Arrange Marriage Really?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I am seeing this in all the social platforms,even yt and here that people are concluding arylie marriage as an Arrange Marriage which is absolutely BS. For family and friends this was a Love Marriage, for Imlie she was forced and then given a choice and for Aru he wanted a lifetime protecting her he made her marry him. At the end of the day she was forced by her mom when Aryan gave her option to walk out.

Arrange marriage is a format which goes through family, relatives or even Shadi.com

Now Arrange Marriage bolna bandh hona chahiye coz from no angle this was an Arrange Marriage it was about to be a Contract Marriage which couldn't happen at the last moment.

I don't understand from where people conclude this as an Arrange Marriage...

They were in love before but got mixed with Aryan's revenge track else usse bina shadi kiye hi akt se Imlie move on kar rahi thi that too in a healthy manner ...


So disappointed thinking that people is concluding things this way😭

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Does arrange has to mean "arranged by family" ?

Their marriage was arranged by circumstances, same can also be said for adi.lie first marriage.

It's a perspective, why let that disappoint you?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: SundariP

Does arrange has to mean "arranged by family" ?

Their marriage was arranged by circumstances, same can also be said for adi.lie first marriage.

It's a perspective, why let that disappoint you?


Maybe coz I went by the typical meaning of arrange marriage.😳

I never thought about circumstances I thought it was more of a input from the individuals, where as adilie marriage was indeed twisted by the circumstances here it went through the process of knowing each other first, yep love wasn't there but they were enough aware of each other's.

So it got me disappointed maybe.I was like from which angle does this looks like an Arrange Marriage?😕

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: MiuniS


Maybe coz I went by the typical meaning of arrange marriage.😳

I never thought about circumstances I thought it was more of a input from the individuals, where as adilie marriage was indeed twisted by the circumstances here it went through the process of knowing each other first, yep love wasn't there but they were enough aware of each other's.

So it got me disappointed maybe.I was like from which angle does this looks like an Arrange Marriage?😕


We were highly disturbed by the contract marriage thing, more because it was supposed to be fake but Aryan single handedly decided for the actual marriage as well.

When meethi forced imlie. That is also technically a forced marriage but in south Asian culture it's so common that parents would take marriage decision for us hence "arranged marriage" tag.

It's a comfort word for the fandom 🤷

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