treatment for those who disagree/or have different opinion

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Posted: 8 years ago
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For a long time I have been silent on this issue but now I think that for once I should give voice to my words, you must be thinking that I am speaking because of my personal experience, yes actually I am speaking because of my personal experience, why lashing out those who don't agree??? I used to be a very active member of IB forum but so many have started to behave indifferently because I did not agree with them on certain tracks of the show and other secondary issues (other then characters and story line etc).

I believe as long as I don't cross my line which means bashing and lashing out people , for e.g I saw a post yesterday of a member who was sharing her/his views about the recent bride swap track and was lashed out for making the topic, I am not going to mention any name because I think it will only make the matters worse, if a person is showing his/her disagreement over a story track or character , is that a crime???

there are many few people who truly respects your opinion but there are unfortunately the majority of those who just ignore you as your disagreement is rubbish and has no reason behind it, the positive response makes everyone happy but negative makes you a hostile and indifferent towards the one who dare to disagree.

Probably everyone has forgotten that, as viewers we have right for both to appreciate and to criticize , you are disappointed too because you are an ardent fan of the show and you share your views good or bad.

I can't say anything about the future of this post, not having my hopes up as well, I have written only what was bothering me from a very long time.

Mallu

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very true.mostly i am a silent stalker in dis forum bc i got my dose long bf.cant say anthing. so now a days i uses ginsta.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

Very true.mostly i am a silent stalker in dis forum bc i got my dose long bf.cant say anthing. so now a days i uses ginsta.



I know your feeling.
I believe the mention of bad experiences will not do any good.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -LetItGo-



I believe as long as I don't cross my line which means bashing and lashing out people , for e.g I saw a post yesterday of a member who was sharing her/his views about the recent bride swap track and was lashed out for making the topic, I am not going to mention any name because I think it will only make the matters worse, if a person is showing his/her disagreement over a story track or character , is that a crime???



I know that post and the kinda reply the person got...actually true and I agree...people themselves are going crazy making theories and predictions but cannot take it wen others do the same!

Everyone is acting like a Mod here and Moral Policing on full spree but can't tolerate others also having an opinion.

INTOLERANCE ho gaya yeh to !!! 😆
Edited by Crazy4Mayur - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree. People dnt take othrs pov kindly
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with you. All have a right to their openion and I always try to respect people's views . Offcourse mistakes happen
I dint remember which thread you are talking about and whether I have commented on it but yes people should be polite in replies

About ignoring . Sometimes people avoid threads to avoid arguments ,

Also i would like to say that at the moment people are so frustrated doe to the wedding twists everyday that maybe that caused them to be rude

Not taking sides , I don't even know which thread you are talking about but the thought of bride swap is so frustrating and frustration breeds anger so may be that had a bearing on replies ???

Anyways if I have ever hurt anyone I apologise because I sincerely believe in respecting everyone

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Crazy4Mayur



I know that post and the kinda reply the person got...actually true and I agree...people themselves are going crazy making theories and predictions but cannot take it wen others do the same!

Everyone is acting like a Mod here and Moral Policing on full spree but can't tolerate others also having an opinion.

INTOLERANCE ho gaya yeh to !!! 😆



eeeks neha intolerance, aray aray dekho aapko koi twitter acc pe bash toh nhi kr raha intolerance word use krnay ke liye😆😆

thanks neha for understanding😊

Mallu
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Mallu yaar kya awesome post hai..
Disagree karne ka bhi ek tareeka hota hai
The fact that we all dont have similar opinions mks d convo interesting. Sharp comments n ol r nt really necessary jab polietly disagree kar sakte hai lekin nahi
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Spot on Mallu. *raised hands emoji*
I mean there is a way to criticise, but why even criticise; it's person's own point of view and it should be respected. Yes you can try to change by convincing that person in a polite manner.
Lekin Nhe.. bharke begair kaam he Nhe chale ga.

Thank you so much for this post. 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Illuminati07

Mallu yaar kya awesome post hai..

Disagree karne ka bhi ek tareeka hota hai
The fact that we all dont have similar opinions mks d convo interesting. Sharp comments n ol r nt really necessary jab polietly disagree kar sakte hai lekin nahi



thankyou so much for appreciating my views
in bold: nailed it👍🏼

instead of making disagreements interesting the thread is turned into a battlefield instead.

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