Hi all. I know many of you feel Kabira shouldnt seperate and that you would quit if kabir got remarried etc..
Thts on you and totally okay for you to feel the way you do.
Here is why I think Kabira have to seperate:
First I think that the" drastic change" and "uturn" will be Kabira divorce or official seperation.
I am for it because:
Kabir zaara are together tooo easily. These two got married because of family desires with no realization of any sort of love on their own behest. They literally did it for their families happiness. Yes they are perfect for eachother as they are opposite and similar at the same time and can very well keep eachother in check. However THEY have to realize it on their own and not be forced into any sort of serious committment so early.
Kabir is VERY old school minded as we have learned.
1. He is easily swayed by others words (Rukshar)
2. He is stuck in the mindset that two people with differing views cant work together.
3. He believes a wife should be in the kitchen
4. Even when saving Zaara, Kabir said Zaara is his wife and he was protecting his wife out of "Faarz" as a husband.
Does kabir like Zaara, Yes of course. He is clearly mesmerized by her at times and does have an inkling towards her. However, he is just infatuated. He isnt in love, and that is obvious by the way he sidelines her.
1. Zaara is very idealistic and living in her own dream world.
2. She is infatuated with Kabir's looks and hero-panti
She is starting to like him cause of his respectful thoughts (for kids of ashram, and her parents, etc..) BUT, these are all reason she is starting to like him. She is infatuated not in LOVE yet. She thinks things are perfect and is a little blinded by her infatuation and in that way is slightly immature (not in a negative way) but she has some growing up to do.
All of these things are NOT a good mix for a successful marriage. Both of these guys have GOT to seperate and come back together on their OWN terms. Even if Kabir re-marries, if the plot is done correctly, he may very well realize why he LOVEd zaara. Maybe there would be regressive moments between them and rukshar's mentality which will make Kabir realize how correct Zaara's thinking REALLY is. Often people who reside behind the Gaarb of being "pious" are the most evil and cunning and Kabir needs to see that, that even though Zaara is progressive she is very well grounded and proper in her mentality. You CAN be progressive and still religious and moral.
Zaara too needs to realize to not jump to fantasies super quickly.
(Yes I feel Kabir has to grow more than zaara đ in the end, so i hvae less for Zaara)
Idk, I am For a seperation and divorce mainly because I want Kabira together on their OWN terms because they want to be, not because they were coerced or forced. Plus the important qualities of making a mrriage successful are missing:
1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Acceptance of your partners opinions and beliefs
WHen they have these or LEARN these, they should reunite.
ALSO from a fans perspective, These two haevnt had any real love story. đ They met a few times, got married and forced a relation because of their "farz" as man and wife not at ALL because of true love and passion. I want that piece that is missing.
Edited by xxMATSxx - 7 years ago