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Posted: 9 years ago
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You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger !!!


A quick temper will make a fool of you soon enough. Anger is never without a reason, but seldom with a good one. Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. If another can easily anger you, it is because you are off balance with yourself. Anger is a feeling that makes your mouth work faster than your mind. Never reply when you are angry. Never make a promise when you are happy. Never make a decision when you are sad.

Control anger. Don't let your anger control you. If you are mad don't say anything you'll regret later. If you can't say anything nice, don't say it. Calm down and then do whatever you have to do. A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control. Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering. He who angers you controls you.

When anger rises think of the consequences. Anger dwells only in the bosom of fools. Even the nicest people have their limits. Don't do something permanently stupid just because your are temporarily upset. When you let anger get the best of you it brings out the worst in you. We can't let the anger overshadow the good things in life. Peace is not the absence of conflict but the ability to cope with it.


Always, always trust your first gut instincts. If you genuinely feel in your heart and soul that something is wrong, it usually is. Never apologize for trusting your intuition, your brain can play tricks, your heart can be blind, but your gut is always right. Trust your instincts. Intuition doesn't lie. Your heart knows things that your mind can't explain.

There is a voice that doesn't use words, listen. A quiet mind is able to hear intuition over fear. Deep down you already know the truth. When something doesn't feel right it probably isn't. Think for yourself. Trust yourown intuition. Another's mind isn't walking your journey, your are. If you sense there must be more, there is more. Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.


Parshiya due to his temper decided to teach Viplav a lesson. While Viplav in his temper speaks of handling Parshiya. The third party has taken advantage of their temper and the situation becomes worse when Parshiya is attacked by Tripurari while the blame is put on Viplav. Be it Parshiya or Viplav when they hold anger they cannot see things clearly.

What TP has done to Parshiya, his friends decide to do the same to Viplav. This violence shall not give any solution and will not help in Parhsiya's recovery. Just because someone does harm to one, that doesn't mean you do the same thing, there will not be any difference between a genuine, wise person and a harmful person.


Dhani knows deep down that Viplav is innocent and he would never attack any one. This man has saved her numerous times from a mad and a crazy crowd, yet she believes what Parshiya's friends tell her. Dhani has always made a mistake of not following her intuition. This is not for the first time and she has never learnt her lesson. She always decides to trust others but not her intuition. Parshiya himself may not have seen who has hit him, but Dhani she has always decided to blame Viplav for whatever goes wrong.

Intuition always helps us to face the worst situations we might have to face in our life. It's like dj vu allover again. So trust your intuition. You don't need to explain or justify your feelings you anyone, just trust your own inner guidance, it knows best.

Do share your views.😃

This is the combination of the past two episodes.

I thank all you guys from the bottom of my heart for being a constant support to me, helping and encouraging me to make more Thought of the day posts. Nuss, Hammie, Joya, Barbie behana, Sudha, Neha, Mag, Dazz, Meher, Pearl Akka, Dolly, Ratna, Awida, Spreeti, Zad, Kaju, Archana, Nandy,Jenny, Sammy, Captkirk, my silent readers...Avimp, Loretta, Ajuma, Mibenija, Anjalii and all those who have read my posts and enjoyed reading them. It was lovely interacting with all you guys and I had so much fun while interacting with all of you guys. Till then take care. Be happy and keep smiling. 🤗

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Res!!😳
will be back sooN!!😆😆

Hey Swathi..!! Pehle toh sorry for being so late..😕 and thanks fr the reminder!😆 Btw why did u change ur title??🤔 Readers ko kitna bada shock laga hoga.,..bt is this srsly ur last??😲😕
Okay!! I knw why and thats why I reserved the first comment..!! Glad that Nus and Joy could not!!🤣
And BB ka toh koi ata pata nahin??😕
And u mentioned my name pura last mai..😲😡..koi nahin...i understand..I was nt regular!!😕😆


Anger is the biggest enemy!! It does more harm than anyone else. Have gone through experiences that taught me this. Bt old habits die hard. 😆 And i speak nonsense when angry and then regret it later, and the worst part I dont ask for forgiveness after regretting.
Best trick to control anger-- number countdown and chocolate ofcourse!!😆 For me chocolate controls anger!! or rather-- any good food controls anger!!😆

Permanently stupid because you are temporarily upset..-- says so much!! Because its not everytime that our anger is justified, like for example misunderstandings...thats what is happening here right?? Anger can do so much harm!!!! It can break relations, and infact can break a person from inside.

I liked the thing u said about intuition...gut feeling!! A person should trust himself more than anyone. Though in the show some stupid dialogues are given like i knw u more than yourself, trust you more than myself...rubbish!! But i believe it can never happen. No one can take your feelings, No one...no matter how close relation the person is with them, can understand what he is going through, his fear, his joy..!!

You know what? i heard that our brain cells are destroyed when our temper rises. And u guys ate up my aadha se jyada brain, so i cant afford to lose more!! Better I stay calm and cool.😆

Thanks for ur TOTDs Swathi..!! This thing is really amazing!! I knw regularly updating sucks!! but u did it and m so glad!!😳

Thanks again!🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sura ...
Again one of those posts when Could not get any mistake. And turn now to stand aside Danh. She referred to some of its corners no longer trusted Viplav. She heard tell and it left a lot of bitterness and pain in it. The thought that she was the biggest mistake of his life and until recently was his greatest love, makes it that he does not believe. He hit her and she was not to blame. He sent the best but it was not to blame. Now, how to trust him, to once again be close to him and not to expect the same. He is now married to another woman and has a son and she does not want to forget. It is this which is again sacrifice for others. There will never be happy percent think her Viplav loves another woman. And she was always just liked it. Disappointment .so he could get married when she told them that nothing will separate us. And it affects her psyche. All she survived him. And sadness and happiness and love and hate all that happened between them. It is difficult to trust someone again who has done many things for which you thought never. Although the only thing that bothers me is that she has to tell him the truth. This is something that is necessary to both to their soul calmed down now because the storm to them and until the calm will not be able to move on.
Edited by zajedno - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi Pearl,
You have brought such key points to discuss today that is so inter twined with life that in order to move forward you need to control your strong emotion like anger which you mentioned that if not dealt with will wreak havoc in your life and to the people around you, making the whole atmosphere too toxic to breathe in. Whoever is possessed by anger makes a fool of oneself and hurls blame on other people for making them angry which is not true which you also pointed out. These issues are our own and we must assume responsibility for our actions or else we keep taking the easier route of blaming other people and not growing up to our mature self. Recognising the intensity of anger in you at that moment while still holding on to your seat and centering on one's own breathe are some useful tips I have learnt along the process and still working on
it though a lot calmer these days.
Another key point you mentioned was intuition, the inner voice which we are blessed with if only we took the time to be still and hear the voice that always is there to guide us in subtle ways. It is a daily practice to take the time to be with oneself and be open and receptive to our inner self that has all the answer we need and we needn't look outside and waste time! A lot of discord we see in the world is because we have forgotten to connect with ourselves let alone the people around us and hence peace, love, harmony, joy and grace have eluded us replaced with exactly the opposite hatred, unrest, anger and voilence. Life really has a simple fundaa yet we humans for the love of drama complicate things and then everything goes out of sync just like what we witnessed in IKRS!
As always, ever so grateful for your pearl of wisdom that has brought such real conversation to take place and we should do if we want to enrich our life's experiences. God bless and keep pouring words of wisdom on us, love Kaju.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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UnRes!! wil b bac soon! 😆

sorry fr being terribly late swati bt thinking it wud b my last response to ur totds hav made me so weak was avoiding it deliberately sweety,, u kno ur post hav always been my fav fav place to hang out as ths was my frustration adda ,, ive spent my hours here in venting my frustration,,,, n that's y ths place hav special place in my heart as so does u,,u ve listen to all my bakwaas patiently n hav been a great support system always,, PLUS U VE BEEN BRILLIANT THROUGHOUT UR TOTDs cant thank u enough fr that mate,,,😳


u kno na viplov was closest to my heart wat n how it turned in the end has indeed crushed my heart into pieces,,, how difficult it was fr me to accept the whole turning of events,, I cannot express in words ever dear,,, was a pathetic feeling n how ths character was killed mercilessly n how he was ruined is beyond my imagination,,it will take time coming out of ths feeling swati ,, idk bt ths feelings are really alien to me n its all becaz ive never attached to a fictional character like ths in past,,viplov neither get justice nor the the logical ending n ths pain is unbearable Love.. it was my first time n I do believe my mourning is mostly over Viplov n not on Mishal walking away,,

but having said that I do believe k whatever happens to my most fav character I'm glad in the end I find u ppl in btw all ths mess,, Swat u ve always been not only an amazing writer bt an extraordinary human being too,, my lovely sister who was shocked to see my real avatar of dusht paapi n was sorry that I'm not dignified,,😆😛 cant find another masterpiece like u ever in ths whole world swat torch le k niklo fir b wont b able to get tere jesa namona,,!!😛😛

of course I'm dheet n wont leave u ppl so easily,,😉 jahan jahan raat ki rani BA gang jaae ga,,waha waha ill follow,, hav lost the courage to watch any other indian show bt never mind wud gate crash any forum fr all u paglets n wud never leave all u alone n let u all in peace,,😛

swat hamesha yaad rakhna ur the binding force of BA n ill always love u fr that,, Love U!!😛 ( bus isse zada long possible nahi hai...😛)
ye le tere liye... 😭 find it apt,, !! jese k who keh raha ho,,
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Whole life is one big role. You just need to follow the terms of scenarios. I Mishal and Eisha are great actors and certainly will play a major role in his life. I wish them all the luck and that they manage to find their role.
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hain? is this your last thought?? erhhh I understand swat... thank you for all your effort ..especially at times when you were under the weather.. Thanks for your committment and all the inspiring posts .. for me they were uplifting and calming always.. loved how you earmarked the vice of anger and rage in this one.. here in the summers swat, drivers suffer from rage syndrome the heat all around boils the mind too...yes anger in humans I believe agonizes the gods too.. keeping thursday and friday 'sepisodes in mind anger certainly causes a lot of damage.. the effects are far reaching. swat its hard to turn the other cheek.. one has to be disciplined .. to over come fury it's jolly hard work.. for anger is a reactionary emotion which people show when faced by a distateful situation. But best if one can let reason prevail.. and yes dhani and her intuition or lack of having faith in it.. astounds me.. I haven't watched today's episode yet seems like the tripathi's are back in the show along with kamini.. me chuckling.. this is not good bye swat... dont be so morbid... waise you are not swati.. not a single bad bone in your body.. dont change mate.. much love and be blessed with good health always! thanks for your lovely input on Ishq... yours hammie
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: zajedno

Sura ...
Again one of those posts when Could not get any mistake. And turn now to stand aside Danh. She referred to some of its corners no longer trusted Viplav. She heard tell and it left a lot of bitterness and pain in it. The thought that she was the biggest mistake of his life and until recently was his greatest love, makes it that he does not believe. He hit her and she was not to blame. He sent the best but it was not to blame. Now, how to trust him, to once again be close to him and not to expect the same. He is now married to another woman and has a son and she does not want to forget. It is this which is again sacrifice for others. There will never be happy percent think her Viplav loves another woman. And she was always just liked it. Disappointment .so he could get married when she told them that nothing will separate us. And it affects her psyche. All she survived him. And sadness and happiness and love and hate all that happened between them. It is difficult to trust someone again who has done many things for which you thought never. Although the only thing that bothers me is that she has to tell him the truth. This is something that is necessary to both to their soul calmed down now because the storm to them and until the calm will not be able to move on.


Zaj, it's SWATHI's post, not Sura.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Sudha its okay by mistake she must have written the content is for this post only.

Hammie yes dear mostly my last post...have to see whether Mishal is in yest epi...if I find the concept good then I may write another one. Lets see what will happen. Maine Kabhi good bye nahi bola 😆 how will I leave you soo soon 😆
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pearl100

Hey Sudha its okay by mistake she must have written the content is for this post only.


Hammie yes dear mostly my last post...have to see whether Mishal is in yest epi...if I find the concept good then I may write another one. Lets see what will happen. Maine Kabhi good bye nahi bola 😆 how will I leave you soo soon 😆


Oye Swat, you are up...I know I know, it could have been a typo or something...
Anyway, aaj ka epi. Kaisa tha??? Did u watch yet????

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