Between light and darkness - Page 3

Good post as always!

I’m glad atleast one bit that I saw in Malini earlier on came true now 😆 - her pride took the most beating after joining the dots. Warna I’m in a constant chop zone 😆

Didi has selective recall too. Reflect kiya lekin utna hi jitna was needed to jump on to a potential affair bandwagon. And the weirdest bit is she saw herself in the article that Aditya wrote - the whole shehri progressive bit and decided that he was thinking about her while writing that. Isiliye ban gayi darkness. Looks like that is the build up to hospital anyway. It will fester on until she decides that’s the only option left.

The makers really do not want me to like Nishant anymore I guess. Pehle hi zone out karti thi. Ab aur karungi shaayad

Also hatne ke 100 raaste hain but for those jinko for real hatna hota hai.. if she really wants too why not talk and discuss separation and divorce even if she doubts it.. that adi might be with imlie.. hatne ka matlab suicide toh nahi hai ya Marna.. all that twisted oh look am so great so bade dilwali drama is so and makes me lose any respect I might have had for her ever

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Good post as always!

I’m glad atleast one bit that I saw in Malini earlier on came true now 😆 - her pride took the most beating after joining the dots. Warna I’m in a constant chop zone 😆

Didi has selective recall too. Reflect kiya lekin utna hi jitna was needed to jump on to a potential affair bandwagon. And the weirdest bit is she saw herself in the article that Aditya wrote - the whole shehri progressive bit and decided that he was thinking about her while writing that. Isiliye ban gayi darkness. Looks like that is the build up to hospital anyway. It will fester on until she decides that’s the only option left.

The makers really do not want me to like Nishant anymore I guess. Pehle hi zone out karti thi. Ab aur karungi shaayad

It is not weird it was the classic example of chor ki dhadhi nain tinka.. deep down she is well aware of her asliyat too.. hence she quickly figured it out ke iska elitism is being called out. Even though adi never mentioned nay name he was calling our classists and elites in those but she took it upon herself caz she is one of those

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh I forgot to mention one other brief bit I liked....when Adi told his family ki if you all keep pressuring me on the Malini topic, "Humein nahin pata hum kya kar baithenge"😆......this guy is totally on the brink all the time these days.

And LOL@ Aparna trying to repeat his own threat back to him that if you don't bring Malini back to this house, "Mujhe bhi nahin pata main kya kar baithungi"....haha.....Malini's really done a number on all these people with her extended bechaari act.

Yeh sab log yahaan uske liye dukhi hain and wahaan Princess ghar mein baith ke pout kar rahi hai and scolding her parents for going to talk to Adi's family😆.....Didi ko bas apna Adi Toy chahiye, aur koi nahin....yeh log kyun nahin samajhte....tch tch😆

Basically the way a child throws a tantrum to demand their fav. toy, Didi is going to use suicide to demand that her fav. toy be given back to her....waah kya message hai. 🤔

One of the things that was very clear was his stance as he explained to the two brothers. He knows that there is no future relationship with Malini and he is not deciding for her. He wants her to decide on her future but not on his future.😆For his, he has already taken the decision. If she does not come back great but if Malini wants to come back, he will leave the house.

T’s behavior was a typical Indian family behavior. Like balle aap ghut rahe ho rishte mein, everyday fighting with each other but instead of finding the issues and talking to the son, bas give judgment ki this is it, do it warna.... Aparna was also that typical mom trying to force her kid to do something just because of the rishtedars (c’s in this case) without even trying to understand or find out where her child’s happiness lies. It always adjust, samjota, log kya Kahenge, and in the end dhamaki, do it or just watch what happens and all this for other people’s happiness. T’s elder attitude is not surprising at all and it might be because Aditya never shared his turmoil and Malini made it a national news. Hence they are at loss here and latching out to support the person whose dukh they are seeing and cannot bear instead of their own whose suffering is all hidden.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I would love it if Imlie could keep her focus on her education even in the aftermath of Didi imposing this suicide trauma on her......Adi-Imlie aur kitne distant honge than they already are these days? 😆....they are barely shown talking since the Malini sindoor tamasha incident....Adi just shows up intermittently to scold Imlie for neglecting her studies or repeat his main sach bataa dunga lines😆. So let's see how much further apart the makers need to keep them after Didi ka suicide drama.....😆.....isse aage only thing that can change is Imlie leaving the house again.....lol cuz they already stay apart in the ghar aajkal....Malini made sure of that with the level of tamasha she did over the sindoor.

Seriously itne distant toh yeh log inhate you but I love you zone main bhi nahi thay*sigh* it is really taking a toll as a viewer caz we are hardly getting koi bhi interaction basic sa bhi nahi.. itne badi baatein ho rahi hain and they barely get a sec alone to do formalities. Utna bhi nahi ho raha ke imlie ek formal thanks keh de.. article padh toh le. I don't see these poor souls even getting to spare a single sec at award function too. Matlab fine you want to keep keep away but plz token sake wala toh dedo woh bhi nahi kar rahe.. which sucks and making one more disconnected from the show

Originally posted by: pamk06

Two things that struck me was the first one that you mentioned that “ what will I answer to other people that Aditya left me for Imlie” and the other at the end was “ everybody is giving me sympathy but all I want is Aditya’s love and nothing else”

So in the end it was all about Aditya’s love and the whole tamesha was because of that but the other thing that is going to raise its ugly head is the class issue. So even if she is able to accept that Aditya has moved away from her, Aditya choosing someone so opposite of her in terms of class, status as per her thinking is what is going to prick her and push her more to create scenarios to get that sympathy and not give up on Aditya.

I would reiterate that none of this is really about love.....this is about attention and Malini's image consciousness. When you truly love someone, your first thought regarding the possibility of them leaving you is not about what you will tell people regarding who they left you for....that shows that Malini's IMAGE matters to her more than any so called "love" for Aditya.

And that image is carefully crafted and safe in many ways also cuz she has manyyyy people in her life to make excuses for her and never hold up a mirror regarding her ugly behavior. First her own family constantly blaming others for her wrong thoughts and entitled behavior....then Tripathis also would rather blame Adi or the whole wide world rather than confront Malini for misbehaving with them......I'm sure she's got some similar setup in college also where even if she messes up, there is always someone else for her to blame for a failure.

I did find it very noticeable how she pointed out how Imlie is the opposite of her in every way and from Adi's perspective, he seems to consider her perfect. So I'm pretty sure Malini's future attempts will include more ways to tear down Imlie and prove her "unworthy" and "imperfect" in Adi's eyes......I can already imagine Didi making a new "vow" before Bhagwaan ji claiming she will remind Adi how he fell in love with her and why Imlie is not good enough for him😆

Came across this wonderful girl who has been admitted to Harvard University. Reading up on her bg, reminded me of our Imliya... I was so surprised at the uncanny similarities in her story. The girl's parents are farmers and illiterate in a small village (probably tribal) - Ormanjhi will have to look it up in google maps 😆. who fought off child marriage, right to education, became part of a football team, wore shorts and played. She was the only girl to wear shorts and play and won a scholarship to Trinity college, Middlebury n Harvard which she has accepted. Her name is Seema. 👏

If the story continues to be executed with sensitivity, finesse, old world unique treatment of the leads story it can blaze a path and make a difference in the lives of so many girls who are denied the basic right to education due to poverty, patriarchy and circumstances not in their control.

It was truly heartening to read that article and all I could see was IMLIE.

I can go to bed now in sukoon... see you ladies tomorrow. 😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Good post as always!

I’m glad atleast one bit that I saw in Malini earlier on came true now 😆 - her pride took the most beating after joining the dots. Warna I’m in a constant chop zone 😆

Didi has selective recall too. Reflect kiya lekin utna hi jitna was needed to jump on to a potential affair bandwagon. And the weirdest bit is she saw herself in the article that Aditya wrote - the whole shehri progressive bit and decided that he was thinking about her while writing that. Isiliye ban gayi darkness. Looks like that is the build up to hospital anyway. It will fester on until she decides that’s the only option left.

The makers really do not want me to like Nishant anymore I guess. Pehle hi zone out karti thi. Ab aur karungi shaayad

Jab dimaag ki capacity MINUS mein ho, toh aisa selective recall hi hoga na😆.....the way she was "joining the dots" in her scene with her Dad and Daadi was🤣

Yes, abhi twisted martyr play karna hai toh ban gayi "darkness" and isi ke basis pe kar lengi suicide attempt.....a grown/educated woman has decided ki she needs to end her life so that woh Adi ke raaste se supposedly hat jaaye😕....clearly none of this is about stepping back for his happiness....she wants a guilt ridden reaction and this is how she will ensure it.

Nishant has gone back to his initial entry waale days...bas vapid lines maarta hai.....lol

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

It is not weird it was the classic example of chor ki dhadhi nain tinka.. deep down she is well aware of her asliyat too.. hence she quickly figured it out ke iska elitism is being called out. Even though adi never mentioned nay name he was calling our classists and elites in those but she took it upon herself caz she is one of those

Weird in the sense that she had to insert herself into everything that Aditya does and anything that involves Imlie. Oh she definitely knows it is also her characteristic; AC ki beti jo thehri.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I would reiterate that none of this is really about love.....this is about attention and Malini's image consciousness. When you truly love someone, your first thought regarding the possibility of them leaving you is not about what you will tell people regarding who they left you for....that shows that Malini's IMAGE matters to her more than any so called "love" for Aditya.

And that image is carefully crafted and safe in many ways also cuz she has manyyyy people in her life to make excuses for her and never hold up a mirror regarding her ugly behavior. First her own family constantly blaming others for her wrong thoughts and entitled behavior....then Tripathis also would rather blame Adi or the whole wide world rather than confront Malini for misbehaving with them......I'm sure she's got some similar setup in college also where even if she messes up, there is always someone else for her to blame for a failure.

I did find it very noticeable how she pointed out how Imlie is the opposite of her in every way and from Adi's perspective, he seems to consider her perfect. So I'm pretty sure Malini's future attempts will include more ways to tear down Imlie and prove her "unworthy" and "imperfect" in Adi's eyes......I can already imagine Didi making a new "vow" before Bhagwaan ji claiming she will remind Adi how he fell in love with her and why Imlie is not good enough for him😆

Agreed

I also find it rather intresting that she chooses escapism here too.. matkab she is the one constantly going chod dia chid dega sab khatam main tabah mujhe ignore kia mera rishta kuch nahi.. arre on what basis is she going so extra. And no it is not about the last few fights this has been her since forever since the very beginning where she was like PD main koi mil gayi hence he never called.. why is she always thinking of breaking things only.. there seems not even 0.000001% trust in him too or their rishta. Matlab itna bharosa toh aap as a human kisi bhi fellow insaan jisse casual sadak pe hi hello bhi ho jaaye ko dete ho