Discussion of the week

Discussion of the week- "Do things change after you say I love you to your special someone?"

In a bid to outdo other forums in terms to matter and acitivity, and to boost our own level of it, a bunch of us got together and thought of this idea. Thus presenting to you, Discussion of the week.

Every thursday activity hits rockbottom with nothing there to discuss. Thus this hopefully will help us overcome that hurdle. There are certain rules to this aspect though.

1)It is neccessary to back up whatever you are saying with reasons and situations. This is not an opinion thread, this is a debate thread.

2)Indulge in giving all your possible theories and reactions to a question and make sure that you believe in what you're saying.

3)This will be an open debate, and members can post as many times as they want to, having a heated and two way debate about the question or discussion of the week. Kindly stick to one opinion. No jhulufying between two.

4)no name calling, or profanity please.

On with This week's Discussion.

India Calling had taken an interesting turn, what with Aditya finally realising that it might be good to clear out facts and feelings with Chandni face to face. So without giving it another thought, he's off to Jalandhar to unite with his lady love.

This brings us to another thing- Veer Zaara style and DDLJ copying, Aditya Jalandhar toh pahunch jayega but to what extent will he go to convince Chandni that she belongs to him? ?To what extent should anyone go to convince their love anything?

So this week we shall discuss- how far will you go to get your loved one? Will you get up early morning to feed pigeons? Will you leave your perfectly good life in india and take off to Pakistan?

I declare this discussion open.

Nice topic riddhi. 👏 👏 👏 .
I think love is part of life bt not d heart of life.i mean v r answerable to many other ppl apart frm our loved ones.For a guy whom i kno frm past few months or even years i ll not leave my parents.Niether ll i change my lifestyle for him.he has to accept me d way i m.Their is a very thin line b/w passion n obssesion.One shud b passionate abt his luv bt not obssesd.To conclude i wud like 2 say its necessary 2 maintain balance in life.Every step in life shud b taken after giving a proper thought to it coz after wards v shud not regret wat v did in our past.

Well personally speaking although, I think what we're discussing here isn't who's important, your parents or your loved one. What I'm talking about here is the person you love needs to be reassuared of your love, or needs to be told how much they mean to you.
I personally think that to pacify or assuare my patner, I'd go to any lengths. As far as trust, or love or anything else is concerned, I think there really is nothing that shouldn't be done to make that person feel special.

At the end of the day, if the entire parents vs him thing isn't an issue, then there ideally shouldn't be much that one should stop at. Love is selfless and giving.

arre waah kya topic hai... 👏 👏 👏

ok,now,i have been in luv..been ,duh,i am in luv (but its a sad story..he left school).... 😕

neways back to the discussion...i have never considered loving ur family or loving that special some1 in ur life so different.the only difference is that ur family knows u luv them and they luv u and u kno it....they have been with you since ur childhood and they understand and know u.
u get that same feeling of familiarity when u are with the person u luv.
and once she accpets u,and u tell her u luv her...things do change,but for the better.
after the three words have been said...for some ppl they become a ritual and for some they become a way of telling their feelings.
that 1 "i luv u" can change 2 lives.the life of ur loved 1 and ur life.
when u say "i luv u",it means that u r gonna protect that person,since u know her/him and care abt them as they are and it would cost u huge pain to see nething happen to them.
the pain of separation is very tough(trust me on this 1)...and the fear of being separated from the 1 person that cares abt u more than himself/herself....and loves u above all others...is unbearable...this fear drives people to do stuff they could never do before and ignites in them a passion and madness for protecting and winning their loved 1...to show them how much they care so that their loved 1 stays with them forever....
at last,i would just like to say that "even if i hate pigeons....and i do hate them a lot....in fronyt of the guy i love..i am willing to get up early and feed them..even hold them but not in front of ne1 else"and why is that??
simply becoase of 3 words that render ppl to do stuf they could never have done in normality-i luv u

luv u
geetu