Is Malini at fault ?

Malini is a product of a broken home. Dev babu left his heart and soul in PD. Anu literally compensated everything with money. There was always something missing and that was love. Her parents lived together for convenience.

It is obvious that such kids will score high on separation anxiety, stress and other psychological issues. Even Imlie has identity issues then why not Malini.

She is searching for the love which wasn't there in her immediate family and was under the impression that Aditya will fulfill or fill that empty space in her life.

Her expectations are going to be shattered and it just not her fault. If she was committed to Adi for seven long years without peer review then it is her upbringing that has caused her to be the way she is.

Some people just resign to fate and Malini is a perfect example. Even Adi prior to meeting Aditya was living in a some juke box.

One gets courage when you have nothing else fear and that is Imlie but Malini's life starts and ends with panic, inability to accept situations. It is but obvious that the mental stress has taken over her physically..You can't just tell her to move on. She isn't at fault.

Just imagine a newly wed's life is in shambles because her husband fell in Iove with a flamboyant strong personality.

But this will make complications, it's not good to stay in an unhappy marriage. Look what happened to anu and dev.

Like Imlie said dil toot jaye to theek hai but bharosa toot jaye to nahi.

Her fragility is very irritating.

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Malini is a product of a broken home. Dev babu left his heart and soul in PD. Anu literally compensated everything with money. There was always something missing and that was love. Her parents lived together for convenience.

It is obvious that such kids will score high on separation anxiety, stress and other psychological issues. Even Imlie has identity issues then why not Malini.

She is searching for the love which wasn't there in her immediate family and was under the impression that Aditya will fulfill or fill that empty space in her life.

Her expectations are going to be shattered and it just not her fault. If she was committed to Adi for seven long years without peer review then it is her upbringing that has caused her to be the way she is.

Some people just resign to fate and Malini is a perfect example. Even Adi prior to meeting Aditya was living in a some juke box.

One gets courage when you have nothing else fear and that is Imlie but Malini's life starts and ends with panic, inability to accept situations. It is but obvious that the mental stress has taken over her physically..You can't just tell her to move on. She isn't at fault.

Just imagine a newly wed's life is in shambles because her husband fell in Iove with a flamboyant strong personality.

Exactly malini 's behavior and insecurities are because of her family situation. Fault is her parents not hers.

Malini needs to fall out of her so called love to see adi doesn't love her, neither she did. He was only a comfort zone for her to get our of her hellish parents house and shift in a more loving family.

Dhakkano dekho nahi to zindagi bhar unhappy rahoge

That what I was talking about in the other thread!

Let's agree in something, the three of them are not a villeins! The way they are is not a fault, it is just the kind of human they are!

So yes she is insecure due the broken home she lived in, she have a phobia of having a broken relation like her parents, which lead her to a mental and physical health issues!

While Imlie lived a hard childhood, living without a father, she grow up to learn how to fight for her self, hide her tears, she also have an insecurity herself due to her father left her, but she learned and get used to the fact that ppl leave her behind, losing things is just something that she used to deal with since her childhood so it is not a new thing!

Yes she is strong emotionally, but I do think she have her own insecurities, that make her resign of fighting for her self and just move on, she don't make her self attach to anybody else than her Amma and Dada! They are the only supporting system she have beside SM and the goat!

Millani fault is that she didn't back off of the relation and just settle for the little things she got from Aditya! She sense that her relation missing something, but didn't act due it and follow her senses, she always seek for Aditya assurance that every thing is ok, and he loves her and will never leave her! She always fear of the idea that Adi may love someone else and she will lose him, she did't trust her 7 years relation ! Even before Imlie come to the picture!

They (Adoon) didn't really had even a friendship relation! They named their relation as love but it was only a used to each other relation!

Aditya never felt there is something missing! He really thought he loves her, he is a loner, he didn't have a lot of relations, and didn't have the time and mind to think and question his relation, he was convenient with what he has! He didn't know what love is, so he didn't really had the chance and the base to question anything, while Millani already questioning his lack of jealousy , passiveness, romance toward her!

And all of that before his first trip to PG!

Now Imlie come to the picture,

Before he ever felt something for Imlie, he tried to tell her that he got married on a gunshot, he loves her! But unfortunately she fainted, is it her fault? No, but at the end she must learn to deal with rejections and failures! And it was not a rejection back then it was just a come clean thing!

So now he realize he loves Imlie, but he till now is committed to her, he didn't physically involved with Imlie! And Imlie also gave up on her relation for her!

She still has a chance to win him back! But if she continue just requesting attention and love assurance without really making an effort and have a hand to resolve things and make it work between them and understand his needs it will never work!

The relation have two ends involve, it need an effort from both ends to work out!

But she refuse to accept the facts, she refuse to do any effort and still asking for her needs, and she refuse to let it go!

So in this she is in fault!