Insensitive, Exploitative & Vindictive - Mother & Son

The Mother - Aparna Tripathi

Insensitivity:

• Threw water on a sleeping person to wake her up
• Begged M to not leave his son even after knowing she loves someone else
• Wanted M to do aarti with Adi in Pallavi's function even though she knows M loves someone else
• Wanted to unite Adi & M even though she knew both loved someone else
• Insulted Imlie about her clothes & makeup
  
• Didn't bother about Imlie who was bit by a snake even after she saved her son's life
  
• Accused Imlie of poisoning her own sister
• Asked M to do the evening aarti while Imlie was missing
• Insulted Imlie's family time & again
• Packed lunch for M while Imlie is cutting veggies and asks Sundar to pack for Imlie
• Humiliated Imlie just so that she gets surprised when accepted as her bahu
• Let M invite her mother who physically assaulted Imlie to her acceptance party
• Let M do Imlie's aarti to get into the room M and her son had s*x in (take your time to think about it)
• Planned her surprise party for her now bahu in front of her ex-bahu
• Kept asking Imlie to return to her son who doubts Imlie and won't send M away
• Asked Imlie to come and play with them in her ex-pati's mehendi function

Exploitation:

• Asked M to do the aarti with her son in Pallavi's function for the sake of izzat in the society
• Wanted M to be Radha and dance with Imlie's husband in front of her and the kids
  
• Tried to bribe her bahu to leave them by offering jewelry and money
  
• Asked Imlie to be the mother of the child cuz her son wouldn't want it to be away from him
• Asked Imlie to pacify Adi and stop him from marrying M even after he assassinated Imlie's character

Vindictiveness:

• Locked up her own son
• Lied on the stage to humiliate the girl whom her son loved
• Asked M to wear Imlie's saree which Adi selected for her to hurt her
• Gave Imlie's jewelry to M to hurt Imlie
• Blackmailed Adi to not go after Imlie when she was leaving

The Son - Aditya Kumar Tripathi (Discounting his pre truth revelation actions)

Insensitivity:

• Brushed off Imlie's claims as immaturity
• Dismissed his MIL's claims as kamzori & galatfehmi
• Asked Imlie to sit in the back seat because his ex-wife sat next to him
• Sat on the bed with the woman he slept with while his wife was watching from outside the room
  
• Asked M to convince his family to accept Imlie before even divorcing her
• Kept insisting Imlie publicly apologizes to M on multiple occasions
• Blamed and lashed out on Imlie multiple times in front of the family who already hates her
• Joked about Imlie doing her homework when she got kicked out of college
• Did the pooja with his ex-wife while Imlie sat and watched
• Held Imlie responsible for M's medication and questioned her
• Accused Imlie of misunderstanding M because she is her competition
• Rejected Imlie's demand of sending M back to her home
• Left Imlie without informing her right before she turned back to see him - just to make a call
  
• Didn't inform her even before leaving or after finding M
• Brought M back despite knowing that Imlie doesn't like it
  
• Accused Imlie of hating Malini
• Manhandled Imlie in front of his ex-wife
• Accused Imlie of spoiling everyone's festive mood
• Gaslighted Imlie and dismissed her claims again calling them her 'vehams'
  
• Questioned Imlie of shooting M believing her accusations
  

Exploitation:

• Broke Imlie's trust by deleting the video and not telling her until the court case is dismissed
• Asked Imlie to make hard decisions for him knowing what she'll decide
• Accepted AC's money for his wedding with her daughter whom he doesn't love
  
• Is using M to hurt Imlie and get the reaction he wants out of her
  

Vindictiveness:

• Taunted her in public about extracting favors from her boss by being his friend
• Called her a golddigger in front of his family
• Blackmailed her that he'll confront her boss if she won't go with him
• Used his job to defame Imlie by printing about their relationship without her consent
• Announced wedding with M without asking her for consent
• Decided to marry M to keep scores with Imlie
  
• Called Imlie characterless in public
• Kept taunting Imlie - a reporter who is doing her job - about her 'romantic poses' and 'love life'
• Called Imlie a golddigger in front of M
• Agreed with M that Imlie is a golddigger and reassured M that he's with her
• To be continued.............
  

PSA:

I have no sympathy towards M, I was never her fan.

And I didn't include their selfish deeds as it'll take forever to write them.

Danga,Dangal,and today Dhwans 😈

Originally posted by: FlowerHater

Danga,Dangal,and today Dhwans 😈

I ... I'm sorry I didn't even have the courage to read the full list, only did the mother and I've a question...

Are we counting her I/E/V nature towards malini as well?

I know you don't have sympathy for character but for a woman (that she was before she molested adi)

Jaise ek coin ka do side hote hai. Vaise har insaan meim achai aur burai hoti hai. Sirf unki galti ya saamne rakhne se voh poora ka poora insan galat nahi ho jayega. Jitni bhi acha kam karo par logon ko hamesha uss insaan ki ek galti ki intzaar hi rehta hai. Ek galti ki nahi ab tak jo bhi acha kiya voh sab meim mitti daali jayegi.

I am sorry but being a former adilie fan.. I still say this will be the most distasteful relationship I have come across in fiction if they get back together. Infuriating how they might get away with all this.

Originally posted by: Chintapandu

• Agreed with M that Imlie is a golddigger and reassured M that he's with her
• To be continued.............
  

One more thing today. implied malini is better because she never looked at another man.. forgot he looked at another woman when he was with her? Or sexist enough to not count it when a man does it?

Originally posted by: SundariP

I ... I'm sorry I didn't even have the courage to read the full list, only did the mother and I've a question...

Are we counting her I/E/V nature towards malini as well?

I know you don't have sympathy for character but for a woman (that she was before she molested adi)

Originally posted by: Vedika97

Jaise ek coin ka do side hote hai. Vaise har insaan meim achai aur burai hoti hai. Sirf unki galti ya saamne rakhne se voh poora ka poora insan galat nahi ho jayega. Jitni bhi acha kam karo par logon ko hamesha uss insaan ki ek galti ki intzaar hi rehta hai. Ek galti ki nahi ab tak jo bhi acha kiya voh sab meim mitti daali jayegi.

Originally posted by: dee.soliloques

One more thing today. implied malini is better because she never looked at another man.. forgot he looked at another woman when he was with her? Or sexist enough to not count it when a man does it?

LOL i kinda zoned out this duo's scene 🤢

he's not sexist, he's entitled to think whatever he does has a reason behind it - majboori, lachaari n whatever so he won't count his mistakes.