DIAGNOSIS : INDIGESTION!!!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Good morning girls !!!

I hope everybody is well. I watched both of today's and yesterday's episodes in one go and I rolled my eyes so hard that I thought that I would dislocate at least one of them🤔

Anyway, before I go any further, I couldn't resist using this title🤣🤣Thoroughly enjoyed ASR's antics today👍🏼. The only sane voice in the show, helplessly falling into an abyss is a fun watch😃See, this is what I have been saying, give me good, sane love story, 👍🏼 not some cockamamie love story and label it organic😡🤢Never bought the yuck showed before and never will😎This is what the young girl should have been made to do, move on from the forced atrocity right from the beginning, not show ' true love🤬' between victims of the atrocity on a girl child. Please note, I am calling both Imlie and Adi guy as victims of the forced marriage alone. As an adult and a reporter with farther reach, it would have been nice for him to have taken a stand against this atrocity instead of looking at a young Imlie as a better and interesting choice between the two wives😡I am grossed out saying this......... I will go on and on once I get started with this. Moving on......

Only saving grace as I said earlier is ASR and the actor's phenomenal portrayal of this role👍🏼. Why is he wearing those glasses? Seems like a real injury. Those reminded me of the old 80s movies where heroes wore such glasses for songs🤔The sanest lines come from his mouth " why should a 19 yr old ladki be responsible for the family's illnesses, happiness or their burden"? Yes, why?😡I think his sister putting Aryan on the spot, by asking are you controlling Imlie too much by asking her not to do what she pleases, had me thinking.....😕I don't know how to answer that question myself. But, Aryan's worry is something else, it is not just physically caring for the family, but Imlie wants something else👎🏼 I did not understand what this "something else" for the life of me after watching both the episodes, after watching Imlie'r tirade.

As much as I want to give Imlie the benefit of doubt as a mere teenager, she trumps me by giving me an Encyclopedia Imlie on relationships and free ka gyan😡My head hurt seeing her doling out free ka gyan and the content of that gyan🤬. Writers once again banking on superficial concepts of cruella bahu trying to separate innocent son from an even more innocent MIL, FIL,SIL😡🤬. Far from it, did anybody notice Malini's plight in that useless family as a DIL? She gets constantly taunted, looked at with contempt, vitriolic hostility and mocked. Again, I do not understand for what😡If they do not like Adi guy's choice of wife, shouldn't they take that up with the Adi guy ? Instead they keep pinching Malini in the background while putting up a innocent facade of a tortured family? 😡 Even right after a supposedly critical event, Aparna insinuates that Malini is uksaoing her innocent son against all the family members👎🏼Like hell😡Yeah, the son is a innocent baccha who can be twirled around the bahu's fingers. The gall of Adi guy to accuse Malini of not being a bahu who had endeared herself to his family and therefore letting Imlie back into their lives😡💔What about him being a great damaad? Where are we with that? The hell, writers, what the hell🤬.

And Imlie's gyaan is nauseating. I want to remind people how callous Adi guy 😡was during Nishant's wedding when he brought his marriage with Imlie into the open. He was down right aggressive with family, his body language is belligerent as he moves into Aparna's face. The actor, I felt didn't control his body language, it is not as if he is disagreeing with his mother, but rather being aggressive and violent with road side romeos who are eve-teasing hsi patni ( emesis provoking lines humari patni, Ewwww.....) The arrogance was unbearable. Now, the same Imlie gives gyaan on how to reign in husband's emotions for the sake of family's mental sanity😡Headache inducing indeed. Like I said, just when I begin to give her the benefit of doubt.......Oh, well🤔

Just when some of us are under the impression that whatever Malini is saying makes sense, the writers again decide, it is time to decimate Malini again💔. I think this is where it is going from the feel of today's episode. But, I have to say she finally saw the light of the day when she said" I don't care anymore about the family, what they want or think. They can molly coddle Imlie all they want". I only wish that this is not followed by worse villainy, but I think the writers will bring her down to ashes again😒

Now, what does Imlie want is the million dollar question, raised by Aryan. So she wants to save " the family" and " innocent Adi" from Malini. I am sorry sound critical, but what is it that Adi guy doesn't know about Malini? If he made peace with whatever happened and trusted her enough to marry her, what is Imlie's beef about that? Does she want to separate Adi and Malini, so Adi will be available for marriage # 93? What does she actually envision for the family? Does she want Adi to follow his family's tradition of unsuccessful marriages?😡 I have to say I am not belittling betrayals in relationships at all. All of the family's bacches are so innocent that that they are all taken for a ride. Imlie, the great saves Rupi and Adi😡from their vile spouses, then what?

Probably a very unpopular opinion. If you are unable to make head or tails of what I am trying to say here, please join the ranksI am not sure either.......

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yup, I totally agree. Although to some extent even Malini is also a victim. She did marry a man hoping that he would love her, cherish her and respect the wedding vows they took even if she did not know that the man she is entrusting herself to was married prior.

Malini due to creatives became a raving psycho, that was the OTT portion that Indian audiences like and want for TRPs so that there is a "anti hero". This could have been handled better more delicately because it is telling a woman that if you try to fight for a relationship that you thought was yours is bad. of course there could have been better ways to fight for it as well going to counselling for example or mediation.

Honestly any relationship where there is no truth is a dead one but it is human nature to try and fight before a person realizes what is that they are trying to achieve by saving something that was not there.

Coming to Imlie's reason, if she is doing all this to save Satyakaam then I'm all for Malini's pardafaash (PF) otherwise if it is to show how Malini is bad and Adi is a 35 year old man-child who cannot distinguish between right and wrong and needs to ask his parents advice in everything then there is something seriously wrong with the writers and audiences.

But considering most Indian parents (mine including) expect their children to run all of their decisions by them even at this stage of life and seek their approval is laughable but true to nature. 🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Not an unpopular opinion 😆 this track is back to their peak regressive elements, very infuriating. Imlie is showing internalised misogyny and I am getting disconnected to her each day. Aryan is the only saving grace.

Edited by dee.soliloques - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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still reading through the post, yes the actor really injured himself and they had to incorporate it in the show. his one eye is hurt and hence the tinged glasses. they look horrendous but he is hurt so can't really help it.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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The fact that you do not try to use soft words for your opinion makes me respect you more 😆

Agree to almost everything.

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