Pasting it here too (with a few changes) because I am .. well .. frustrated 😵
I am less than pleased with aditya imlie’s characters and the whole dynamic right now and especially this NDE. Matlab wah poore tracks mein ajeeb didi suffocation daal do and phir adi ka NDE do jab trps gir jaaye. It’s such lazy writing. The damage done is unfixable (to me) but they didn’t even try to salvage it by writing better bas wahi rinse repeat formula of adi nde daal dia, imlie ka hi daal dete kuch different hojaata lol.. the last time they ruined the essence of the show with the M suicide track but somehow managed to salvage it with adi SK face off which they got over with in 2 days instead of fleshing it out, to get back to didi bakwaas faced fastest drop in trp, (jiska sasta repeat abhi karne ki koshish kar rahe) monotonous ban gaya phir but somehow yet again managed to fix it with table tod shaadi and imlie centric tracks which they yet again axed themselves with the worst absolute worst sautan drama of itv, it was suffocating and boring vamp’s bechargi monologues while harkatein cheap and no repercussions, ml is blind to her harkatein or simply doesn’t care and fl was behind the picture this track was more concerned with whitewashing tactics ready rakhna and trying to salvage didi’s image 🙃
This whole track damaged my pov of this show a lot I am unable to pick it back up again.. didi and her mom from ink throwing to sar phodna to choriyaan to appearance shaming sab kar le barely any repercussions for them ..
Anu has: humiliated imlie time and again, slapped her around, bashed her head in, publicly humiliated her in front of the media throwing black ink on her absolutely traumatising but imlie is supposed to easily get over it and no one gives it to anu, aditya is uncaring about her coming over to house again and again, the guy who went berserk at imlie being mistreated in their house before falling for her is so chill about all humiliation she goes through now wow
Malini has: lied about divorce for imlie’s sake when it was to stop adi from going after imlie, still boasts about sacrifice even though monologue mein accept bhi kia tha woh reason nahi tha but it will never be revealed and she’ll never be called out, she blames a whole force marriage on imlie, appearance shames imlie, steals time and again, violates adi’s consent, hides her mom kidnapping adi, humari beech mein ayi bakwaas ans nobody is setting it straight with her koi kisi ke beech nahi aya aditya is not a baby and her relationship was fragile already he barely ever cared of her left even engagement they were incompatible yeh sab kabhi nahi bola jayega, speaks the most vile words taken straight out of haters’ mouths (from yt insta different SM platforms and un logo se ek baar pooch lo tracks ya characters ke baare mein surface se aage wouldn’t even know because they don’t even watch lol very few malini lovers actually watch baaki there’s an army based on ainvayi ka general righteous outrage pleasing whom would do nothing and yet .. ) and nobody calls it out lol.. malini didi ka dil toh acha hai na ? lmao theek hai phir toh un ghatya words insta waghaira pe use karne waalo ka bhi dil toh acha hai na ? I thought these words are being put in character’s like aparna and malini’s mouths to call them wrong but yeh sab toh justify horaha as if imlie deserves it wah wah .. and adi is still ‘aap apni behan ki kitni parwa karti hai’ lmao what is she still doing in that house ? idk how tf they thought this would work when divorce is not done vamp gets away with everything and ml is a mute spectator who doesn’t chop her at all and fl .. again plot device ke hisaab se personality do apni toh kabhi uski develop nahi hone di third angle mein itna busy the
aditya the 0-100 guy especially when it comes to imlie, is so lazy ? uncaring ? blind to dd despite so much? they give a cop out ‘imlie ki marzi’ listening to the taunts and humiliation and made a mute spectator.. what else did he do during all those najayaz etc talk except that one time put his mattress in her kona and that they also reversed .. I am sorry but I am starting to see little difference between ‘maa yeh kya keh rahi hai aap.. ‘ and ‘stop it mom’ , what should have been a track showing how his love for imlie is wholesome their relationship better and how it works more and M and A’s had cracks but instead here I am wondering does he even love imlie? Is this relationship even worth so much humiliation they put imlie through? idk if they got inspired by other shows but at least wahaan they show misunderstanding fl when ml is mute spectator.. I am glad adi has never misunderstood imlie I hope it stays that way .. but misunderstandings nahi phir bhi mute spectator.. wow.. the way his family keeps calling his wife najayaz and the dude literally says dil jeet logi unka instead of standing up for her because again they justify it with ‘imlie ki marzi’ the prejudice is only their ‘narazgi’ wow 👏 and the root cause of it all the presence of his second wife he doesn’t give a damn about
and then imlie .. oof i am unable to understand her now or connect to her, I am beyond tired of her not being given her own monologues, anger, breakdowns anything to make her more human but dd ki suraksha bhi but ladai bhi, humra parivaar above all even when they taunt and call her najayaz and call her mom that too .. I see no individuality in her as of now like I used to. I don’t know what century the writers of this show are living in because the justifications they give for all the humiliation being unanswered or imlie being all forgiving and ‘mature’ (convenience ke hisaab se mature and immature for adi too taunts ke liye yes uski marzi sehna but when says didi pe shak immature) is it’s something trp audience wants. I don’t watch the other top shows this sautan drama seemed to be influenced by and I don’t care about them but one thing I do know is their vamps are held accountable and their fls are not made doormats with no hurt towards sasural ke taane. They show their anger, their hurt and they give it back too. Iss sab se toh 2000s waali female leads bhi better thi they would also not let anyone walk all over them. Plus there’s well defined characters people know who to root for who not to root for yahaan toh vampism mein bhi didi propping chalti hai.. there’s focus on other bonds too as much as I know like in the top show rn people can connect with those characters there’s hurt anger sadness .. yahaan toh BK jaisa character bhi raaton raat change.. dd ko chorh ke baaki sab plot devices even leads bhi didi ke liye sidetrack kardiya gaye the.. I am sorry I don’t think anyone wants to see ‘oh it’s ok if sasural is demeaning you, you’ll win them over it’s just their pyaar’ all the while a vamp schemes against you too who keeps getting away and is the central focus too. If executed better I wouldn’t have had a huge problem if adi at least would have taken action if not imlie if it was shown due to hurt and not prejudice and if imlie was allowed to show her hurt instead of dd ki bakwaas and her useless monologues.. it stretched too long where you can’t even feel bad for a person who doesn’t care about her own humiliation. It’s depressing, no one wants to watch constant depression, constantly humiliating the girl and she will be ok with it and koi repercussions bhi nahi hongi wow.. usko time kahaan dete hai woh toh saara worst third angle in history of fiction didi sahiba ki writing mein lag jaata hai 🙃 while imlie who had so much potential is just a trp prop they use whenever they feel like it
And the no divorce and kona thing is one more thing that has stretched too long and I can’t feel much for the rasams etc too because of it.. I never attached labels with this show but I am forced into it now how tf is adi ok with it again same guy who burst at anu, who cares about even imlie’s education above all, who risked his life to get her to the exam hall, who promised dadda he will try to be worthy of her till his last breath and .. she’s treated like shit in his house and he is ok.. well imlie has zero self respect too so.. no divorce and kona has become a big point of contention for me with the show. This whole track might have gone better and sat well with the audience if it was after remarriage divorce hua hota didi ki har baat justify nahi ki jaati adi mute na hota yeh track fl centric hota na ke tales of didi’s descent into cheap villainy starring only didi .. Kahaan I thought this whole track would be about family realising how one relationship works and how the other wasn’t right and kahaan they gave .. whatever this horrible track was .. disconnected me completely from the show ..
Where I lost it for good was putting meethi in anu’s home what was the point except that one scene of anu’s ‘this is how you handle the other woman’ to didi? I saw it as some other justify didi ke kaand tactic cause I don’t see how meethi staying at dev’s and sk being so chill about it helps imlie .. Meethi had self respect and look what they did to her.. even SK they keep using as a plot device .. meethi sk adi imlie they ruined all the people this show was worth watching for me .. except rupi and sundar there’s no other consistent character worth rooting for left lol..
imlie sahe sahe sahe , saari ghaltiyaan uski , vamp nonsense bakwaas kare ke jo tumne kia main kar rahi hoon maine sacrifice kia maine yeh kia woh kia implies imlie is a homewrecker deeply misogynistic baatein kare and usko justify karo ke haan uska haq hai, this vampiness was so suffocating with no divorce and iski ‘haq ki ladayi’, adi dunya ke saamne bole i married twice nobody says anything bas sabse zyada repercussions for stuff she hasn’t even done only for imlie.. and woh sar jhuka ke sahe sirf cause she is ok with it, with all the insults and humiliation.. no other fl rn is this much of a doormat.. or ever has been? yeh first hai, monologues and takleef toh bas third angle ki dikhaani hai na .. so much potential with the kind of storyline and the great characterisations and development of leads (ghalti se hua tha inse now I think) and they trampled on it themselves chose not to do better and rush all the good parts and stretch the most depressing boring ones ruining the core essence which was characterisations
And I really can’t look past how badly the female characters are treated in this show meethi thing really left a bad taste with me .. they’ve got their whole formula wrong this show never worked on humiliate fl get trp.. because their humiliation has no repercussion and fl is a doormat .. the truth reveals, imlie centric, adi imlie centric and aditya ka character attracted people to it which they got hell bent on butchering,
This NDE will lead to maybe ek do scenes of accountability for M for the numerous bakwaas she has done? Her crying and becharapan will soon make everyone forget and bermuda triangle mein gayi iski saari harkatein.. Or maybe she’ll feel guilty and boom whitewashed lol .. idk and i can’t care i am beyond tired bakwaas dikhao for months and ek hafta kuch acha karo mushkil se trp wapas lao and repeat .. I cannot watch weeks of bakwaas for one two good episodes now lol pehle it was bearable cause characters were consistent adi didn’t stand for wrong at least if not anything else, ab toh woh bhi nahi can’t deal with it now. Seen a lot of shows but never ever seen a show willingly destroy itself and mess all its good characters for a third angle’s sake who has been time and again proven cannot be the central focus because she is not why the ground audience tunes in. But nahi, saare characters and show messed up cause uska faltu cheap vamp arc (but justified ok ? didi sirf bhakti huyi hai and imlie ne bhi uske saath bura kia tha says our pyaare writers) poora dikhana tha baakion ko mute spectators bana ke 🙃
Abhi may be a separation may make it interesting or at least watchable ? I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to pick it up again. Who knows how they’ll handle it too. I have zero trust in these people. Such a different storyline, what could have been a memorable show they dubaoed in didi ki bhakti with zero understanding of their own characters and show .. didi was so important ke teeno ko balance bhi nahi rakha sab unke liye maare gaye ha ha ha .. made the show about her mahanta when she needed to be human and made the show about her ‘haq ki ladayi’ when a crucial moment in adi imlie’s life was going .. great. Well I really hope they regain their audience because once the base audience switches channels it’s hard to get them back. Even I am unable to watch it now more than 2 minutes and I was addicted once lol .. *sigh* ..
Edited by spelano.ws - 4 years ago