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Posted: 9 years ago
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he appreciates ridhima for all her social work but does he do something himself?isn't he surprisingly distance from all her work(due to which she is able to fool him)
and now this issue concerning his mom...how is it that it never came out before?even om who is supposed to be so perceptive,sensitive and close to his mom was unaware of it.
This reminds me of another show on SP in which a 20+ girl had no idea of her mother being physically abused by her father all these years.

Is this realistic?kids after a certain age do become sensitive to the issues between their parents no?

coming back to om being only about words...even in ishaana's last scene he said he will support the truth and leave everything if his family is wrong...just leaving everyone and everything isn't enough,shouldn't a character like om be active in bringing justice to the wronged ones to?

is om too naive or idealist and inflexible to contribute in making actual change?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lol...know that show u're talking about and the girl...its ruined all thanks to the girl 😆

As for Om, his thoughts are good, no doubt, I loved his take on Gender Equality yesterday and totally relate to it as a girl...but there's a difference in having an opinion and forcing ur opinion on others. There's something called respecting difference of opinions which sadly he doesn't do.

That being said, one thing that has bothered me from so many days is that why has he not shared Ishana's truth with Riddhima yet? Why can't he think of making her happy by just saying a thank you for her gifts instead of making faces at them? She is not asking for a return gift ryt!

Also, his ideologies are based on convenience...He wants space in his relationship...really? You are in a relationship with a girl for 3 yrs. now, u say u love her but u do not like it wen that girl after many years of a long distance relationship has come back to ur city and wants to spend some good time with you, u feel she is interfering in ur personal space.

Reminds me of the day she shared a piece of sandwich from his plate and he made faces, probably coz he did not like her doing that? Space again?

Tomorrow, if he gets married to a girl, sharing his room, his wardrobe and the girl designing the room as per her choice would become the reason for issues between the couple😆

And u raised an interesting point, how all these years he was so unaware of his mom's dreams, he loves her the most still.

My pov😳

And to anyone who might feel that I m bashing Om, I like him a lot...its just that in real world, his ideologies sometimes are just too good to be true and unrelatable too.
Edited by Crazy4Mayur - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Om does knw his mom is unhappy bt with swetlena in forefront he thought its bcoz of her n he had always fought woth his dad for his mom frm day1 onwards!
I dont remember Om preaching anyone abt charity or NGO stuff ridz does..he is nt a social worker to go out do stuff may b he does charity bt as any normal personal does without shouting at top of their lungs like bw celebrity lol
Ishana accused him of siding with his wrong fam so he said he will leave them
N yes he is too idealistic thats his flaw!
I hope he will b redeemed n see d world as it is nt his white n black theory!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JaiJaiIraniMata

he appreciates ridhima for all her social work but does he do something himself?isn't he surprisingly distance from all her work(due to which she is able to fool him) no he doesn't distances himself from his work see the problems that daily come up with his family he joins Ridhima whenever he can see when Ridhima asked her to accompany him to orphanage wearing Krishanji dress he did he was there for her plantation drives he agreed to be there he encourages her all the tym n wants to be there for her sometimes the circumstances don't allow that but it is not that he avoids it. He helped Bela many times personally how much he knew her

and now this issue concerning his mom...how is it that it never came out before?even om who is supposed to be so perceptive,sensitive and close to his mom was unaware of it.
This reminds me of another show on SP in which a 20+ girl had no idea of her mother being physically abused by her father all these years. Nobody knew that a mother is the strongest person of all she can hide everything from her children till the tym we can remember Mahabharat Kunti hid Karan being his son for so many years she pained seeing Karan and Pandavas were demi gods still they couldn't figure out her problems same with Om he just knew that his mom is in trouble coz of a broken relationship and he blames Swetlana for that he didn't knew abt career issues bcoz Jaanvi hid them well she didn't want her children to be upset that she couldn't fulfil her dreams bcoz of them. Om saw the side which Jaanvi showed also Om's own emotional vulnerability he did drugs made Jaanvi take the decision of hiding this thing that is this big
Is this realistic?kids after a certain age do become sensitive to the issues between their parents no?
yes he knew the issues for him that being Swetlana only he didn't saw the other side which was completely hidden and forgotten Jaanvi never talked to him bcoz of him being emotionally vulnerabe
coming back to om being only about words...even in ishaana's last scene he said he will support the truth and leave everything if his family is wrong...just leaving everyone and everything isn't enough,shouldn't a character like om be active in bringing justice to the wronged ones to?
he is not actively involved due to time constraints that's why he admires Ridhima that she does what he can't but still he gives his best
is om too naive or idealist and inflexible to contribute in making actual change?
he is not he is not that strong emotionally maybe this takes him one step behind but still when the need comes he is there for truth

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't think he's all words. He seems to genuinely care about others including his mother. He's rejected his family's wealth and made a name for himself so I'm pretty sure he does help those in need. I think that all the characters are supposed to be flawed and have multiple layers. Shivkara arguments are interesting because they are exactly same (stubborn, my way or the highway personality) , but the only difference is that they have different opinions. The writers want to create conflict to move the story along but the forced conflicts (Om suddenly being bothered by his girlfriend in his life, Shivaay going out of his way to help Malika but having old-fashioned views to put it nicely ) causes inconsistencies in all the characters. So far, only Rudra has remained consistent in views and his mannerism.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: yellomellow

I don't think he's all words. He seems to genuinely care about others including his mother. He's rejected his family's wealth and made a name for himself so I'm pretty sure he does help those in need. I think that all the characters are supposed to be flawed and have multiple layers. Shivkara arguments are interesting because they are exactly same (stubborn, my way or the highway personality) , but the only difference is that they have different opinions. The writers want to create conflict to move the story along but the forced conflicts (Om suddenly being bothered by his girlfriend in his life, Shivaay going out of his way to help Malika but having old-fashioned views to put it nicely ) causes inconsistencies in all the characters. So far, only Rudra has remained consistent in views and his mannerism.


@Bold: I agree and I forgot to mention on the title, don't think he's all talk...a time would come where he would actually choose truth over family!!!

All characters are flawed, so true...Gul has been giving a similar explanation on all characters on social media

The conflicts do look forced many times, especially the way yesterday's Shivay Om conflict started

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Omie Jaan is certainly an idealist...
i dont know if this is some coping mechanism that he developed to get over the pain that his parents and their lives werent perfect and perhaps this is why he has become so very particular about demanding perfection and exactness in his relationships...( quite how the whole naam paisa power and anger thing is for Shivaay or the funny , shallow thing is for Rudra)

or maybe this is how he has always been...artistic people are meant to be more intuitive and sensitive and perceptive...

but we dont know the past...so maybe this is indeed his basic characterization...

also up till now regarding Jhanvi and her alcoholism , we assumed it was majorly because of her husband ,cheating on her with some botoxed tramp...but now we know there were more reasons to it...no wonder , jhanvi had been drinking even before things had gotten bad between her and her husband...

Malikka and her issues and their subsequent resolutions perhaps opened a pandora's box and there came out so many undercurrents...

today Pinki was phenomenal...and so was the actress portraying her , along with nakul...absolutely mind-blowing...



the riddhima thing...well i have this explanation in my head that because Riddhima stayed away fr longer periods of time , such issues never cropped up earlier...also Omiejaan is very particular about his space...there is only so much liberty people can take with him...even ShivRu know exactly when to stop...

also he believed whatever she said and didnt bother checking up coz:
a) he trusted her
b) he didnt really care too much...i mean i am sure they share a cordial relationship and surely have warm feelings of affection for each other but it isnt too serious...

about him being proactive regarding social issues...this isnt his character...


he lives in his space and the people he lets in have to follow certain ground rules...the ones that truly care about him ( ShivRu) adhere to this...he gets far too much leeway from everyone including Tej and Shivaay...
the things we do for family...😊
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