Jealousy is just a lack of self confidence. Blowing out someone else's candle doesn't make yours shine any brighter. Jealousy is the fear of comparison. Remember...People only rain on your parade because they're jealous of your sun and tired of their shade.
People who can't stand to see the success of others will never experience their own. When people are being jealous of you just means you are great in some way. Never let the jealous be in charge of your dreams. People only get jealous when they care. The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves.
To be the object of someone's obsession is horrible. Obsession is a negative passion. Obsession is the single most wasteful human activity, because with obsession you keep coming back and back and back to the same question and never get an answer.
Our actions change our minds, our minds can change our behavior and our behavior can change the outcomes. You are obsesses by greed for more and more until you visit your graves.
Greed in the end, fails even the greedy. Greed does not rest until it is satisfied, and greed is never satisfied. Instead of loving people and using money, people often love money and use people. Greed is a bottomless pit which exhausts the person in endless efforts to satisfy the need without ever reaching satisfaction.
It does seem as if the more one gets the more one wants. Greed is so destructive, it destroys everything. You cannot negotiate with people who say what's mine is mine and what's yours is negotiable. Selfishness creates greed and greed destroys the soul.
Greedy eaters dig their graves with their teeth. Hell has three gates ...lust, anger and greed. Never bite off more than you can chew...don't be greedy, you can always come back for seconds. No one has ever become poor by giving. Many have too much, but none enough. Selfish people lose so much in life, because even when they realize they are wrong, they don't know how to ask for forgiveness or show regrets.
Selfishness is the greatest curse of the human race. When you have given nothing, ask for nothing. Selfish people tend to only be good to themselves...then are surprised when they are alone. Selfishness keeps a person blind through life.
You never knew what you have until you lose it, and once you lose it, you can never get it back. Repentance doesn't mean anything if you keep doing what you're sorry for. True repentance is about transformation, not torture or torment.
The best of sinners are those who repent. True repentance is seen not just heard. True repentance is a permanent change of character and conduct. Erase the past with repentance and build the future with sincerity and good deeds.
It's not easy you've been wrong, but it's a lot easier than staying wrong to try to support a false position. Confession is good for the soul. A guilty conscience needs to confess. Confession of evil works is the first beginning of good works. Confession of errors is like a broom which sweeps away the dirt and leaves the surface brighter and cleaner. A person never realizes how important something is until they lose it.
The worst part about self destruction is that you are fully aware of it but there's nothing you can do to stop it. There are seeds of self-destruction in all of us that will bear only unhappiness if allowed to grow. Self-conceit may lead to self destruction. The way to overcome negative thoughts and destructive emotions is to develop opposing, positive emotions that are stronger and more powerful.
One of the deadliest poison a person can consume in their lifetime is the poison of jealousy and jealousy opens flood gate of self destruction. People don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed.
The past few episodes dealt with how the crimes were confessed, some are repenting for what they have done, others did not. Kanak Tripathi has repented for the sins she has committed after Dhani was no longer in her life. Her importance was known to kanak when Kamini treated the same way she treated Dhani, with no support and power she realized what a grave mistake she has committed by throwing Dhani our of her life.
She now regrets and repents, she now understood that Viplav may not forgive her after coming to know about the truth, ie her hand in the murder of Shambu. She realizes what has she lost...initially she was obsessed with power and never knew the importance of neither Viplav nor Dhani.
Now that she has lost that power she has come to reality grounds with absolutely no power at all. While one the other hand Kamini is obsessed with Viplav, she sees him as an object which she must have in her possession. Her jealousy has already crossed the limits and she can no longer control her mind. Its like she is drugged and is living in her own land of hallucinations. Her greed for money is another factor which has no limits.
Her anger and hatred towards Dhani is extreme, she no longer has any positive thoughts left in her mind. All these factors led to a self destructive path and she doesn't even realize it. Her negative qualities have been in excess and she is in a vicious cycle surrounded by such negative thoughts.
All the while she was only obsessed, had fear of losing Viplav to Dhani in her mind constantly, and she could not think of anything else. For once she did not think that in case if Viplav comes to know of her sins, will he be able to accept her or not.
Kamini has always been unhappy and lived in a constant fear. She chose a destructive path and she alone is responsible for it, in the end she has lost everything for she never valued anything in her life. She has only caused harm to the people around her.
What has she really achieved in her life ?? Had she thought of making her life constructive, the result might have been much better; at least she would be living in her peace for she is sharp, intelligent. Her obsession for Viplav and to attain at the cost of everything let to lose her peace of mind.
This is a a very good example of how our own thoughts leads to either of the two paths...Progressive life or destructive life. Our thoughts determine our actions and actions lead to habits. Our habits determine the path we chose. Mind can destroy things easily, but if the same efforts are put in some positive thoughts it can do wonders in our life. The choice is entirely ours what we decide to do with it.
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I dedicate this to Ishita Ganguly/ Kamini who has taught such a significant and a brilliant lessons in our life. Ishita has given a mind blowing performance yesterday š. Her (Km ) desperation was so brilliantly shown, I simply have pity the minds like Km who chose a self destructive path and gain absolutely nothing in return.
Kabhi Neem Neem Kabhi Shahad Shahad
