A LOVE THAT HEALS

The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love.” – Hubert H.Humphrey

When i started watching this show after Aryan's entry( bcz tbh i hated the premise with all my heart it was offensive to me as a woman and nothing short of promoting pedophilia), i was astonished how seemlessly aryan was written in the premise, as if he was always supposed to be part of the show. Fahmaan with his impeccible entry forced me to tune in this show. And the 100 epsiodes i watched was so beautifully crafted .

For me Arylie story is about healing . Both are broken souls,fighting their inner demons despite which they come together and give life a chance.( I hate makers for touching this dynamics)

But for than Imlie my heart hurts for Aryan. Aryan is way broken . Aryan connected with Imlie bcz he saw a part of himself in her , he wanted to for her what he himself wanted.

But the biggest irony is he pushes Imlie to move on but he himself his stuck where he was 4 years back.

The one point which stood out for me was how despite being self aware he refuses to acknowledge his feelings for Imlie. The truth is this guy is hurting alot and he is guilty of existing.

Arvind was his everything . Heck he promised to.protect him but life played a cruel joke . He couldn' t protect him and saw him.burning in front of his eyes. Moreover , according to him, it was he who was supposed to be there. Aryan is overprotective but deep.inside he is guilty of living . How he wished to be in place of his jeeju.

Since that day, he doesnt consider himself worthy of happiness. That is why he has guarded his heart and retracted into his shell. Accepting that he loves Imlie means he is giving himself a chance of happiness which he seems himself unworthy of.

Aryan forcing Imlie for marriage is unlike him , but the nightmare played its part. He is terrified of losing her bcz he subconsciously wants to be happy.

Arylie journey will be beautiful.if makers play their cards well they still could salvage the dynamics that they established.

Till now we have seen how aryan has been there for imlie. But soon all the heavy lifting will be done by Imlie. Aryan will find it hard to acknowledge that he loves Imlie and he also has right to be happy bcz deep down he blames himself somewhere reason for losing arvind. Also all the babusaheb jaap that Imlie did will come back to haunt her. Aryan will find it hard to believe that Imlie can fall.in love with him. It will be Imlie who will have to work hard to.convince him . But with marriage angle , Aryan will feel just bcz he is her husband she is feeling obligated to love him. Imlie will have to convince him that he loves him for him , even if they weren't married she would have still loved him. Also AKT will make it difficult for Aryan where I feel that rather than watching ASR VS AKT , we will be watching AKT VS IMLIE .

Imlie will have to convince him that he deserves to be happy .

Imlie still has to know the extent this guy is broken. I think Arvind Arpita uncleaned room will have to make an entry .

Till now it was Aryan who took steps in this relationship, but Soon it will be Imlie who.will.hold reigns in this relationship.

She will realise her love for aryan , she will make aryan realise his love.for.her.

I feel it will be Imlie who.will.confess her love first.

PS: This is what i feel based on foreshadowing which we got during PD track starting from.bus journey , Imlie breaking her and Aryan's chains and in hurt with support dialogue. But after the mess makers are making with their characters and dynamics during wedding track i am keeping my expectation low.

However with the actors and chemistry it will be fun to watch

Feel everything you said...

I've my own theories that help me rationalise the "forced" wedding...

But i love the dreams you weaved here for the future so living in them for now

Thanks ❤️

Tbh for me the marriage was justified and I saw it coming when AKT found Aryan's past. It was visible that Imlie trusts Aryan more than herself and AKT jst can't digest it. With Malini out makers need something as a plot so I thought they would end up making a distance between ASR & Imlie. So they made AKT blamed for the Weather mistake which lead to him losing his fame and he went to Imlie to convince their friendship to be a lie.

Now Imlie would have never stayed back there after this. So he planned to direct his anger on AKT and he himself became the villain for it.

Also the biggest turnover is the fact that Imlie is blinded right now. Aryan will never accept his love even after marriage, for him Imlie is his responsibility just like his family.

So at the end Imlie will be the one who will work hard to make him say what's in his heart.

And I feel like it has started from 2day already. The way Aryan saved her and Imlie remembered how he is the only one who saved her everytime makes me hopeful a little to think the time has come for realization to seep in her mind

well said and analyzed I completely agree .....I hope the makers of the show read your post and get an idea from it. if they play their cards right this serial can be interesting for a long time or else viewers can lose interest quickly (especially if what they are showing now becomes repetitive). I also think makes should make blue and doll exit soon as they are very annoying.

Originally posted by: MiuniS

Tbh for me the marriage was justified and I saw it coming when AKT found Aryan's past. It was visible that Imlie trusts Aryan more than herself and AKT jst can't digest it. With Malini out makers need something as a plot so I thought they would end up making a distance between ASR & Imlie. So they made AKT blamed for the Weather mistake which lead to him losing his fame and he went to Imlie to convince their friendship to be a lie.

Now Imlie would have never stayed back there after this. So he planned to direct his anger on AKT and he himself became the villain for it.

Also the biggest turnover is the fact that Imlie is blinded right now. Aryan will never accept his love even after marriage, for him Imlie is his responsibility just like his family.

So at the end Imlie will be the one who will work hard to make him say what's in his heart.

And I feel like it has started from 2day already. The way Aryan saved her and Imlie remembered how he is the only one who saved her everytime makes me hopeful a little to think the time has come for realization to seep in her mind

I don't think it will be anytime soon judging the lovesick looks she was giving her ex. She was really concerned about his reaction and hurt🤢

And I also think marriage was a given. That dream was a major foreshadowing. It wasn't just randomly put there. He's afraid to lose her. And his 'saving her' is actually a facade. So I have no problem even if the marriage is seemingly forced because in reality it isn't.

Sheen, MY GOD SHEEN, IS THAT YOU😲? From eons ago? 🤗Silsila se.....?

If it is you, very thoughtful analysis as always. I love what you wrote here.

My thoughts exactly I hated the premise of the show atrocity on a girl child, bigamy, romanticizing child marriage and bordering on pedophilia🤬I watched initially to see how Malini will fare, because that was the only character that made any sense. Once they decided to decimate all of us sympathizing with Malini by rubbing in " organic love, Sita Maiyaa's gift, eternal soulmates etc. " I was done. When they ridiculed Malini to a degree, it was not worth watching.

Recently started watching again with entry of ASR as a no-nonsense, straightforward person, who is fiercely protective of his family, a strong conscience which was lacking with the other guy, is what got me interested. I resisted Imlie for the longest time. But, I decided to give her the benefit of doubt as she is young, with no worldly wisdom, unexposed, beaten down by the ex with accusations of adultery, climbing the professional ladder by exchanging favors to her boss, public humiliation of writing a memoir of sorts about a presumed scandalous relationship🤬But how do you overlook all of this and carry on even a cordial relationship with that person? how do you still sympathize with that crook? 🤬😡

I do not understand this life long organic love, which is a gift from Sita Maiyaa. In my world, love doesn't exist in vaccum, except between a mother-child, even vice versa is suspect😭. It has to be nurtured and nourished. If you get a repeated beating from your spouse, can you still love that spouse? Like dil-se? May be people stay in those relationships for any number of reasons, security, finances, children, society. I am not going to judge such relationships. But, kya zaroorat thi Imlie ko? She didn't have security either physical, emotional or financial from that dastard wedding, certainly no social stature. So, what is it that is keeping her pegged. I think the should show the protagonist brave enough to kick the useless people and move forward.

Aryan had provided everything for her without reducing her into a pesky dependent👍🏼He enabled a few things for her, but hey ! all of us need an occasional helping hand to move forward, NO? 🤔I know she is mad at him at this time, I am OK with that. Losing a trusted friend is not the best thing to happen for her at this time.

She poured out her dard more than once in front of ASR, rightfully so. I am not going to judge her for that. But, why doesn't she consider, losing a bade bhayya, seeing his beloved sister and mother going through that pain and not able to wrap them in an embrace and make it all go away....... can she even imagine what that must feel like for Aryan😭? Moreover, like you said, Aryan more than once said that he should have been in the place of Arvind and blames himself for still living and breathing🤗 That has got to kill him completely. Yet, she completely minimalized his dard into a worthless revenge👎🏼🤢. It is another matter altogether how much involvement the entitled journalist had🤔

But, but, the agonizing for the ex is seriously grossing me out. The soulful, puppy dog looks and worrying about the psyche of the abusive ex is just intolerable.

Just some random rambling from my side. I am not enjoying the forceful marriage. But without this forceful marriage, how are Imlie and Aryan going to engage? Now she will bolt as she knew about his revenge deal. But, I want a smart and decisive Aryan back, not the strong-arming Aryan because he is able to do so😒 Hope I made some sense.

He might say she is an employee, he is the boss and she is his intern, PG whatever. But truthfully since the PD episodes he has been attracted towards her, let's not forget the scene where is threw sindoor at her in the hut so from a spiritual sense SM ne aashirwaad to bahut pehle hi de diya tha.

I agree the entire scenario of forced marriage feels heavy on all our hearts but she could have chosen to walk away from all the T drama which she did not. She wanted to save her ex and he demanded a payment to forget his revenge against a man responsible for his jiju's death.

After that too Imlie had chances to come clean to Arpita, Narmada but she stuck to the story because she cares for Aryan's family, again did not look for her freedom. Either this girl is a glutton for punishment or she subconsciously wants to stay with Aryan and his family.

Hi mili nice to meet you again

I so agree with everything you said .

I myself was intersted in malini's journey bcz she was wronged for both but knew deep down that makers will do her dirty for audience acceptance.

Imlie is actually pissing me off since office scenes. Aryan for the first time showed her a bit of his pain but instead of understanding him , she advocated that one person who he considers is guilty. I am also finding it hard that when it comes to Aryan all her empathy is thrown out of window.

The least should have done then was just support him. Remember how he stood silently when you received divorce papers. But she failed

Also ,her fliper behaviour is making me more mad .

One day you are doing tandav for saving his life, standing up for me in front of your ex but as soon as aryan lost his cool she started doubting him and their relationship. Woman he already told u he would never use you twice. It feels like his actions meant nothing .

I am also having difficult time accepting this forced marriage. I so want this to turn somehow consensual. I loved Aru and this track is messing up with his most beautiful trait.

Also one thing , Imlie always says to aryan tum mere baat pad les, then why dont she make effort to understand him. She should have introspected all the things he did for him and come to conclusion that this is so unlike her friend . And then questioned him that she knows him and he can never intentionally hurt her , then why is he putting her through this.

The fact his Imlie put aryan on high pedestal where he is just, unbreakable. And now that image has shattered she is finding it hard to reconcile with him.

The point is Imlie is coming across as someone whose aryan was never a priority. In this T/AKT vs ASR , according to ASR she chose them and unfortunately this will haunt her. Bcz Aru will always feel that he will never be her priority

Remember that dialogue in hut where aryan says tum apno ko dissappoint nah kar sakti but mujhe harbar dissapoint karti ho. That guy thinks he doesnt even come in her apne list. And damn with the way she handled whole arvind revealation she proved him right. If aryan was her priority she would have seen and understood how this revenge is causing him more harm like his mother and sis.

But Alas,