Anu and her Insults

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Anu and her so called status... she knows that her husband cheated on her, but she still lives with him and tortured him everyday showcasing her arrogance and rights. She lives with her constant insecurity and fears but she does have a husband for namesake.

Her daughter Malini, knows that she is not her boyfriend’s priority for 7 years, still went ahead and got married to him. Since the first week of marriage only sentence she said was “ Aditya changed” as if she knows him very well...Once Aditya starts contradicting her, she starts getting insecure just coz their views do not match.Now wants to save her image and class live in such a relationship even after knowing that her husband do not love her and anu wishes her daughter to continue living like that.

Rupi didi left her husband as she can’t bear seeing her husband with other lady. She is living on her own while raising a daughter independently with self-respect.

Imlie knowing that her husband do not love her, stepped away and let him marry another lady. When Adi started loving her, even though their relationship is completely legal and she loves him with all her heart, she repeatedly asked Adi to stay away from her. She is following her conscience and did the right thing.

so, now anu insults Rupi didi and Imlie for not being chipku to their husbands like her and her daughter. Imlie and Rupi didi did not loose their self-respect or conscience just to show a shallow relationship to the society as Anu and Malini.

Now I don’t understand who is shameless or who is living a pathetic life.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Agree with everything, one thing though dev and anu both tortured each other, dev actually is Anu’s biggest culprit the one who did her the most wrong Anu’s fights with him are nothing compared to what he did by ruining 4 lives, if he’s feeling tortured then he very well deserves it.

Problem with Anu is she lashes out at everyone else instead of taking action against him because despite all that she still wants to be with him and expects things from him, I expected better from her for malini’s sake ke uske liye hi kehde leave aditya but her image, status and personal grudges against imlie are more dear to her it seems. At the end of the day, all she remained is a privileged rich loser.

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Originally posted by: spelano.ws

Agree with everything, one thing though dev and anu both tortured each other, dev actually is Anu’s biggest culprit the one who did her the most wrong Anu’s fights with him are nothing compared to what he did by ruining 4 lives, if he’s feeling tortured then he very well deserves it.

Problem with Anu is she lashes out at everyone else instead of taking action against him because despite all that she still wants to be with him and expects things from him, I expected better from her for malini’s sake ke uske liye hi kehde leave aditya but her image, status and personal grudges against imlie are more dear to her it seems. At the end of the day, all she remained is a privileged rich loser.

Yes, Dev is the defective character and he the main reason for both his daughters suffering. But as Malini is not able to confront Adi even though finding all the signs, anu did not confront Dev for 20 years. Whatever The insecurities and impractical relationship malini imagined with Adi while living in a bubble for 7 years are all the results or the fruits of anu’s behavior.

Anu channeled her pain through her arrogance and insults not only on Dev but on every one, so Malini started living in an imaginary world. But the funny thing is, I remember in one of the episodes - she tells Malini to keep an eye on her husband that is indirectly asking her daughter also to live the same life as her.

Anu got so used to her insecurities and keeping her husband in control, she forgot what individuality means or what self-respect means...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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She and her daughter are under the delusion that they are aristocrats but their language and demeanour says otherwise. Such cheap language she uses and even more ghatiya is her soch. And which civilised person always yells like that when talking?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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The cruel words that come out of anu's mouth are a reflection and insecurities of herself. She looks at imlie and sees a girl who is full of life and potential and wants to crush her. Because she herself is spitefil and empty inside.


I dont want to comment on malini because the charecter is so inconsistent. She seems too fragile and needs a psyc help regardless of her relationship status

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Imlie, her mom, her secret dad and her lust filled husband are the most shameless and cheap people. Anu can't beat them. Their cheap behavior is vomit inducing😫😂

Rupi didi's husband must have kicked her out of the house. She is intolerable.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: b.busaheb

Imlie, her mom, her secret dad and her lust filled husband are the most shameless and cheap people. Anu can't beat them. Their cheap behavior is vomit inducing😫😂

Rupi didi's husband must have kicked her out of the house. She is intolerable.

Adi is a character who doesn’t give his 2 cents to the things at surface level. He connects to the subject or the person at core level. This is how he connected to Imlie, they do not need more words or intimacies to understand each other. This is the USP of the show and the reason why many people attracted to it.Beyond the superficial attractions and physical attributes, he the exact opposite of lustful person. So you cannot use that word for his character description.

So as per you, husband gets brownie points coz he has kicked his wife out of the house while cheating with other girl. Wow... that is some thinking... shows the ideals of male chauvinistic society where wives are treated just as objects of convenience. Definitely I feel nauseous


Marriage is a bond between two equals and no one has right to kick the other out of the house. So you support Anu’s violence as she was cheated by Dev, but you also support Rupi di’s husband for cheating Rupi di and also kicking her out of the house. I definitely feel nauseous😂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: countryapple

Adi is a character who doesn’t give his 2 cents to the things at surface level. He connects to the subject or the person at core level. This is how he connected to Imlie, they do not need more words or intimacies to understand each other. This is the USP of the show and the reason why many people attracted to it.Beyond the superficial attractions and physical attributes, he the exact opposite of lustful person. So you cannot use that word for his character description.

So as per you, husband gets brownie points coz he has kicked his wife out of the house while cheating with other girl. Wow... that is some thinking... shows the ideals of male chauvinistic society where wives are treated just as objects of convenience. Definitely I feel nauseous


Marriage is a bond between two equals and no one has right to kick the other out of the house. So you support Anu’s violence as she was cheated by Dev, but you also support Rupi di’s husband for cheating Rupi di and also kicking her out of the house. I definitely feel nauseous😂

Yeah.. i support CHEATING😈 i'm a hardcore adilie romance fan.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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So Anu's decision to continue living with Dev shows that she is arrogant! Lets see, Dev goes to PD and sleeps with another women and yet Anu is the arrogant one here.....interesting! The truth is, Dev is Anu’s biggest culprit and she has every right to torture him. When he went around sleeping with Meethi, he was already a father to a 8 or 9 year old.....if he’s feeling tortured then he very well deserves it. Anu is not responsible that Dev could not control his hormones.


Now coming to Malini, when she married Aditya - he was totally in love with her. He was always Mun Mun Mun....Aditya started contradicting her views only after he came back from PD and started his "I am now in love with Imli" crap. And no Anu does not wish for her daughter to be in loveless marriage but the truth is Anu was always sure that Aditya Tripathi is a bloody moron who will cheat her daughter one day...and guess what! she was right all along. And the reasons he wants Malini to save her marriage is for Malini's sake. Malini loves Aditya without any double standards - unlike the mahaan Imli who says one thing and does another thing

And btw - when Malini married Aditya..Mun was very much his priority!


And now Rupi di -- another cartoon in T house. The so called self respecting women stays with her parents, doesn't do any job and is so happy to see Malini in a miserable state. Its almost like she is so satisfied that Malini is suffering the same fate as her. Sadist. Instead of identifying with Malini she was so quick to become Anti Malini! NO AC was totally right in reminding Rupi di ji that she is just another pathetic Tripathi - like her brother Aditya


And last but not the least, the great Imli - the worst female lead any show has seen! Probably worse than Nandini in Silsila. NO Imli never stepped aside, she always poked her nose between Adi Malini. Pretentious, sly and selfish. When ever and where ever she could, she found a way to create a rift between the couple...like in the entire T house, the only place she found to sleep on Adi Malini wedding night is just outside their room on the floor! Lets not even continue her "list of pretense" .....


So yes Imli Aditya and Dev - are the shameless pathetic ones here

Well anu’s decision to live with Dev without confrontation and to carry forward with a bitter relationship is just toxic. And no one is justifying Dev here, he cheated 2 women and both his children.

Yes anu did have her doubts about Adi as she had for Dev as both Dev and Adi belong to middle class household. She never tried to find the truth or explain things to Malini. Also malini confessed herself many times that Adi is her best friend and why she got married to him. she does not want to fell out of marriage as her parents.

Rupi didi does work, if you see the initial episodes she joined as a teacher. And she is not a SADIST. I think her character is so gullible, she doesn’t deserve name calling. In her view Imlie is Adi’s first wife and she is just helping Imlie as Imlie has no one to support her. Malini has both families supporting her.

Imlie stepped aside many times, while risking her life to save Malini when the bridge collapsed. She could have died then. She mended the relationship between Adi and Malini many times. And she even left for PD leaving everything behind. It was Adi who went after her. And she wanted to live the hostel away from home. How much more burdens she can bear. She has been tolerating everything from her birth for not know father and poverty. She tolerated everything given by Adi. There is a lot of difference between ignorance and presence. She sacrificed every once of her happiness for Adi and Malini. Still people call it pretense...as per you, imlie who suffers and sacrifices everything should continue doing so for Malini’s happiness.

Well in your list i only agree for Dev to be shameless and pathetic.

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Well anu’s decision to live with Dev without confrontation and to carry forward with a bitter relationship is just toxic. And no one is justifying Dev here, he cheated 2 women and both his children.

Yes anu did have her doubts about Adi as she had for Dev as both Dev and Adi belong to middle class household. She never tried to find the truth or explain things to Malini. Also malini confessed herself many times that Adi is her best friend and why she got married to him. she does not want to fell out of marriage as her parents.

Rupi didi does work, if you see the initial episodes she joined as a teacher. And she is not a SADIST. I think her character is so gullible, she doesn’t deserve name calling. In her view Imlie is Adi’s first wife and she is just helping Imlie as Imlie has no one to support her. Malini has both families supporting her.

Imlie stepped aside many times, while risking her life to save Malini when the bridge collapsed. She could have died then. She mended the relationship between Adi and Malini many times. And she even left for PD leaving everything behind. It was Adi who went after her. And she wanted to live the hostel away from home. How much more burdens she can bear. She has been tolerating everything from her birth for not know father and poverty. She tolerated everything given by Adi. There is a lot of difference between ignorance and presence. She sacrificed every once of her happiness for Adi and Malini. Still people call it pretense...as per you, imlie who suffers and sacrifices everything should continue doing so for Malini’s happiness.

Well in your list i only agree for Dev to be shameless and pathetic.


If Rupi ji is working why doesn't she live on her own? Calling her names? She is a sadist....how come she didnt think about Malini even once? And her comments that Malini has not reserved the bike just portrays her inner deep jealousy for Malini.


And characters like Rupi and Imli are far far from gullible


Now again Imli and her sacrificing saga..interestingly she is also the one who creates a rift between Malini and Adi and then shows she is the one mending it. Meddling in other people's business and showing like she is the one actually suffering. If she had even an Iota of self respect she would have stepped aside long time ago instead of watching Adi Malini wedding and then staying as a maid in that house. Instead Imli was the one who held on to her forced marriage belief and refused to move on. So she is the cause of her own suffering.


Oh Adi did not follow her to PD to pacify her...he just wanted to be sure Imli does not tell anyone the truth about how she is living in delhi...so he went there just to cover his tracks.

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