I just feel that anu is someone who doesnt think before saying....as far as the deepali contro goes i feel sony should stop doing such silly things, moreover i think what anu meant was that deepali's losing her focus and it's affecting her singing....i mean dont elders tell us sometimes when we are loosing focus to concentrate on our goals and not let our feelings or affections deflect us from our goal.....just that the way anu put it, it was bad and ugly.....