Adi-Imlie and candid emotions DT nt. Pg 8 - Page 6

Originally posted by: Anshman

@bold. I already made it clear that she cannot erase that believe from her mind so soon, in case you didn't notice.

@green. She can love and consider him as her husband

But if you are saying: declaring u r my husband for me to someone's husband is right??? Then OKAY 😆 bye. I got what is your moral compass 😝

When having a conversation, there is no reason to get personal. I guess this forum is fir discussing the show not individuals.

Originally posted by: Josupra

When having a conversation, there is no reason to get personal. I guess this forum is fir discussing the show not individuals.

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if you don't have a replay, just point to others character and morals , you will feel you win!

Jitna dimag discussion mein laga rahe ho na behno uska dedh percent bhi nahi laga rahe hai makers. Ab to adi ko bhi langur bana diya. I am seriously very disappointed by execution of this show. Ishti chahe jaisa bhi tha usma drama and passion tha. Yaha to hi kya raha hai yahi samazh nahi aa raha hai.

Originally posted by: Kaede

Jitna dimag discussion mein laga rahe ho na behno uska dedh percent bhi nahi laga rahe hai makers. Ab to adi ko bhi langur bana diya. I am seriously very disappointed by execution of this show. Ishti chahe jaisa bhi tha usma drama and passion tha. Yaha to hi kya raha hai yahi samazh nahi aa raha hai.

Comparing the show with something else sometime spoil the fun, nit just for you but everyone and you will always be earning for something in future and missing the present. I don't know what Ishti kutum is and I am having fun going thru the journey of Imlie, Adi as well as Malini. I prefer Adilie is the endgame, but I will wait for makers to tell the story their way instead of worrying every single day about what happens sometime in the future.

I don't get this whole ema claim. How can a girl simply saying she sees her own husband as her husband suddenly be classed as ema? That's mind boggling.

Imlie giving her chunri or sindoor to Malini doesn't necessarily mean she gave up her own right to view Adi as her husband. Although she was trying her best like she said in that hospital scene to throw away all these marital symbols but her belief stops her everytime. She has every right to keep her belief intact and at the same time she has accepted that Adi doesn't acknowledge her as his wife and she respects that. She's still being selfless enough not to force him to accept her.

Yes the first time they got married, they were forced into it but what about the second time they went through all those rituals? Adi chose to tie a mangalsutra around her neck and no guns were pointing his way. He said he did it because Imlie's mum wasn't well. So whatever his reasons, he had a choice this time round. So the marriage is valid. Imlie is not some random woman coming in to steal someone's husband. Like it or not, she is also a bahu of the Tripathi family and has rights.

I don't foresee Imlie actively doing anything to seduce Adi for her character to be put in question. If Adi falls for Imlie, it'll be out of his own volition. The hearts wants what it wants but ofcourse I hope he has the presence of mind to treat this matter delicately so all 3 of them don't suffer for so long. However, this is a tv serial and they thrive on drama, so I expect this to be dragged.

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

Well, We are here to discuss our ideas about the show , not to judgment and point to each other murals and characters!

I dont believe this kind of attitude and behavior Accepted in the fourum!

But yes, thank you!! I don't have to justify my self to you or to anyone here 🙄

Agreed 100% 👏

I find this whole morality debate ridiculous especially when the reason being used is "Imlie shouldn't do that to her sister". I mean didn't we all know from day 1 of this show that Malini and Imlie were blood-related and yet still chose to ship Adilie over Adoon? Where was this morality debate amidst all the mad celebrations over Adi carrying Imlie in his arms just a few epis back? 🤪

The audience knows the girls are related but not the 3 main characters. I don't know why some audience members are reacting as if the actual characters are already aware of this. 😆 Adi will most likely fall for Imlie before any of them find out. That's where the real heartbreak will begin for them.

I doubt Imlie will reciprocate Adi's feeling when she finds out Malini's her real sister. Anyways people need to just chill and see what happens before questioning the morals of the characters.

Yes passing comments on the morals of the people on this forum is unacceptable.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha then you are more generous than me in trying to understand😆

I can understand people trying to find a moral higher ground for their preferred pairing in this story.....but the harsh truth is that the moral high ground is not something any character in this journey can claim as much anymore....if it was about morality, the answer would be clear from day one. No matter what the consequences, Adi should have told Malini the truth, dissolved his marriage with Imlie and married Malini properly after that. But none of that happened.....cuz this story isn't about the moral higher ground. It's about people caught in a complex web of destiny, helplessly trapped by both circumstances as well as their own characteristics....trying to navigate their way out of it as much as they are able to in the flow of the moment.

So in all this, I don't really search for who is the clear moral winner of this story....I only search for meaningful connections....and I've found those in Adi-Imlie's relationship....and their ability to speak their truth to each other in the face of so many paradoxes and complexities makes for a fascinating watch.

@bold: I completely agree.

@bold That's what it all boils down to for me too. Adilie's connection has been true and meaningful from the very moment they met, which is why even in scenes when they've cut each other with their words, I have appreciated that about them. They don't walk on egg shells when expressing their emotions (good/bad) to each other whereas with everyone else, they've had to do so. One might counter this point by saying that's only because they have a shared secret which forces them to be honest with one another but actually they've been like this even prior to the forced wedding in Pagdandiya. 😊

Originally posted by: Snazzy_Naz

@bold That's what it all boils down to for me too. Adilie's connection has been true and meaningful from the very moment they met, which is why even in scenes when they've cut each other with their words, I have appreciated that about them. They don't walk on egg shells when expressing their emotions (good/bad) to each other whereas with everyone else, they've had to do so. One might counter this point by saying that's only because they have a shared secret which forces them to be honest with one another but actually they've been like this even prior to the forced wedding in Pagdandiya. 😊

I agree....they were like this even before the forced wedding.....there are moments from the first time they met in PD which show that they had an ease b/w each other in terms of candidly talking about all manner of subjects.....how easily was Imlie instantly able to tease him about Moon and he allowed it too....there was no hesitation in that sense. They were sharing their conflicting views about marriage even before they were married.....That formed the basis/foundation.....then came the forced wedding that bound them together....since then their relationship has built on top of that original foundation.....the shared secret binds them further, but the foundation was laid from the moment they first met. No one has been able to make Adi smile like Imlie, and basically make him let go and connect with his carefree self like Imlie does....that was all true before the wedding and it's still true after the wedding even as their lives have gotten more complicated.

Passing personal remarks about fellow members is STRICTLY not permitted, just because you disagree with a certain POV. Strict action will be taken if such incidence is found again.

Refrain from discussing member's morality and stick to the discussions of the show.

Imlie DT.