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Posted: 7 years ago
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I have this Doubt Seriously...!!!

Sorry for getting Too technical as far as this is concerned. Don't get me Wrong.

Drugging a Girl and Raping her is Possible and Easy.

But Drugging a Guy and Doing anything is Not Possible. "IMPOSSIBLE "

So I wonder How guys believe that they Did something. Absolutely ILLOGICAL, IRRATIONAL. Or Anyone Would Believe.

As far as I Know, There was a recent (under a year) Supreme Court Judgement on Rape Cases. Where They even Refuse to Consider Rape as Rape because they had a special narration for that. Which Obviously Irritated Lots of Female Community Clubs and Socialists But that Was Scientifically Supported.

Hope You Girls Get what I mean.

This is the Doubt I have always when they show Such scenes.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hear you girl! Even I find it mind boggling of how Indian TV tries to show a guy supposed molested/raped after drugging him.

Medically or scientifically or any other possible logic defies this. And in the case of Kabir who is fully intoxicated and completely dozed out, there is absolutely NO WAY...

But Indian TV and its ridiculous plots!!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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i am so sorry that i need to disagree with you girls
please read the below Wiki if you are above 16 and can understand what it means
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_of_males

Please remember be it be a man or a women violating the body against consent can leave a person mentally traumatized. Physical wounds heal mental scars penetrate the heart

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I see what AnjuRish means.
What Rukhsar is trying is unwanted contact and can amount to molestation. Kabeer is in no position to give his consent.

I don't understand why Indian Television thinks its okay to show this. Regardless or Zara saving him, it is not correct.
Molestation/rape is traumatic for anyone who goes through it regardless of gender. It has nothing to do with how macho the guy is or is perceived to be.

Even the vamps drugging a guy on TV shows and pretending to have been intimate with them is NOT okay. If the same thing had happened to a girl, it would be considered rape-why would the same not apply to men?

I couldn't even watch yesterday's episode. I know this is not the first time such things are being shown on television but I am old enough to realize the blatant sexism and vulgarity of the situation.
I really expected more from this show than this.

There is so much more explore with reference to Zabeer's different perspectives. This random lady called Rukhsar who throws the apparent love of her life into the arms of another because of sheer greed now wants him back. I can't even fathom what kind of upbringing she is supposed to have had.

With all Kabeer common sense why has he been letting her remain in the house after she made a move on him? After all she is a Na Maharam.

Honestly, I wouldnt be surprised if their TRPs fell. Enough of the other woman angle already. Kabeer doesn't want Rukhsar and neither do we.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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yAgree with Anju & TheMyth.

We also have an Indian judge who said peahens procreate thr' swallowing tears of peacocks, no euphemism.😆
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017/06/01/indian-judge-claims-peacocks-dont-mate-cow-urine-prevents-ageing/

It's sheer stupidity and insensitivity that rule when it comes to sexual violence in India.

My head is still reeling from this
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/may/30/germaine-greer-calls-for-punishment-for-to-be-reduced

Since this drug rape thing is a norm on all shows, multiple forums have discussed the technical doubt, you can search.

in ISA, when I saw Siraj sitting on the bed,ogling an unconscious zara lying on the bed, i felt she was violated.Same goes for Kabir.



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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think the important word here is consent'. Siraj sitting in bed while Zaara was lying unconscious made me squirm in disgust,that is how I perceive violation and what Rukhsar was doing or trying to do with Kabeer 🤢 ...I could not bring myself to watch the episode yesterday because it was disturbing to me to say the very least. Unwanted physical contact is not normal or acceptable by any standards and it's high time ITV stops showing these kind of criminal offense as an everyday occurance.

Rukhsar throwing herself at Kabeer the other day was nothing short of molestation in my opinion and only because it happened with a man, CVs refused to showcase it as such. Imagine a man throwing himself like this at a woman, would the woman then be thinking about the man and arranging for his engagement? ITV not acknowledging abuse for abuse has been going on for long enough, this should stop. ISA has been made into a common place drama recently with a dirty woman trying to get into the pants of someone else's husband. This situation was absolutely unnecessary and could have been easily avoided by the CVs.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Let me make it more clear as per laws in most countries the body parts mouth/lips, chest or breast, bottom or buttocks and the area between legs these parts if touched without consent constitutes molestation. This is what is taught in good touch bad touch workshops across schools



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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: simran_singh_24

yAgree with Anju & TheMyth.

We also have an Indian judge who said peahens procreate thr' swallowing tears of peacocks, no euphemism.😆
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017/06/01/indian-judge-claims-peacocks-dont-mate-cow-urine-prevents-ageing/

It's sheer stupidity and insensitivity that rule when it comes to sexual violence in India.

My head is still reeling from this
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/may/30/germaine-greer-calls-for-punishment-for-to-be-reduced

Since this drug rape thing is a norm on all shows, multiple forums have discussed the technical doubt, you can search.

in ISA, when I saw Siraj sitting on the bed,ogling an unconscious zara lying on the bed, i felt she was violated.Same goes for Kabir.

I was wondering How Shebaz Let Ruksar Loose. Why he is So Numb and Not reacting.

Same with Kabeer. How can one be so Oblivious about all these things and Like Blind Folded, Deaf and Dumb.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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They showed similar thing in other show "Kaala teeka" of Zee one and half year back😆.There ML doesn't remember anything what happened that night bcz of him drugged by vamp and it showed like he was sleeping like dead body and vamp moves herself and the vamp even got pregnant due to that similar scene😆 and proved that it was his child by DNA testing but i thought she was faking but much to my shock she was really pregnant bcz of such exactly similar scene and even delivered a baby and hero inclined towards vamp and even married her leaving his first wife(main heroine) 😆.Same rinse and repeat formula in all the shows of zee one day or the other.They even break the hit pairs and make them paired or married with others permanantly in few shows😕

This is the reality of all zee shows after 1 month of start😆,so i always expect worse only from Zee shows. ISA was better and i know this will become crap like all other zee shows but i never expected this show becomes crap this much earlier😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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In serials they often show nonsense... Hmmm i think schools and colleges need sex education classes to make people sensitive towards truth
In my case my older brother was sensitive and gave me some material to read. After which we did discuss my doubts. After i got older i did read a lot from credible sources online

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