Discussion of the week

Discussion of the week:

the hate to love saga in movies or shows: is it fake or possible in real life too......

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hate to love: a myth or reality....... does this exist in reality.... the way it is shwn on screen translate into reality... would one fall for a guy/girl he/she have hated eventually....if yes.. why do ppl. get attracted in such cases.....

What am I gonna do
When I get next to you
Wanna hold you close to me
But you bring me misery

I hate you, I love you

Let's go to see a show
Where to well I don't know
Will you make up your mind
Or are you gonna waste my time

hereby i delcare the discussion open

I think a hate to love relationship is quite possible but not in all cases. It happens only in those cases where there has been an attraction from earlier on. People fight then get attracted to each other because of the strong but opposite qualities that they see in each other. This has clearly happened in Aditya and Chandni's case in India Calling. You hate a person because you see in them qualities that you would like to see in yourself. So it is but natural that you fall in love with that person over time. But yes, if the hate emotion is too strong then obviously it will dominate all your feelings.... so it also depends on the person.

FInally, I believe that a hate to love relation is quite possible in real life too.

i kno from personal experience that hate converts into luv....altho it ended up differently in my case cuz i had already found my hero b4 my dushman entered my life...but whatever.
i think hate converts into luv bcoz when th eperson u hate is gone,u dont have ne1 to fight with...and ur dushman only understands u too well,so u start to miss him,and the idiotic reasons u fight for...so u realize the futility of fighting and end up becoming friends which goes to the next step and u end up falling for the person u hate...
u fight with the person u dont have nething common with and since opposites attract,they tend to actually but not quite in ht ebeginning...thus from hate always springs th eflower of luv

and cool topic yaar!!
luv
geet

well i quite agree with preeti here ........
tht in few cases it might be possible ..as to resist attraction the people fight...and as theer was an attraction before it turns into love.
but when there is real hatred and u dun like the person at all then i dun think tht hatred can turn into love.
in movies and serials they show tht ....u hate a person terribly tht u cant stand him and thre was no attraction watsoever.....even then they fall in love later ....this concept i cant digest coz if u hate anyone u juss cant develpo those feelings for tht person.

I think hate to love is possible in real life....but it certainly depends upon the extent of hatred for oneself.if the hatred is quite intense then i think its jst not possible to stand tht person for the life.impossible.not assuming such an intense hatred.....hate to love is absolutely possible from the personal experiences n from the things which v come to hear.two people hate each other,want to part ways but circumstances doesnt allow so.agreeing wid it they move on n get accoustomed to each other.but theres an intermediate thing tht has to be thr....Friendship.thru this source individuals regain the lost respect for each other n then eventually can fall for each other.widout friendship not possible.the diffrences r eradicated or discarded.as it is they say"opposite charges attract each other".can b the reason for togetherness.
My conclusion:-assuming no intense hatred,hate to love is possible thru intermediate friendship.
by the ways good topic
With Lots Of Love
Praji

Yes, Hate to begin with and love followed is very much possible. I speak to a very personal experience. To dislike someone in the beggining is a very instinctive reaction. But to fall in love with that person is also very much so instinctive.
You see, when a person falls in love with another, they change in more ways than one. Love makes you compassionate, humble, caring and much of a fool. To love someone who posesses such qualitites is not so hard. Besdies, when you hate someone with a passion its not merely your head responding, its your hormones too. How long before those hormones return with a favourable response to the signals sent by the treacherous heart?

It is said that hatred is stronger an emotion than love...When you dislike someone, you pay so much attention to what that person does that you might end up noticing traits you might like in the person...
I have fought and hated the person I eventually fell for.It was later that I realised my dislike for the guy stemmed from the fact that he wasn't paying me so much attention as I wanted him to and I disliked being so mad about him, so I continued being unreasonable and wasn't very friendly with him...Another reason I love Adi and Chandni's relationship.
Anger and fights also show the person's passionate nature, so am glad all's not hunky dory between Adi and Chandni but I hope it will soon be.
And it would also make a great story for Adi and Chandni to tell their children and grandchildren as to how they came together, despite all odds (read Dilawar, bauji, Kamini and biji)...

I think u can fall for a person whom u hate earlier bcos u start missing him once he or she is gone n yes he als makes ur brain work faster.u start missing d constant nagging dat he used do or d way u used 2 tease him or irritate him all these things collectively develops a soft corner 😳 in ur heart for dat person.

So I also believe in journey from hate 2 luv.


Adi Rocks! 👏

I think Hate is a strong word, wld prefer "Dislike". Coz when u hate a person, you practically avoid him/her n every action of him/her will be annoying to u.

It can so happen when the person (with whom u eventually fall in love )fails to create a proper first impression. By being with the person will make us realise his/her good qualities which will cover all flaws. We end up arguing with the person or even engage in small fights coz we r just finding a reason to talk with him/her 😉 .........and as they say "Opposites attract"