Originally posted by: john909
Seriously?? Are we watching the same show or are you seeing things that are not there? If you want to blame someone for ruining malini's life, blame aditya and circumstances. You make it sound like Aditya went out and had an affair with imli and then married her due to it and continued a relationship with her simultaneously. Just like malini, imlie is also a victim of circumstances and she is a teenager for godsake. She sounds mature most of the time because she has faced a lot in her life due to being a child of single parent. Nobody has manipulated anyone. Whether you like it or not imlie is the first wife of Aditya till he annuls the marriage. So by your logic, I could say malini ruined imlie's life as she had to bear seeing her husband with another woman and become a servant. But I am not going to say that as things are not that simple with this trio. I would blame circumstances more than anyone for this entire mess. Malini suffered a lot but it was mostly because of Aditya and circumstances. Why do people jump to blame the third party when something goes wrong in their marriage ? Isn't it the husband and wife's responsibility to respect and maintain their commitment to each other ? The third party is not responsible for their marriage. If adi loved malini and married her, it was their marriage and commitment. It is not imlie's responsibility to maintain their marriage, it is theirs. So instead of venting your misplaced anger, try to look at it in a fair manner or put logical points to prove your accusations instead of just accusing.