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Posted: 7 years ago
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Why is it that Rukhsar is wrong, she was betrothed to Kabeer, she is in love with him and always dreamt of being his wife. She must have been shattered when all that she was waiting for, was snatched away from her and given to Zara on a platter, why is she wrong, if she still pines for Kabeer, we all know that to Kabeer, marriage is just a farz and he probably would have behaved with Rukhsar the same way as he is behaving with Zara, he would have fulfilled his duties with either one of them, isn't Zara in the same boat as Rukhsar right now, both love Kabeer and both want him to reciprocate their love, but Kabeer is indifferent to both of them, I sympathize with Rukhsar, she has been wronged and Zara rubbing her wounds with salt is only going to add fuel to the fire that is burning inside Rukhsar, Zara should be shown a little more sympathetic towards Rukhsar, as only a woman can feel the pain another woman is going through. Marriage has definitely given Zara the upper hand in this relationship but she should know that Kabeer would have fulfilled all his duties towards Rukhsar as well, had she been his wife.

We all know how the story will unfold, how Maulvi sahab will fall in love with Zara and how Zara will turn Maulvi sahabs Farz into Pyaar, but knowing that Zara and Kabeer are both kind hearted souls, could they make Rukhsar understand in a more humane manner, that Rukhsaar and Kabeer are not meant to be.

So my question is, what justifies Zara's love for Kabeer and makes Ruksars love wrong?
I want CVs to show Zara a little more sympathetic towards Rukhsar and make Rukhsar realize the inevitable, that Rukhsar and Kabeer were never meant to be and that it is Allahs will in the end.

I would like to commend the actress playing Rukhsar, she has portrayed her pain and her frustrations really well.

Kudos to the director for portraying so many different relationships in such a wonderful, mature way, each relationship has been handled with utmost care, whether it is

Zara and her Father ( this one I totally love), the recent episode where she goes to invite him for Iftaar was a joy to watch, the bantering and the teasing between father and daughter is absolutely heart- warming and leaves a smile on your face.

Zara and her mother and mother-in-law, seldom have I seen a Mother-in -law so in love with her daughter-in-law, her concern for her sons marital life and well being sets new standards for the saas bahu shows.

Kabeers father and his tug of war between the kaziat and his guilt at having used Zara as a means to achieve it.

Zeenat and Rukhsar, Zeenat , a woman torn between the love for her sister and loyalty towards her husband's family, trying to console her sister that she can't get her what she wants the most.

And last but not the least, the enchanting and budding romance between Kabeer and Zara, her carefree and straight forward attitude and honest opinions, tugging at Kabeer and his interpretations of the Kuran, her teasing him unabashedly at his views, and not letting go, and standing up for her beliefs.

Thank you for not turning this show into another Saas Bahu Nonsense! A special mention to the casting director, each character fits his role to a T! Please can we get to see more romance between the leads, love the nok-Jhok, Adnan and Esha rock Kabeer and Zara! Love, Love ,love the way these two actors have portrayed these amazing characters.

Hats off to the story writer, dialogue writer and director for an amazing job!!

All I can say is ISHQ SUBHAN ALLAH!!😊

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I totally agree with you. Especially on the fact that Zara should be more sympathetic towards Ruksar. And I think that will happen soon because Zara doesn't know about fixing the marriage alliance between Kabeer and Ruksar, and the wedding cards. From Zara's perspective, Ruksar is just someone who has grown up loving Kabeer and since she couldn't get him, she is just acting crazy. But when Zara realizes that Ruksar is doing is this because what was done with her was not fair. The people who thought were her own, gave her hopes of marrying Kabeer and just shattered it all in a moment. That too without telling her or anything. Like she and Zeenat found out when Amaan read the card out loud. Like they should have discussed the situation with Zeenat and Ruksar before going ahead with all the arrangement for Zara and Kabeer's wedding.

So I think or at least I hope that when Zara gets to know this she confront Kabeer and also understand Ruksar's pain( but of course it doesn't just free Ruksar from the wrong things she has done but now there is more content to the story).. plus Zara will realize that Ruksar is not a villain by choice, her own family made the villain by breaking her hopes, and more importantly heart. And they all just move on as if nothing happened and expect her to just accept everything without any problem.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Ok I haven't watched the show in ages but I love Zara too much to not defend her. Are you kidding me? Let's start with the fact that Rukhsar tried to KILL Zara. I hope that is reason enough to explain why she's in the wrong. And there is plenty more she has done wrong.

'So my question is, what justifies Zara's love for Kabeer and makes Ruksars love wrong?'

I am baffled as to how this is even a question Really? Zara's love is so pure, and despite knowing Rukhsar was behind the fake profile which nearly got Zara AND Kabir killed, she gave Rukhsar a chance to leave with some dignity. Not to mention Zara has a clean heart, she has been pursuing Kabir through pious means. Can you honestly tell me Rukhsar's been doing the same?

I...am just unable to comprehend how you could compare the two. It's an insult to Zara's character.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I felt for Ruks earlier during the engagement and till she nearly killed herself. She and her sister were pitiable.

Once she made the deal with Shebaz to wait till Kabir becomes a Qazi,using Zara as a ladder to it, she lost me.

Did she ever love him?What kinda love makes a deal to hand over the lover to another woman and get him back after he got more power? She herself said he is her obsession, one that was fed by her sister.

Kabir has always made it clear, he would marry the woman his father chooses and Ruks was one of his many good friends.She was very aware of where she stood with him.

Zara should sympathise with Ruks? For what? I will never forgive Ruks for bringing Siraj into Zara's life. How could any woman do that to another woman?Lure an obsessive man& practically get him to kidnap Zara and kill her husband.
Zara is being too kind to Ruks, she is an ingrate. Every one wantst her to leave the house with dignity & have a better life and how does she repay them?Bring in another monster and destroy the dream of the man she profess to love?

I can't wait for the day Kabir will throw her out and cure her pyar ki bhimari.
Agree with the actor's performance. She is good.

BTW, she was never betrothed to Kabir. she and her power hungry sister schemed together to trap Kabir.She got naked in his bathroom and when Zeenat pitched her as a prospective bride for Kabir, Aisha and Shebaz were surprised, obviously they never saw her as their Bahu.
She was an orphan whom they sheltered& treated as their own and this how she repays them.
Kindness!How about some gratitude from Ruks' side?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ghissapitta

Ok I haven't watched the show in ages but I love Zara too much to not defend her. Are you kidding me? Let's start with the fact that Rukhsar tried to KILL Zara. I hope that is reason enough to explain why she's in the wrong. And there is plenty more she has done wrong.

'So my question is, what justifies Zara's love for Kabeer and makes Ruksars love wrong?'

I am baffled as to how this is even a questionReally? Zara's love is so pure, and despite knowing Rukhsar was behind the fake profile which nearly got Zara AND Kabir killed, she gave Rukhsar a chance to leave with some dignity. Not to mention Zara has a clean heart, she has been pursuing Kabir through pious means. Can you honestly tell me Rukhsar's been doing the same?

I...am just unable to comprehend how you could compare the two. It's an insult to Zara's character.



I am not justifying the means that Ruks is using to get to Kabeer, neither do I want them together, all I'm saying is that the way she was treated was not fair, yes, Zara is not aware of how close Ruks was, to getting married to Kabeer but Zara should have made Kabeer aware that what was done to Ruks was not right( especially since Zara's character is so righteous) She should have also told Kabeer about who created the fake account, there should be no secrets between a husband and wife, that's when problems and misunderstandings arise! And how can Kabeer not feel Ruks pain, she was going to marry the man and now she has to see another woman romance the person she is obsessed about? They are in her face all day long. And so what is she was taken in as an orphan, taking care of an orphan doesn't mean you can treat her like trash!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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And as I said Kaber has been shown as a very farz nibhane wala ladka, whether it is towards his wife or his parents, even if Ruks and her sis were trying to trap him, he would marry her only if his parents had agreed, which they did until his very manipulative father thought of how he can become the kazi by marrying the kazis daughter, so Kabeers character till now is just of a papas boy, Zara is going to reshape his character and make him think out of the box! And that is what is going to be exciting to watch! How the unemotional Kazi falls in love and I'm hoping falls hard!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ananhita



I am not justifying the means that Ruks is using to get to Kabeer, neither do I want them together, all I'm saying is that the way she was treated was not fair, yes, Zara is not aware of how close Ruks was, to getting married to Kabeer but Zara should have made Kabeer aware that what was done to Ruks was not right( especially since Zara's character is so righteous) She should have also told Kabeer about who created the fake account, there should be no secrets between a husband and wife, that's when problems and misunderstandings arise! And how can Kabeer not feel Ruks pain, she was going to marry the man and now she has to see another woman romance the person she is obsessed about? They are in her face all day long. And so what is she was taken in as an orphan, taking care of an orphan doesn't mean you can treat her like trash!


Sorry gonna have to disagree with you. She is family of Shahbaz and Kabeer. THEY have a bigger responsibility to apologize to and try to placate Rukhsar than Zara does. Zara is a newly wedded bride who is still trying to adjust with her husband, all the while trying to throw off another woman who is after her husband - the same woman who executed a plan which almost got her and her husband killed. I have no sympathy for her. If there's anyone who should be apologizing to Rukhsar, it is those two men I have mentioned above. Zara shouldn't have to make a grown man, a MAULVI aware. He should be held accountable, not she. I'm not saying she can't do it, I'm just saying she shouldn't HAVE to and shouldn't be held liable to! Which is what you have been implying.


And someone also needs to knock sense into Zeenat because she isn't doing her psychotic sister any favors. Not sure why it is the bahu who has to sambhaal everything in the household. Placate the husband, hangs with the kids and save their lives because that's the only way to impress/crack a smile out of her husband, deal with a shady investor, deal with the vamp who is after her husband and tried to get her killed, and then go and have a heart-to-heart with the same vamp. Zara is a good soul but no one can be this perfect. It always amazes me how much we ask out of the FL, meanwhile we rejoice if the ML is a decent fella who doesn't abuse the FL. The standards are so low and so different.

I would have sympathized with Rukhsar earlier but if you try to kill a woman, the same woman who gave you blood to save your life, try to snatch away her legally wedded husband, then try to trap her in marriage with an obsessive terrorist/murderer and laugh/feel happy about it, then you don't deserve any sympathy. Doesn't make any difference if you're an orphan or not. You are a shitty person and I will not sympathize with a person such as this. End of.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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hmmm...i never thought about Ruksaar from this angle.
but yeah, as many ppl have already mentioned here, its her evilness and ugly plots that have lost any of us having sympathy towards her.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Why should Zara be sympathetic to Ruksar? 🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I could understand why you think ruksaar should be understood, we can see ruksaar's problem till she didnt follow them to Kashmir and practically tried to kill her, and then unleashed a psychotic person behind her .. thats unpardonable.
Yes she was in love with a person and was suppose to marry him when she was offered a deal. A person who is cunning enough to accept a deal doesnt LOVE anyone. Zara has no reason to sympthasize with Ruksaar. What happened , happened only due to her will.

I LOVED where Kabeer shuts ruksaar saying, "ye shaadi tum ne karwayi hai, tum is pe shikayat nai kar sakti" .. and chalo of for a minute we do believe that she was betrayed by shehbaz .. but what is she doing? .. The orginal deal was ruksaar-kabeer marriage after kabeer becomes the qazi .. LOL he isnt even a qazi yet .. infcat right from the next day of marriage she was plotting agaisnt zara .. so who broke the deal ./? .. Its Ruksaar everytime !! .. and shehbaz is getting her married to another person because she actually created all that kashmir drama ..

She didnt even honour her deal,! so she is an out and out negative character, who deserves no one's sympathy !

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