Can Zara initiate the next T?

Ok so I know guys usually give it but is it possible for a woman to give it too. I think it's called khula or something..

I totally agree with you.. I don't know about her being able to give the next talaq or not.. but I hate seeing her running after him like a puppy... it's just pathetic... even Kabir's dad treats her bad now because she is of no use since he ha a new plan to make Kabir shehar kazi... I want her to give up on trying to mend the relationship and and to tell him that she is only their to get her right ( being divorced the right way)... after that she will go away from his life and he can do whatever he wants and so can she...

Tbh... they need start attacking the real problem... their opinions don't match... so honestly if they do patch up, next time another issue arises, they are back to this hate game. So like her trying to woo him is not gonna do anything... I want them to both to go somewhere along and talk about all these issues. If one of them is not willing to compromise on their views, needs and dreams then there is no point in moving the relation forward.. because when another problem comes there way, they are hit again with the same issue... and I don't wanna keep seeing that...

So I really wanna see them have a mature conversation without him yelling and her wooing him about the problem and the future of their relationship.

Originally posted by: annjose1998

I totally agree with you.. I don't know about her being able to give the next talaq or not.. but I hate seeing her running after him like a puppy... it's just pathetic... even Kabir's dad treats her bad now because she is of no use since he ha a new plan to make Kabir shehar kazi... I want her to give up on trying to mend the relationship and and to tell him that she is only their to get her right ( being divorced the right way)... after that she will go away from his life and he can do whatever he wants and so can she...

Tbh... they need start attacking the real problem... their opinions don't match... so honestly if they do patch up, next time another issue arises, they are back to this hate game. So like her trying to woo him is not gonna do anything... I want them to both to go somewhere along and talk about all these issues. If one of them is not willing to compromise on their views, needs and dreams then there is no point in moving the relation forward.. because when another problem comes there way, they are hit again with the same issue... and I don't wanna keep seeing that...

So I really wanna see them have a mature conversation without him yelling and her wooing him about the problem and the future of their relationship.

Hi, got me interested what you said. I do agree with you, Zara is not given respect by kabeer. I want Zara to ask for talak and kabeer trying to win her back by also joining hands with her to stop triple talak as it causes more harm than good from his own experience. But I have a feeling it won't happen because most of these telly drama women are the ones to bend down and amend everything's, but would love Zara to let kabeer fight for their love. Btw it would be nice for Zara to leave kabeer by misunderstanding him to be plotting with Shahbaz against her Dad, making her think kabeer never loved her but used her for his interest 😉

I want this!I want this!I want this!

Originally posted by: Mamisha

Hi, got me interested what you said. I do agree with you, Zara is not given respect by kabeer. I want Zara to ask for talak and kabeer trying to win her back by also joining hands with her to stop triple talak as it causes more harm than good from his own experience. But I have a feeling it won't happen because most of these telly drama women are the ones to bend down and amend everything's, but would love Zara to let kabeer fight for their love. Btw it would be nice for Zara to leave kabeer by misunderstanding him to be plotting with Shahbaz against her Dad, making her think kabeer never loved her but used her for his interest 😉

Originally posted by: -Astrid-

I want this!I want this!I want this!

Please tell me a woman is also allowed to give talaq to his husband😭There has to be a way...

I want Kabeer to have a complete realisation of the crime he has committed by these 30 days...Yes I'm calling it crime though I do get his POV too despite CVs trying their level best to not focus on that ever🤢I was okay with him being hurt & broken & even thinking they are not meant to be...He could have talked to Zaara about it and asked for her opinion on getting a divorce...The fact that he didn't bother to take her consent or even talk to her and simply threw those 3 words on her face(knowing how much she despises 3T) makes him almost equal to those men,in my eyes,who use 3T as a weapon against their wives to throw them out of their lives And that he still doesn't regret a single bit of it makes it worst...

I still love Kabeer...I can't help it I guess...His character is what intrigued me to watch this show...But I'm not gonna settle for anything less than him walking through hell-fire for my baby girl❤️His dreams better be at least 10 times of what Zaara has dreamt till date

Having said that,I wonder when they will finally have a real convo about their difference in nazariya and actually think of ways to sort it out..

Some time in future I would like to see Zara opting out Kabir,fighting for men's rights😆

Back to back talaq drma will trivalise the issue.

Mana I have heard that if women gives talaq...talaq happens instantly..there is no reconciliation time.

Originally posted by: aqua.m7

Hi😊

Yeh the thing is, I'm not trying to disregard kabeers feelings of being shunned or even hurt by zaras actions. She did put the world before him and that must have broken him inside.

But right now he is literally suffocating her, if I was treated like that I don't think I'd have the same strength she does. Just today how he kept reminding her that he can kick her out of his life and it's only his decision. It was devastating and had me questioning whether 'Aurat ka koi has nahi hai apni zindagi k fasle Lene k?'

A women giving divorce is probably seen as a shocking decision in society. But for a man it's an very day thing if you get what I mean. They're life isn't tarnished in the same sense the woman is. It's a huge stain on their life, character and honour. (Ok I'd like to say nowadays it's so common that we kind of ignore this and move on in life but in conservative families and some parts of the world it is one of those taboo topics)

So anyway I think zara should give the next one, to show him that only she has control over her life and the decisions made about her future. Only then will he learn! And he really needs a reality check.

That's what I would want her to do. Honestly Zara is living an emotional torture relationship. You saying Zara did wrong to choose the world against kabeer. Kabeer can be hurt but seriously as a woman how safe do you feel when you insulted by your husband pulling you like an animal and taking you back to your parents just for what? Because she wanted women to pray in masjid aswel. Not only that how he insulted her during ruksar fight and huh the day they done their suhagrat and next morning he is cold with her, mmm;don't know if that was me would still be running behind kabeer. Zara can ask divorce on a base of her being emotionally tortured by kabeer and him not respecting his parents. If you put pros and cons for kabeer you will realise he has more cons, that statement kills me that he would die but not say against Zara; he said on tv where whole country saw he is not with Zara because that's true so if Zara spoke the truth what wrong did she do. Even in Islam truth has to always be said, he said that he would not because it was not him standing there swearing on the holy book that he will speak truth. I'm not against kabeer, I just want Zara to get him think but won't be easy as of male ego. That's what I think 🤓