My POV: Baap Baap hota hai Beta Beta hota hai...(today epi)

Hello my friends!

How are u all? Chalo...Time for my POV.

(For new ppl: Before start I will say I'm very bad describe my feelings...But again I want to say something..Hope u guys will undstnd😳😆)

Lets go...😳 I hope u will read it😳
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"Each father wants their sons to be just like them, really. "


So..Yes...Today I will write about father-son relationship.

"What was always incomprehensible to me was your total lack of feeling for the suffering and shame you could inflict on me with your words and judgments."


Lets look at Tej and Omkara. Tej is big businessman and he have 2 sons. Like father he wants his sons continued his business. Because Rudra is chota Tej have all hopes on Om. But if Omkara want be a businessman? As we know NO! He is poet, artist and etc, but not a businessman. If you're a businessman ur son cant be artist? Why he should be businessman? It is problem in our world. If Im doctor then my son also should be doctor? Why? Because I want it? But should I care about what my son wants? Yes! Ofcs! But Tej have problem...And for him this problem is SHIVAAY! He certainly doesn't want the whole business went to his nephew. Maybe he think Shivaay will not support his brothers and help them in future or maybe he is really greedy, bad and etc. Tej is not support his son. He not support this brotherhood. No maybe he is support..who know...But again business #1 for him. Sinse we dont know what happend between TejKara in past (I hope CVs will show it) I cant say why Omkara angry at his dad...I feel when Om was a kid Tej didnt gave attention to his son...Fathers willing to be actively involved can play an important role in the lives of their sons. A father is a primary role model, helping his son learn what it means to be a man. But Tej is not role model for Om. I can't do a full analysis of their relationship bcz I dont know about past. I tell about what I see right now. Sometimes I see Om wants a FATHER...He need a FATHER. Sometimes I see Om have hopes that his father changed and he will support him. But no...Tej is Tej. BUSINESS! BUSINESS! Why?! He dont love his son? No...No...I cant say he dont love his son. Every parents love their kids...But not every parents understand their children. Om is so angry and hurt. The unexpressed hurt and anger often transfer onto our love relationships, parenting, challenges at work, and problems with authority. Even if Tej will come and say "Wow Om! Good work! I like this sculpture." Om will be happy...Yes..He will act like "Kya baat hai Mr.Oberoi? I dont need ur praise." and ect...But he will be happy...Bcz every child needs praise from parents. My profession is psychologist. And Im read somewhere about the popular saying, "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree." It is isn't always true. And even when it is, that doesn't always mean dad and son will always see eye to eye. Some sons are simply the polar opposites of their fathers, resulting sometimes in feelings of disappointment on the father's side and rejection on the son's end. Tej should be a FATHER for Om not a BUSINESSMAN!



Then we have Rudra. Like I said Rudra is lil version of Shivaay. He have grey shades as Shivaay, but he also sensitive as Om. Can Rudra be a businessman? I will say YES! Can he be a big businessman as his father and elder bro Shivaay? YES! HE CAN! Can he fulfill his father's dream? AGAIN I WILL SAY YES! Why? Sometimes we dont believe in our sons bcz they are behaving like stupid kids and etc. Tej dont believe in Rudra. (Right now he dont.) But sach yeh hai Rudra is better version of Tej. Why I said it? Maybe bcz I see it. The one in whom we dont believe always prove us wrong. And Rudra will. Now he is Rudy boy...But sometimes we can see MR.RUDRA SINGH OBEROI!



Parents should support their kids dreams (ofcs if this dreams not bad) and they are should understand them. They are should help them fulfill their own dreams.


"Be careful to leave your sons well instructed rather than rich, for the hopes of the instructed are better than the wealth of the ignorant. "

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Chalo...Now I quickly will say about another scenes😳



Daksh...I cant understand his game, Today I felt Daksh's playing CUPID between Annika&Shivaay.He's pushing Shivaay to confess his love. 😲 And he is asking shivaay to listen to his heart. 😲 But why he proposed Annika? He think Annika will say: "No. I love Shivaay"?. Im confused guys...Cant say anything.


RuMya, So Soumya s mom coming and I think their track will be more interesting. 😳



And yes...Finally Ridkara s break-up! She said she did it for him. Like really? She think his dream be CEO?! She really broke his trust.😭 Chalo..It is good. Ridhima chali gayi🤣


And I want to put my fav dialogue:" Om: Kis baat ki khushiyan manao dadi? Mr.Oberoi beta honi ki ya Ridhima barosa karne ki? Shivaay: Mere bhai honi ki. " 😳

And star of today episode. Ms. Rudy Singh Oberoi 🤣 OMG! Rudra tum kya chiz hai?🤣 And we also have Yo Yo Pinki Singh and Badshah Dadi🤣 They are killed me...Their break-up dance was the best part of epi! 👏🤣 And Rudra s shorts🤣


Best part: Break-up dance.👏
Wosrt part: nothing



Show stealer: Rudra Singh Oberoi with his dance.😆


Share ur thoughts pls😳



Thank you all❤️Lots of love.

-Elvi aka Elvira

Originally posted by: neeme

Every Father has a wish that his son fulfills his dreams.. every father wants that his settled business must continues by his sons.. Tej also has same wish so what's wrong in it ??? Today, I want to discuss "other side of Picture".. I know Everyone can understand Om.. but I will talk abt tej today.. "Ager aik Pita na apni zimadari nahin nibhaie.. tu kye beta bhi wohi kara ga then what's the difference ??"Om is an artist so he can continue his work as hobby.. but he can fulfills his father dream as well by joining Oberoi business .. I m not asking for competing with shivaay.. but he can join business at least to satisfy his Dad worries at least.. to help his Elder brothers.. "hum sath hain tu baat hai...". why not in business.. ?? Even I want to see this wish of Shivaay too...that he want to see his bro's with him in business too.. Well I too want to see Om joining business.. want to see him as business man.. can't say as a business man he will run his business or dabo daga sab kuch as Amm Admi,, 🤣

Yes, i agree with u...I undst Tej too from other side (I will write about it later) But sometimes kids dont want be involved in father s business. Just dont want... Even just for fulfills their fathers dream. Same situation was in my family...My bro wanted be a photographer, but my father wanted to see him as banker. He wanted that my bro cont his business. There was so many fights between them. Dad also said u can make photos...It can be ur hobby. But If kid dont want even think about business why dad should force him? Just bcz he want it? Sometimes this fights and misunderstanding have sad end, My bro left home...He now live in another country and he work as photographer and he is happy. Dad now undst him bcz he is see his son happy.



About Om. I think in the end Tej will undst him and Om will undst him...But I think Om will give some part of his property to Shivaay. Om will be artist and social worker. Shivaay will cont business and Rudra also. Rudra will fulfills his father dream. Thats what I feel right now 😳


Yaar for sometime we will see Om as businessman 🤣 But he will run everything...Kuyn ke usse to kuch nai hoga 😆

Nice analysis.
And yes daksh is a mystry right now.i also dont uderstand his game.sometimes it felt tht he is pushing shivaay,then again why propose,or is it a (bad)dream sequence of shivaay ?

What ever it is ...I just want to say ...om behaviour towards his dad is quite humiliating...he had also raised his hand on him...I will not accept it son doing this to father...bc I was also a bad daughter and misbehave with him ...in extreme anger ...yes parents r wrong and they can also be bad but parents r parents ...and they r honourable...yes one have to earn that respect in ur children eyes ...and tej is bankrupt in this respect...still om misbehaving with hi. In front of all is not acceptable no matter how wrong tej did with him...by the way uptill now I don't witness any thing bad which tej did to om...only two thing cheating his mother ...and not giving time to children ...if om is a big artist is because of his father ...he went to england and studied art nd history...with his father money ofcourse...anyways I'm not defending tej he is negative he is grey...but I don't like om behaviour and humiliating him all the time...waiting for cvs to unfold the reason for om extreme hatred for tej...by the way I m om fan quite active on om AT ...so don't consider me against om.

Originally posted by: neeme

Every Father has a wish that his son fulfills his dreams.. every father wants that his settled business must continues by his sons.. Tej also has same wish so what's wrong in it ??? Today, I want to discuss "other side of Picture".. I know Everyone can understand Om.. but I will talk abt tej today.. "Ager aik Pita na apni zimadari nahin nibhaie.. tu kye beta bhi wohi kara ga then what's the difference ??"Om is an artist so he can continue his work as hobby.. but he can fulfills his father dream as well by joining Oberoi business .. I m not asking for competing with shivaay.. but he can join business at least to satisfy his Dad worries at least.. to help his Elder brothers.. "hum sath hain tu baat hai...". why not in business.. ?? Even I want to see this wish of Shivaay too...that he want to see his bro's with him in business too.. Well I too want to see Om joining business.. want to see him as business man.. can't say as a business man he will run his business or dabo daga sab kuch as Amm Admi,, 🤣

neeme I dont agree with you here. If a person has another aim and he wish to achieve sucess that field then he should do at work. If Om has his dream of becoming artist than let him e sucessful in that field. If he doesnt have interest in business why should u force him. I mean profession should personal choice. I know u want him to be in business as a character but just imagine kunal as actor. I am sure his father hadnt raised him with the dream of making an actor. He must have thought of another profession for him. Mostly in india pad likh kuch ban ja types. But it was kunals personal choice to come in acting. Now if he had done other thing just please his ther would he have reached here. So career should be his personal choice.

Originally posted by: Tunasnah

What ever it is ...I just want to say ...om behaviour towards his dad is quite humiliating...he had also raised his hand on him...I will not accept it son doing this to father...bc I was also a bad daughter and misbehave with him ...in extreme anger ...yes parents r wrong and they can also be bad but parents r parents ...and they r honourable...yes one have to earn that respect in ur children eyes ...and tej is bankrupt in this respect...still om misbehaving with hi. In front of all is not acceptable no matter how wrong tej did with him...by the way uptill now I don't witness any thing bad which tej did to om...only two thing cheating his mother ...and not giving time to children ...if om is a big artist is because of his father ...he went to england and studied art nd history...with his father money ofcourse...anyways I'm not defending tej he is negative he is grey...but I don't like om behaviour and humiliating him all the time...waiting for cvs to unfold the reason for om extreme hatred for tej...by the way I m om fan quite active on om AT ...so don't consider me against om.

Tune to some point I agree about raising hand. I even agree if u dont agree with u father dont enjoy on his money.

Sorry dusri post par discussion karne lagi. Nice post elvira. Agree with you.

Originally posted by: Tunasnah

What ever it is ...I just want to say ...om behaviour towards his dad is quite humiliating...he had also raised his hand on him...I will not accept it son doing this to father...bc I was also a bad daughter and misbehave with him ...in extreme anger ...yes parents r wrong and they can also be bad but parents r parents ...and they r honourable...yes one have to earn that respect in ur children eyes ...and tej is bankrupt in this respect...still om misbehaving with hi. In front of all is not acceptable no matter how wrong tej did with him...by the way uptill now I don't witness any thing bad which tej did to om...only two thing cheating his mother ...and not giving time to children ...if om is a big artist is because of his father ...he went to england and studied art nd history...with his father money ofcourse...anyways I'm not defending tej he is negative he is grey...but I don't like om behaviour and humiliating him all the time...waiting for cvs to unfold the reason for om extreme hatred for tej...by the way I m om fan quite active on om AT ...so don't consider me against om.

Im totally agree with u about raising hand. But about hatred...HATE - the most strong feeling. I dont think Om hate his father. He greatly offended at his father. We dont know what happend in past. If child sees how his father humiliates mother, child starts to keep himself away from his father. He start dislike him. His father was cheating his mother. And it is not easy after all that give respect for such person. Even if he is ur father. But again I dont think he hate him...He just greatly offended. And its not easy for Om to forgive Tej.