Handle your business without people knowing your business!!!

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The quotes...You may think the grass is greener on the other side. But if you take the time to water your own grass it would be just as green. Don't concern yourself with things that don't concern you. If it's not your business, don't make it your burden. When you mind your business, life is way less stressful.

Minding your own business will take you very far in life. Do what you do and be yourself. Don't worry about what other people say. When you worry too much about what others think, you leave little to no room to be yourself. Don't leave something good to find something better. Once you realize you had the best, the best will find better.

Don't draw another's bow, don't ride another's horse, don't mind another's business. A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it. It just blooms. When you mind your own business you will never get caught up in all the nonsense. Stop worrying about other people's business...holds true.


When you have your own troubles, concentrate on finding the solutions rather than trying to involve yourself in others matters. In every mistake there is a potential for growth. A mistake is only a mistake if you don't learn from it. Mistakes are meant for learning, not repeating. Mistakes are not a problem, not learning from them is.

Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines. A problem is a chance for you to do your best. So find opportunity in every problem and look out for solutions for you are the one to solve them. Don't look for someone who will solve all your problems. God will never give ot solve your problems directly of what you ask for, he will give you an opportunity to make everything right, believe in him.


Dhani has committed the same mistake in involving herself in others matters. She has her matters to be sorted and yet she tries to help others. She has to earn fees for her daughter's admission, and she goes involved in Richa's personal matters.

When Richa herself asks her not to bother, in spite of Parshiya's advice to leave the matter she still is hell bent on taking to Richa's mother. She has never learnt her lesson from the past. This is the exact way she was trying to help Km out and instead her life itself changed and she paid a heavy price for it.

Had Dhani allowed Km to walk away from her life or not allowed her in her personal matters she wouldn't have to face this day. When Richa was not interested in her help she should have left the matter then and there. Her too much goodness always lands her up in troubles. She never thought about her risk ie her job in case she loses the contract how will she get the money she is earning to pay for Vidha.


The mistake was equally committed by Viplav few years by deciding to help Km in her studies, he we got hints that she was nowhere interested in the Law books, and was over indulged in his personal matters he should have asked her mind her own business.

What you allow shall continue, here when Dhani is trying to help Richa and continues to do so even thou she doesn't want any of her help and instead blames her, she is asking for more and more troubles. She should have ended the matter there and rather concentrated on her goals as no Richa is going to come and her out. It is only Parshiya at present who is willing to Dhani no matter what.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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UnRes.. 😛


Ohhh swati darls... I'm missing chattar pattar with u alot... 😆
Hayye Viplov Dhani centric totd padh k maza aagya... thnk u fr dat sweets... 😳
Haan yaar ye Dhani ki porani bemari hai... musibat gale m latkane ki expert hai shru se iss mai..😛
I totally agree she's been ditched by ppl cz ov her gullibility in past too... kam ko viplov se zada dhani ne he latkaya tha gale mai... viplov jst played along.. 😛 or aisa play along kia k uska pati hee ban gaya...😡 gadha gold medalist😛 don't frget Dhani's so called Sakhi ws km.. 🥱
Her character's basic trait is ths onli.. 😆
Her too much goodness has sank her ghar sansaar bt she don't want to learn frm her mistake at all.. 😕
Or jahan tak Viplov ki baat hai tou he does thnk about his happiness most of the times.. fr him he don't blindly think abt faltu ki samaj sewa all the time.. even now if he's helping Richa it's cz in the end ths act will somehow gve him the ultimate pleasure n joy n that's y he's in ths eloping business at the moment. ..😛
Brilliant quotes as ever dear... 😳
Don't leave something good to find something better
Want to dedicate ths to my sweet lil joy baby.. 😳

Dedication post pe jaate hoe lajja aarae hai manne..🤣 😆 ok will update there... 😳
Edited by NusiSg - 9 years ago
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Aaj Hammie nahi dikhi kyun?? You come only to reserve kya 😆
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pearl100

Aaj Hammie nahi dikhi kyun?? You come only to reserve kya😆

kia na UnRes...taaney mut do... 😆 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Nuss ...good to see you after a long time 😆 abhi meri mahatva purna samjh ayi 😎 😆...thank you for reading and sharing your view... Yes Dhani always jumps to help someone instead of helping herself...her goodness is a draw back in her case expects people to good equally ...unfortunately that might not be the case ...as Acharya Chanakya says straight trees are cut first this applies to Dhani well in the past as well in the present.

True she was warned by dadi and RajLakshmi but paid no heed to them and that landed her in big trouble...Viplav does think about himself only these days 😆 he is absolutely least interested in his so called family...but eventually haan this will lead to dhani and viplav's face off...Till then take care.

Haww so you are leaving Joya to find someone better kya 😲 😆 😆
Spree mili aaj mujhe.
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Reading your post I thought that's what the essence and responds to all of us. To mind our own business and not interfere in other people. But life is always we impose unpredictable something that we need to do so, and unwittingly intervening in other people's work. A child falls in the streets and near his parents run after you pick it up because it is in our nature to help each Here's an example from the series Vidha was locked in a room Viplav race to break the door to the freed .U some things is perhaps better to do not stir. Perhaps as you say Danh did not need to be flesh but then if something goes wrong, they make you feel guilty Viplav wants to help too but he wants to get married until they Danh wants to do everything by the book. We Viplav is a romantic soul who sees only the most beautiful in everything he wants such a wedding as he had but Danh because of what happened, wants to get to a wedding held according to the rules. I agree that both make mistakes but life and fate always entangled his fingers and sometimes can not avoid but to get hung up. No one is unaware that might make mistakes but who will know who is right this time. Do Viplav who wants to be a wreath at the speed or Danh that wants with the blessing of the elders. In fact no one is perfect and no one knows how to react in a situation until I can not be the same. I am sorry but what now will suffer because Danh and Simone against it.. When you look you never know when you need to turn your head the other way and do not meddle in other people's work and when you need to show yourself and to do the right thing to help me in the middle of the situation and perhaps also when in the middle of everything yet you blame for something so you may be right with it. Although it depends on the man if he could turn the other way or will be strong enough to stop and help but to be later
Edited by zajedno - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello Zajedno 😊...good to see you...thank you for reading and sharing your view...Totally respect your pov dear but there is a thin line between humanity and over indulgence in others matters. What viplav had to do to help out vidha was on humanitarian grounds ...fine even if we consider what dhani tried to for the couple then what ?? When she was clearly asked to stay away from their personal then why still go further ??

She was blamed by Richa now trapped by Simone her contract is gone...instead of going further she should have concentrated in her own matters wouldn't it be better...she has to collect money for the admission fees and here she is involving herself in some other's affairs...it clearly shows she never learnt her lesson at all.

She was given advice by Parsiya as well but she never paid any heed, had it been her mother as well she would have given her the same advice...it looks like she wants to take responsibility of the entire eloping couples and marry them off accordingly...Till then take care.
Edited by pearl100 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This post is something i need to apply in life.
But still get involved.
Not everyone can mind their own business only.
Hope mujhme thori akkal aa jaye isko padne ki bad.
Yeah dhani is on her mahatma mood again.
She has taken d responsibility of stopping every couple of Mumbai from eloping.
Let her do her mahan karm.she will soon b in trouble.but yes its guaranteed that she wont learn from her mistake.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: NusiSg

UnRes.. 😛


Ohhh swati darls... I'm missing chattar pattar with u alot... 😆
Hayye Viplov Dhani centric totd padh k maza aagya... thnk u fr dat sweets... 😳
Haan yaar ye Dhani ki porani bemari hai... musibat gale m latkane ki expert hai shru se iss mai..😛
I totally agree she's been ditched by ppl cz ov her gullibility in past too... kam ko viplov se zada dhani ne he latkaya tha gale mai... viplov jst played along.. 😛 or aisa play along kia k uska pati hee ban gaya...😡 gadha gold medalist😛 don't frget Dhani's so called Sakhi ws km.. 🥱
Her character's basic trait is ths onli.. 😆
Her too much goodness has sank her ghar sansaar bt she don't want to learn frm her mistake at all.. 😕
Or jahan tak Viplov ki baat hai tou he does thnk about his happiness most of the times.. fr him he don't blindly think abt faltu ki samaj sewa all the time.. even now if he's helping Richa it's cz in the end ths act will somehow gve him the ultimate pleasure n joy n that's y he's in ths eloping business at the moment. ..😛
Brilliant quotes as ever dear... 😳
Don't leave something good to find something better
Want to dedicate ths to my sweet lil joy baby.. 😳

Dedication post pe jaate hoe lajja aarae hai manne..🤣 😆 ok will update there... 😳



Apa iske sath rehke wise ban rahe ho but mujhe kuch samajhme nehi aya.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi Swathi,
"Minding one's own business" ...believe me, this is a hard one for most.
To many, meddling into others business ...it's their second favorite job./ past-time.
It's a big human weakness. No matter how messed their life is, they will not stop poking their nose into other people's business. Ways of the world...never ceases...

Dhani is inherently a good human being , tries to help others before helping herself. But this nature of hers has hurt her badly. She has not learnt from it. Now she is trying to again involve herself in helping Richa / Deepak. Her intentions are good, but does she have to do this when she has a bucketful of problems in her personal life??

Vip , on the other hand probably finds satisfaction uniting 2 ppl in love. He wants them to be happy ,
& by helping them, gives him some sort of mental peace.
He wants them to have what he has lost...THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE

Swathi, thanks again for reminding us thru' ' this thought... that we all have our work cut out for us...we need to help others, but not interfere in their affairs unless asked to.

TC



Edited by Mishfan - 9 years ago

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