I dare.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: sho-shweet

Beautiful! You expressed Aarzoo so beautifully.I guess this is what the show lacks,we don't know what Aarzoo thinks about any situations,perhaps some monologues can do the trick.

Originally posted by: Junoonian

I LOVE it!!! All of it.

I loved your take on Sahir and now this.

Beautifully analyzed and understood. Hugs.

Originally posted by: Gayu-Sahil

you wrote beautifully...but the problem is writers are not putting these thoughts when it comes to arzoo..it is like every day they are changing her character according to script..

only in this forum people write various pov of arzoo action...i dont think any normal viewer understand this..that is the reason this character cant connect to audience...cvs should concentrate on this character ..but they are busy in giving romance and push and pull..story and leads characters are important..if they concentrate on this the show will easily reach audience..

p.s sorry for ranting in your thread..

Originally posted by: ashi_mania

Great job...loved n enjoyed reading it 👏

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Arzoo's expectations of others don't match her own behaviour towards them that is why I always find it hard to relate to ... Sahir we are always shown as flawed so its easy to relate to him in that context ... but with arzoo she too has flaws but they are shown as something of strength so i find it hard to relate to her ... I honestly won't have a problem if her anger and her arrogance were shown as flaws too and not as symbols of woman power ... i loose arzoo ,,, sell me arzoo as immature, impulsive character and i will happily take her ... the way i have taken sahir with his flaws ... but if you try and show me that all her actions are always right and she is how strong women should be then i am sorry I find it impossible to relate to her! From the resignation letter to some of her actions at workplace and this pregnancy fiasco, all have wrong written all over them ... but not once I see her look into her self and think about what she is doing wrong ... she is always thinking about how others are doing wrong with her!

That is the problem na. This is supposed to be the story of Sahir AND Arzoo. We know Sahir but so far Arzoo has remained an unknown quantity. If I compare Sahir to a turbulent sea, I see Arzoo as a still silent lake. We don't know how deep it is or if it is indeed deep at all. And I am not trying to justify her behaviour in my write up here. Neither am I saying whatever she does is correct in the name of women empowerment. This is just an attempt to reach the thoughts behind the actions. The actions are in no way right. I completely agree to that.

Also she stayed back to understand his pain ... not once she has thought that if it was so easy for him to share it why would he be so lifeless all these years? She fell in love ... love makes you soft she has turned harder ...

Because she sees this love as a weakness. She doesn't want it. At the same time she can't push it away like some unwanted food and move on.

first thing in a relationship is communication she closed that channel ... trust is not a permanent thing ever ... that once someone trusts u, it means you will always be trusted ... it takes years to build it a moment to loose it, even in husband wife relationship here they have no relation at all ... arzoo loves him and that is that and ever since then she has just been arrogant with him from the day he said sorry to this whole thing ... yet she has truck load of expectation from him? ... arzoo does not know what sahir saw at hospital ... last thing she told him before leaving that day from office was that its none of her business ...then why expect him to read her eyes and understand?

Because she THINKS thats what he did before whenever he stood up for her. It didn't strike her that he supported her because he was going with the evidence in his hands. She just saw it as his implicit trust in her.

When he has no right over her ... when he has not told her he loves her why the expectation? Just because she is in love its ok for her to be rude to him and then expect him to understand everything reading her eyes? Zaki thinks arzoo loves him, am sure that is what he read in her eyes too, in eyes we sometimes read what we want to read but thats not always right is it? ... Also arzoo loves sahir she expects him to read her eyes but has she bothered reading his, the pain, the hurt in them? Ever since she has realized she loves him what has she done to prove she does except have a truck load of unrealistic expectations? And the whole non sense way in which she supported Zaki in this pregnancy fiasco, I can't relate it to all the morals talk she has been speaking about to Sahir ... just because he is her friend and without knowing anything about sumaira she judged her? Specially given what her father did to her mother shouldnt she be a little more considerate of Sumaira's feelings because zaki even told her she sleep talks, which means whether or not its his child he has been sleeping with her!

I am hoping they will show for once her thinking about her own blunder (which r very much human) and look into herself ... and see her own flaws ... else this story as a love story makes no sense ... because arzoo is suppose to heal sahir right? If he falls in love with her and heals and redeems himself where is her contribution? What has she done so far for him? Got back the deal? Well she lost it too didn't she? I am not saying it was a small thing but just that it is not enough to prove the healing thing, she stayed back to find about his pain and with her attitude pushed him further in the shell ... she fell in love she expected him to open up to her, without realizing that if it was so easy why would he spend 7 years in misery? ... in fact she pushed him into more misery, part of it knowingly and part of it unwillingly! She claims to love him but for her love means her way or the highway!

Also pregnancy is not a small thing ... it would be hard for anyone to believe her ... if it hurt her so much best thing would be to tell the truth and walk out of the house ... leave ... no one asked her to take the blame on herself ... she is not willing to understand what a big accusation she took upon herself ... i mean let alone Sahir she even expects kurti and anam to believe her? Like i said communication is the key to all relations once u close that channel u can't blame others ... when sahir asked her that day sach kia hai ... it was obvious he had not even till then believed it ... he only wanted to know why she would lie about such a thing ... and she expects him to read her eyes and not does so herself? Why expect something from the other when u cant do it yourself? She loves Sahir yet she judges him all the time ... he had not even realized then that he loves her and she expected him to understand her reading his eyes? Its nothing but immaturity and unreal expectation from a man, whose pain she stayed back to understand but just because he didn't tell upon her asking, as if it was so easy!!!

I still have hope though just as sahir will redeem himself from pain to living life again ... arzoo will some how look into herself and realize her own mistakes ... he immaturity, anger and impulsiveness could be because of how her father treated them I agree but she needs to grow as a character ... she can't stay the same and be sold as a strong woman ... because right now she isn't! Strong women are not impulsive and emotional, they are considerate and confident!

Originally posted by: Sagi.

Beautifully written, Aunty tussi great ho.

Kaash hum aisa likh paate. *Sigh*

Sagi

Originally posted by: prettypri

You express beautifully I must say!

Although I really don't relate to Arzoo at all...except tbe time she realised she was in love!

I don't find her actions or actions for that matter justifiable in any given situation...and usually I find myself wondering why she is doing what she is doing!

So ..I hope there is character growth that I can see...some introspection and correction of faults...that kind of thing...it would be good to watch a love story where both characters are relatable...I hope that happens 😃

Originally posted by: ecrivain

Suvi ..I urge u to forward this to the Cvs pls ..After the horrible degradation of such a beautiful character if they can etch out even 1/10th of wht u have written I swear I will stick by HS ARZOO n SaAz Lile no one Here

Fwd to CVs?? 😕 how do I do that?? 😆

This was stupendous suvi ..I wish the show tht portrayed ARZOO was just as brilliant 😆

Thank you Ecri. You were the one who wanted me to write this. So really glad that it has met your expectations. Truly. 🤗