Originally posted by: -Srushti-
That both awes and humbles him....atleast till now it did...And he has said it so many times...in the hostel "Tum humein pyaar nahi karti,,,,,par hum karte hai!" Even during that pre-interview fight with MAdini he had said "she will face every challenge alone...but I want to be there for her..ALWAYS!!"
The way he held her hands when she landed in Delhi "Kya tum bhi humein itna yaad kar rahi thi!!"
He knows that but his obvious tadap is not reciprocated by her stoic stance...AS you so rightly put...her ability to function inspite of this dishevel in her life is so awesome..a quality Adi admires...but right now it is making him go bonkers😆
I actually love that in Adi...his ability to put himself so openly bare in her hands...giving her so much of power over him..inspite of knowing that she is perfectly able to function independently ...waiting for her to give him that haq on her own volition!!
@bold: If you come to think about it, he in a sense gave Malini power over him too when he was in a relationship with her.....that's just how he is as a person....but Malini abused the power he gave her by using it to guilt trip him and keep him beholden to her out of fear.
With Imlie, it's obviously to a whole other level....he's laid himself totally bare, unvarnished in her hands like he's never done with anyone else in his life before, submitted himself to her and she still doesn't use it to her advantage.....he doesn't submit himself to her cuz he wants her to claim him out of her own need....he always wants her to function independently but he still wants to be a part of her life....that is what this is all about and that is why it's notably different from what he had with Malini. That relationship was all about co-dependency and an inability to function without revolving your life around someone......while here, Adi willingly makes himself more vulnerable in front of Imlie than he's ever been before anyone else in life because there is a kind of trust between them. What he's angsty about right now is that he wants Imlie to place that trust in him too to share her life with him.....he's sorted mentally from his side....usko bas Imlie ka intezaar hai😆
Waise I'm laughing also cuz I'm remembering his big promises in the sindoor scene that he will wait for whenever she gives him the haq over her and wants his saath.....lol mujhe tab bhi pata tha that promise won't last very long🤣.....SABAR has never been one of Babusahib's virtues.....lol....pata tha nahin wait hona isse and niklegi frustration the moment Imlie distances herself....wohi ho raha hai😆....he is willing to wait as long as she is still in front of his eyes....lol otherwise don't expect him to wait patiently😆