Originally posted by: pamk06
zaroorat is the key word here... Imlie is Aditya’s zaroorat whereas Aditya is Malini’s zaroorat. Normally, Aditya would have taken the time to pacify Malini but he himself is an inherently selfish person. For him, his zaroorat was more important than Malini’s at that moment but he also has great affinity to guilt. Hence his reasoning was that, right now he is not in the state of mind to provide any kind of support to Malini because he himself is holding himself by a thread. He also knew that Malini will not understand, hence he told his Mom, that once I am back, I will be the best son and husband I.e. basically get his emotions under control, compartmentalize everything and go back into box where he behaves perfectly like everyone expects him to where he suppresses all his emotions. He is going to get another awakening 😆
Zaroorat is going to be used a lot in near future and Malini is going to use it again and again to keep Aditya tied to him. Aditya might also go with it as long as he is sure that his zaroorat is in his life. Whenever Imlie’s status in his life is threatened, like now where he thinks she has left him for good, he is not going to care about anyone or anything, not even his life. Like he said he knows in PD his life is in danger but he is still back because he cannot stay away. 😊
@bold: Very well summed up. Everyone in this story is selfish in some ways except for Imlie I guess...her level of selflessness is different😆 and sabke bas ki baat nahin.
Adi is indeed selfish in some ways, even if he is a good person otherwise.....usmein woh basic selfishness hai that I guess many of us have too....ki pehle khud ka toh sab theek kar lo, phir dusron ki madad karo😆. Right now he is feeling like a total mess and unable to grapple with his mental/emotional state so he's unable to give the usual things he gives to his family and Malini - the stoic good beta act and the "perfect" romantic husband act.....what he doesn't understand is that relationships shouldn't be about putting on a persona to pacify people.....you should be able to be your true self.
Yes, after telling so many lies, Adi has dug himself into a hole and now he feels no one will be able to understand even if he tells them.....to make it worse, he doesn't even have the answers for himself either so he doesn't know what he will tell them either. Imlie toh gayi, that should have resolved the matter for him to go back to his life as it was but that hasn't happened.....and he has no answers for the family right now ki why it's so.
I know zaroorat got used a lot yesterday but I'm still wondering if Adi will get to any conscious realization that he needs Imlie😆....his actions are clearly showing that he does, but dimaag ki ghanti bajegi ya nahin, we can never say with him. As you said, it's more likely that Malini will use it more successfully to guilt trip him and keep him tied to her that she will die without him, that's why she needs him.
The most remarkable/revealing thing definitely was Adi admitting to himself that he knows his life will be in danger in PD, but he still can't seem to help himself from going there.....will he ever introspect past that point? Dunno....lol