A sensitive issue, DT Note pg 1

Suicide is a crime and not a solution to anything..

But the way it is being labelled as a drama and nautanki is so gross!! It is such a sensitive issue!!

After memes on suicide I now see digs on Malini’s Make-up, spa , magazines , roses..some sensitivity is needed here.. Malini was all decked up and that much make up to wear off on itself takes a day or two .. one can assume maybe doctors didn’t clear off the make up as no surgery was shown( in Imlies case she was shot by bullet so makers have shown few scenes around it).. Anyone gets roses when visiting someone at the hospital .. people get roses for friends and well wishers and even enemies too! So here Malini is his wife .. flowers and magazines are given to patients create a relaxing environment and not that they are enjoying in some spa or strolling in a garden.. this is a remake serial so half of the audience knows the story and hence rooting for Adilie is perfectly fine ..this track too happened as per a regional version as well but calling names to a suicide victim is just not done..

Aditya’s “dikhawa” dialogue to Malini was also about her declaring that she is ready to hear the truth .. but when he saw her condition, he knew that she was not ready.. but was just pretending to be ready to hear the truth.. not that Aditya labelled Malini as Nautanki as being called out here..

Anu’s treatment towards Imlie was plainly wrong.. but she’s a mother and can understand her outburst given she always had a grudge against Imlie.. but the juice and pushing part was too much!! Over dramatisation of everything!

But Aditya!! this guy is damn lucky .. commit bigamy , no arrest .. abetment to suicide.. no arrest .. coz here the makers now brought in Malini’s theory implying that it was not for him that she did all this.. when in fact he was the reason and today whatever she said about her ex was just a lie to try and get Aditya’s reaction and maybe the truth out of him.. so many law breaking ideas!! Banda chahe jo kare, arrest toh nahi hoga!! But yeah !Fantasy show!

Originally posted by: Divi1301

Suicide is a crime and not a solution to anything..

But the way it is being labelled as a drama and nautanki is so gross!! It is such a sensitive issue!!

After memes on suicide I now see digs on Malini’s Make-up, spa , magazines , roses..some sensitivity is needed here.. Malini was all decked up and that much make up to wear off on itself takes a day or two .. one can assume maybe doctors didn’t clear off the make up as no surgery was shown( in Imlies case she was shot by bullet so makers have shown few scenes around it).. Anyone gets roses when visiting someone at the hospital .. people get roses for friends and well wishers and even enemies too! So here Malini is his wife .. flowers and magazines are given to patients create a relaxing environment and not that they are enjoying in some spa or strolling in a garden.. this is a remake serial so half of the audience knows the story and hence rooting for Adilie is perfectly fine ..this track too happened as per a regional version as well but calling names to a suicide victim is just not done..

Aditya’s “dikhawa” dialogue to Malini was also about her declaring that she is ready to hear the truth .. but when he saw her condition, he knew that she was not ready.. but was just pretending to be ready to hear the truth.. not that Aditya labelled Malini as Nautanki as being called out here..

Anu’s treatment towards Imlie was plainly wrong.. but she’s a mother and can understand her outburst given she always had a grudge against Imlie.. but the juice and pushing part was too much!! Over dramatisation of everything!

But Aditya!! this guy is damn lucky .. commit bigamy , no arrest .. abetment to suicide.. no arrest .. coz here the makers now brought in Malini’s theory implying that it was not for him that she did all this.. when in fact he was the reason and today whatever she said about her ex was just a lie to try and get Aditya’s reaction and maybe the truth out of him.. so many law breaking ideas!! Banda chahe jo kare, arrest toh nahi hoga!! But yeah !Fantasy show!

I am a mental health professional and the way people have made this tragedy a meme slugfest...is plain disgusting. No words really....due to such insensitive people who start giving gyaan that only cowards do this and it's a crime,it's sign of a weak person..depressed person never opens up and takes up the drastic step. Mind up that person cares two hoots about judgemental people. Something is really really wrong which needs to be addressed in such issues. I have seen survivors of suicide attempt and trust me they are not in some spa reading magazines in hospital...they are filled up with remorse guilt and ashamed. Calling it names drama and sympathy drama is the worst kind of insult to such people.

Originally posted by: abha981

I am a mental health professional and the way people have made this tragedy a meme slugfest...is plain disgusting. No words really....due to such insensitive people who start giving gyaan that only cowards do this and it's a crime,it's sign of a weak person..depressed person never opens up and takes up the drastic step. Mind up that person cares two hoots about judgemental people. Something is really really wrong which needs to be addressed in such issues. I have seen survivors of suicide attempt and trust me they are not in some spa reading magazines in hospital...they are filled up with remorse guilt and ashamed. Calling it names drama and sympathy drama is the worst kind of insult to such people.

Respect ur opinion. But i want to share my views here. The victim herself is insensitive towards others feelings when she committed the act.

She only thought about her husband that he no longer loves her but did she think about her family her parents who adore her. How will they live without her. Shes their only child. What about her in laws. What wrong have they done to her.

Becoz of only one person u take away ur life ? How insensitive that is ??

There are ways to resolve ur issues. Suicide should not be the best option.

The one act that had consequences on others. Her in laws got insulted badly.

Agree husband made mistake but is she ready to accept the truth?? Thats why she got that weak tag on her.

Let me ask u a simple question.

HOW MANY WOMEN OUT THERE ACTUALLY FAINTS WHEN THEIR BF TELLS THEM HE GOT ANOTHER?

WHAT WILL BE THE USUAL REACTION??

A SLAP PERHAPS

A KICK ON HIS ASS OR ANY OTHER.PART OF HIS BODY PERHAPS

PULLING HIS HAIR PERHAPS

SCRATCHING HIS FACE PERHAPS

SHOUTING PERHAPS

THROWING OBJECTS ACROSS HOS HEAD PERHAPS

OR MAY BE NOT PHYSICAL JUST VERBAL ARGUEMENT OR SOME GALIYAAN

BUT FAINTING ?? LIKE SEROUSLY.

IF ONLY SHE COULD BEAR TH E TRUTH BEFORE HER MARRIAGE SHE WOULDNT BE IN THIS MESS IN THE FIRST PLACE AND EVEN NOW AFTER COMMITING THE ACT SHE IS STILL NOT ABLE TO HEAR THE TRUTH. SO WHAT DO U EXPECT HER HUSBAND TO DO.

THE ONLY THING HE CAN DO IS TO WAIT AND TELL HER BUT THE WAITING IS DAMAGING THEIR RELATIONSHOP FURTHER THATS ALL. ITS NOT DOING ANY GOOD TO ANYONE.

WHAT HAS HAPPEN HAS HAPPENED. HUMANS MAKE MISTAKE. ADITYA MADE MISTAKE INTO RUSHING INTO THE MARRIAGE WITH HER. HE COULD HAVE BOUGHT SOME TIME RESOLVE HIS ISSUES WITH IMLIE FIRST. COULDNT TELL MALINI NO PROBLEM AT LEAST DISCUSS WITH HIS FAMILY FIRST .

ADINI MARRIAGE WAS ADITYAS BIGGEST MISTAKE. AGREE. BUT NOW HE WANTS TO SETTLE THE ISSUE. BUT MALINI IS NOT READY TO GO THROUGH. HE IS AWARE . AND MORE TIME MORE DAMAGING. HE HAS TO CLEAR IT NOW ONCE AND FOR ALL. SHE WILL BE HURT YES BUT SHE WILL EVENTUALLY REVOVER AS TIME PASSES AND MOVE ON.

BUT SHE HAS TO BE READY FOR IT FIRST. EVEN IF THEY ARE STILL TOGETHER WILL SHE DESERVE THE LOVE THAT SHE WANTS??

IT HAS TO END WITH A POSITIVE NOTE. AND SUICIDE DEFO IS NOT THE BEST OPTION.

DT note

The topic is about a sensitive issue like suicide but all that I find is taking digs on others opinions in the forum. As informed previously any such topic wont be allowed here. If the TM wishes to create a discussion thread without pointing out others opinions, you can create another topic for DISCUSSION. If the same thing continues there, that too wont be allowed.

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