Moving past dejection towards hope again - Page 13

Originally posted by: Lodestar

BS pahad hai toh humar Imeliya bhi earthquake hai. Hila hila ke utha hi diya pahad...I mean ...ziddi bacche ko🤣🤣🤣

Loved this earthquake analogy 😆.....he needs this earthquake to shake him up from his static state from time to time😆

Waise I have to give kudos to these two for managing to do shuddhikaran of the same room/bed where such a paap was done on Adi😳😆......in dono ke positivity filled banter, comfort, trust ne phir se us room ko inka apna banaa diya :) This is definitely the first time Imlie has sat beside him on that bed itne aaraam se without needing to be called over😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Loved this earthquake analogy 😆.....he needs this earthquake to shake him up from his static state from time to time😆

Waise I have to give kudos to these two for managing to do shuddhikaran of the same room/bed where such a paap was done on Adi😳😆......in dono ke positivity filled banter, comfort, trust ne phir se us room ko inka apna banaa diya :) This is definitely the first time Imlie has sat beside him on that bed itne aaraam se without needing to be called over😆.

Did you crossover to the “Team something happened” side?!

No shuddhikaran because nothing happened. Right?! We are in this together. 😂

Yes, we needed that positivity banter more than him. They didn’t have a conversation alone since Adi’s NDE and her 🐍 bite.

Today is all about “S se Sabooth”. Jai Sitamayya ki.

Originally posted by: krispy

Did you crossover to the “Team something happened” side?!

No shuddhikaran because nothing happened. Right?! We are in this together. 😂

Yes, we needed that positivity banter more than him. They didn’t have a conversation alone since Adi’s NDE and her 🐍 bite.

Today is all about “S se Sabooth”. Jai Sitamayya ki.

LOL sorry what? Obviously not😕😆.

The room regardless needs shuddhikaran cuz Malini did try to grope Adi there, didn't she? And Imlie did have to bear the visual of seeing Malini emerging from the room while Adi was still on that bed....toh shuddikaran uske liye, bas *shrugs*

Adi-Imlie simply being themselves and comfortable together in the same space despite the horrors that have come before was enough to do shuddhikaran.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Loved this earthquake analogy 😆.....he needs this earthquake to shake him up from his static state from time to time😆

Waise I have to give kudos to these two for managing to do shuddhikaran of the same room/bed where such a paap was done on Adi😳😆......in dono ke positivity filled banter, comfort, trust ne phir se us room ko inka apna banaa diya :) This is definitely the first time Imlie has sat beside him on that bed itne aaraam se without needing to be called over😆.

Yes kudos to these 2 jhalles for giving us such a beautiful lovely scene in the same place that Didi executed her ghatiyapanti👏😆. Sach main shuddhikaran hi ho gaya of their room & our mind & hearts as well jo itne dinon se Didi ka atyachaar seh rahe the😆. As I mentioned in one of my previous posts, magic just literally happens when Adi-Imlie are allowed their space to communicate with each other. Their unfiltered communication with each other is just such a cornerstone of their relationship. I love their seedhi baat no bakwas more than any token I love yous. Nazar na lage inn jhallon ko😆.

Agreed that this is the first time they have shown Imlie comfortably sitting besides Adi on the bed without any prompting😆. Though as usual makers do not give us their routine daily life scenes where they behave freely as husband & wife, such scenes do give us a glimpse that they truly are partners now even though they are not staying together in one room. Everything is theirs, not mera aur tumhara- be it Adi's room or his lohein ki bhainsiya😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold1: They played that scene so beautifully ki sorry bolne ki zaroorat hi nahin padi....cuz what they showed was an Adi so tormented by HER dream being shattered like this, uske muh se kuch nikal hi nahin raha tha other than just the lamenting over how she stayed quiet even when he was being unfair to her.....and then they turned the scene towards Imlie being unable to bear seeing him heartbroken for HER, so she changed the topic to positive motivation that he doesn't need to worry for her cuz she knows the truth is still with her and she will get back all that she has lost.

@bold2: LOL has he really taught her how to ride the bike? It felt more like ab natural presumption hai that Powerful Imaliya can do anything🤣....kal ko dikhaa denge she already knows how to drive a car too🤣.

How far they've come from the day when Imlie didn't even know how to sit on the backseat of his bike😆

And what a difference it is when he is forced to apologize to didi - she literally had to force Adi to grovel - whereas with Imlie- they easily lift each other up and that too effortlessly. I am sorry I am bringing up this difference between how arguments and disagreements ensued between Adi imlie and Adi Malini but it’s blatantly obvious 😆 and it’s hilarious nobody around the hiuse is seeing this 😆 I guess I expected too much logic there ha ha.
Next time Malini is going to get a taste of Adi’s anger she is going to be guilty AF and she won’t be able to run away to mommy or guilt trip Adi again and I can’t wait for that 😎😎

Originally posted by: GaramTawa

Loved all the captions to these GIFs Lodestar😊

ROFL at Imliya being the earthquake..waise Imlie coming into Adi's life has been nothing short of earth-shattering for him lol ki oh aise bhi real soul connections ho sakte hai life mein😆

LOL okay so sorry bola nahi toh no one can see how each word was weighing on him and his heart broke🥺 to get it out that uske khoobsoorat sapne are breaking

Hum bhi din mein dus baar sorry thank you bol dete hain to get things out of the way...guess maine zindagi bhar ka penance kia hai by now

Also not to complain on this auspicious day but babusahib finally taught his jhalli to ride the bike or what?😆 Cuz he only mentioned that she doesn’t know the directions to the office nahi toh she would’ve given him a ride before meeting KCji hehe😆...but nahii humein mat dikhana yeh saare light moments.......

Lmao was any sorry even needed did that formality needed to be addressed jab sab itna beautifully convey ho gaya..asal khoobsoorti toh wohi hai ke they don't need to spell it out..he was sorry and it came through and imlke immediately diverted it again with her jo khoya hai mil jaayega important is sach not to cry over it ..🤷‍♀️ that is what made the moment beautiful according to me them just having that mutual understanding

About adi teaching her lol apni imelia knows it all pehle se man remember yeh tractor bhi cahalana jaanti hai toh bike kis khet ki mooli hai🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL ofcourse it is chor ki daadhi mein tinka....Didi ki PHATI PADI HAI🤣....she is hella scared of Imlie as long as the case is still on and doesn't really have full confidence ki jeet sakti hai cuz pata hi hai galat kaam kiya hai.

Adi ki reaction to the fake pregnancy just has so much potential for Didi ki unwitting chop😆.....I know we're all dreading it for his usual token lihaaz mode and him trying to save her from jail but sach mein mazaa jaayega if he runs off to save Imlie leaving Didi behind to clutch her fake pregnant belly🤣.

Pata nahin kyun mujhe strong vibes aa rahe hain ki it will be a repeat of the divorce/Lodge wala situation....lol when Didi was in full mood to play victim and lehraao divorce in Adi's face but he was like "Imlie missing hai and she needs me" toh ran off to find her even though Didi was trying to taunt and guilt trip him😆. So chances hain ki even as she tries to guilt trip him for this pregnancy, he will still find a way to do her chop and run off after Imlie😆

Full possibility of this and I would laugh so loud if it happens matlab dil ko sukoon moment it would be with his aap jo marzi kijiye humko toh jaana hai humari biwi needs me. Lol at didi saying nonsense about imlie ka confidence and how she is always overconfident jab khud ho rahi hai overconfidence ab iss chaal ko leke bhi toh yeh toh muh ki khayegi hi isko leke bhi phir royegi hai mera sabse best game plan bhi kaam na aaya and adi mere baare main sochte nahi

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, he gained confidence from her words and then added his own points too😆.....ise kehte hain true himmat dena....he wasn't just blindly parroting what she said, but her words of motivation helped him rediscover his self-confidence enough to advocate for himself. Isse zyada khubsoorat kya cheez ho sakti hai ki koi aap ko apne andar ki himmat se phir se parichay karvaa de? 😊

The other thing I absolutely loved was the way Imlie matter of factly said ki "aap apna dharam nibhaiye, main apna nibhaati hoon".....again that sense of partnership so subtly conveyed....the way she uplifts him is not about propping him up to still keep him tied to her in dependency, no.....she always wants to uplift him to walk his dharam wala path too....that sense of self-sufficiency that they both always try to keep advocating for each other.....I love it when we get glimpses of this....cuz that is where the true beauty and depth of their relationship lies beyond the keechad that they are constantly being trapped in. They are partners in life - not each other's property. Adi is heavily emotionally dependent on her no doubt, but she still sambhaaloes him like a partner, not by trying to be his crutch.

Oh indeed imlie is himmat but majboori nahi like he is not her mohtaaj they draw that strength and gain perspective but apne dum pe handle karne ke jaabil hai .I am happiest ke isne khudse apna job lia and it is no one else doing ehsaan on him caz again he is very much capable of it so why make him depend on somebody's ehsaan . And yes the dharam nibhaiye part so beautifully done ke tum woh karo jo tumhein karna chahiye and hum woh jo himein and again that mutual agreement in it.. woh ek dusre ko raah banana ek dusre ko cripple mahi karna by giving duhaais and try to tie them har baat main giving that open route that wings feel . Isse khoobsoorat saath kya hoga

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Loved this earthquake analogy 😆.....he needs this earthquake to shake him up from his static state from time to time😆

Waise I have to give kudos to these two for managing to do shuddhikaran of the same room/bed where such a paap was done on Adi😳😆......in dono ke positivity filled banter, comfort, trust ne phir se us room ko inka apna banaa diya :) This is definitely the first time Imlie has sat beside him on that bed itne aaraam se without needing to be called over😆.

Yes million times thank you for purifying the space and that too aise hi..no wonder adi ki neend hi udh chuki hai ab savdhaan rehta hai🤣 but i just love how dham se she just sat and woh back n forth of theirs awww

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

About adi teaching her lol apni imelia knows it all pehle se man remember yeh tractor bhi cahalana jaanti hai toh bike kis khet ki mooli hai🤣

Hahaha yes, we forget she already knows how to drive a TRACTOR also😆......bike koi challenge nahin phir.....lol dunno why they showed her initially being so scared about sitting on the back of it.....ab toh Adi ka hi theory sahi lag raha hai that she did it to mess with him😛🤣