173 Rule: It is Makruh to speak to non-Mahram women, unless it is in the case of a necessity, especially if the one being spoken to is a young woman. GKLM
174 Rule: If a man knows that by speaking to a non-Mahram woman, he will fall into sin, then he must not speak to her; whether the woman speaks in such a way that she lures him into sin, or the topic is such that the man falls into sin. BGKLMS
Now regarding Kabir looking at Ruksar, then it doesn't matter what his intentions were, whether he was fascinated by her views or beauty, he is not supposed to look her at all! 🤢
"(O' Prophet!) Say to the believing men that they cast down their looks and guard their private parts - that is purer for them; surely Allah is aware of what they do. And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks...
Al-Qur'an Surah al-Nur Ayat 30-31
Therefore: Men are not permitted to look at the face and hands of women who do not observe proper hijab; for example, those women who have an amount of hair showing, have short sleeves on, or those women who have not covered their arms, wrists or hands.
10 Rule: It is haram for a man to look at the hands of a non-Mahram woman who has a ring, bangles or bracelet on, long fingernails, nail polish applied, or who has beautified herself in any other way whether the non-Mahram is a close relative or a non-family member. ABKG
And Ruksar and Kabir talking alone or just withe each other, well Kabir Maulvi dear thats not allowed too. 🤢
It is not permissible for a man to be alone with a woman who is not his mahram, because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "No man should be alone with a woman unless there is a mahram with them. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1862) and Muslim (1341). And he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "No man is alone with a woman but the Shaytaan is the third one present. Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1171) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.
So Kabir dear, why are not you following the quran when it comes to Ruksar? 😡