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Posted: 10 years ago
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The thing is...Arzoo not telling Sahir about why she kept quiet for that accusation...that's probably reciprocation of the fact that he never told her anything...but...even that is relevant for him isn't it ?.
Thinking about it..he has never hidden or refused to share things relevant for her...be it about the design or him talking to her dad..he has proactively shared...what he is not able to tell is his own pain...which right now is not really affecting her negatively as he hasn't expressed any feelings for her!

But this fact about Zaki,,,was relevant for him...even if she didn't share it immediately...she should have when he asked,,,it wasn't so thing personal so reciprocation of his non sharing behaviour wouldn't exactly apply I guess...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soaps1


Honestly Arzoo has never told or shared anything with Sahir .. whatever he has learned about her life was either through circumstances or through Alvira ... so to say she shares everything with him and he never reciprocates is not true ... arzoo never ever told him anything when he asked be it about sarfraz or her reason of not coming to office ... so I don't know why arzoo even expects him to share with her when she herself has never told him anything! Also arzoo decided to stay back to understand his pain if i am not wrong ... she knew he has some pain he is hiding but you don't see her giving any consideration to the fact that if it was so easy for him to share it why would he be living the life of a loner for so long? He does not know arzoo loves him, let alone realize his own feelings for her so arzoo's expectations are unfair and unrealistic because like i said she never ever told him anything about herself ... not even the things he had a right to know as a boss, she being an employee. So if she keeps everything from him why expect him to share? Arzoo tou know she loves him ... he doesn't even know that!

And like i said her doing it for zaki is all fine ... but I don't see any reason how it will benefit Sahir ... i would not ask this question if that day she hadn't thought "hum ye sahir sir ke liey bhi kar rahey hien" ... even before and specially now when Rehman is blackmailing him any ways I don't see how this can benefit Sahir in any way ... if she is doing it because he doesn't share anything that is another matter then she shouldn't be saying i am also doing it for Sahir sir ... because if she is doing it because he doesnt reciprocate (even though she never ever shared anything herself) then she is doing it for her own satisfaction na ... not for his benefit!

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Well what your saying is right if you see it from sahirs perspective. But this is arzoos side we are talking about. So i am thinking from her side.

And she did tell him. She told him in the jungle scene about her father remember. And even when her mom collapsed he was the first one she rushed to. Even when in the hospital she went and hugged him when she was in pain. She always takes steps towards him and he pushes her away so now she isnt going near him cause she is afraid he will do it again and now her being in love changes the equation. Him hurting her isnt just a fight anymore it hits where it hurts most the heart.

and also she felt she was nothing to him so her taking the fall and giving zaki time made her feel like she is saving sahir from the pain of a brother's wrong doing since the focus would be on her. what she didnt realize is that his love for her would cause him as much pain if not more. so thats how she meant she is doing it for sahir. and also she is saving his name too giving zaki time because if it turns out to be false then the whole sumaira issue can be handled saving the name of saiyyara and sahir inadvertedly for which time is essential. If not if she blurts out the truth now there will be a huge round of negative press and a hush hush marraige suddenly might spoil the deal at the end moment which would be really bad for sahir.

and the rahman factor doesnt come in till now since it is only now that he blackmailed sahir and she came to know about it. after which she was seen confused and worried about sahir and her decision. what happens today tests aarzoo as a charecter if she does the smart thing and talk it out with sahir since its high time and they both come up with a solution or she thinks of some other way out if there is one
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yea pri sahir does not realize he loves her nor knows she loves him so her expecting him to share his pain with her may be based on her own love for him but are certainly unrealistic ... if she really wants to know his pain ... she has to keep his pain first and understand if he could share it so easily he won't be eating burnt toast living life of a dead man devoid of emotions and feelings for so long
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well what your saying is right if you see it from sahirs perspective. But this is arzoos side we are talking about. So i am thinking from her side.

And she did tell him. She told him in the jungle scene about her father remember. And even when her mom collapsed he was the first one she rushed to. Even when in the hospital she went and hugged him when she was in pain. She always takes steps towards him and he pushes her away so now she isnt going near him cause she is afraid he will do it again and now her being in love changes the equation. Him hurting her isnt just a fight anymore it hits where it hurts most the heart.

and also she felt she was nothing to him so her taking the fall and giving zaki time made her feel like she is saving sahir from the pain of a brother's wrong doing since the focus would be on her. what she didnt realize is that his love for her would cause him as much pain if not more. so thats how she meant she is doing it for sahir. and also she is saving his name too giving zaki time because if it turns out to be false then the whole sumaira issue can be handled saving the name of saiyyara and sahir inadvertedly for which time is essential. If not if she blurts out the truth now there will be a huge round of negative press and a hush hush marraige suddenly might spoil the deal at the end moment which would be really bad for sahir.

and the rahman factor doesnt come in till now since it is only now that he blackmailed sahir and she came to know about it. after which she was seen confused and worried about sahir and her decision. what happens today tests aarzoo as a charecter if she does the smart thing and talk it out with sahir since its high time and they both come up with a solution or she thinks of some other way out if there is one


Jungle was a different affair ... he was talking about life and being the ghusey baaz she is she blurted it out ... we were talking about the times he has asked her something ... when ever he has asked she never told not even this much ke her mother was sick so she couldnt come to work ... as for her mother she rushed to get help from nayamath house he was the first one she collided into ... that wasn't deliberate ... and i agree her being in love changes the equation for her ... but why does she expect that it would change for him too specially when he doesn't even know she loves him? She goes to him because her loves takes him there ... how does she expect he would reciprocate when he is so engrossed in his pain? I do understand her love is forcing her into doing this but how can she claim to love and not consider his side or his POV? She expect him to read her eyes ... when he has never claimed to love her nor they are in a relationship ... has she herself thought about reading the hurt and pain in his eyes? Even in the scene that followed sorry where he spoke about hadd all she took from whatever he said to her was that its none of her business ... she didn't see the pain in his eyes or think about that ... I am not saying arzoos heart is at wrong place nor her intentions its just i feel she is too impulsive and wants things her way always, which doesn't let her see things from other person's POV. Because if she loves him, his pain would be her first priority not her own!

And like her said yes the brother theory makes sense till rehman was not blackmailing ... now that he is blackmailing any ways lets see if she goes and tell him
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soaps1

Yea pri sahir does not realize he loves her nor knows she loves him so her expecting him to share his pain with her may be based on her own love for him but are certainly unrealistic ... if she really wants to know his pain ... she has to keep his pain first and understand if he could share it so easily he won't be eating burnt toast living life of a dead man devoid of emotions and feelings for so long


Yes nads...actually I think Arzoo started the not sharing thing...by calling everything personal...if I am not wrong.
Something as simple as her motgers illness she didn't share with him...as her boss...but she shared it with Zaki...as a friend!

Any steps she has taken have been to derive comfort from him...because she loves him...she only asked him one time after the apology...and she got so worked up that he wouldn't share..!

Only after she said that his pain doesn't even matter anymore he retaliated with whatever he said...

And he hasn't thorn those words back at her but tried to help her out and shown concern after that also...I don't know if her being in love justifies her refusing to see the obvious and expect it all to be spelt out...because she fell in love with the guy whom she knew nothing about...who was living in some self imposed exile...drawing him out would take time!

If he were to tell her he loves her or accept her feelings for him then yes..definitely what she feels would be justifiable!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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And yes i agree with Pri that all matter that concerned her Sahir has told her about them ... even his talk with Sarfraz he did not hide ... but this was the first matter that concerned Sahir and she instead of telling him is hiding it
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soaps1


Jungle was a different affair ... he was talking about life and being the ghusey baaz she is she blurted it out ... we were talking about the times he has asked her something ... when ever he has asked she never told not even this much ke her mother was sick so she couldnt come to work ... as for her mother she rushed to get help from nayamath house he was the first one she collided into ... that wasn't deliberate ... and i agree her being in love changes the equation for her ... but why does she expect that it would change for him too specially when he doesn't even know she loves him? She goes to him because her loves takes him there ... how does she expect he would reciprocate when he is so engrossed in his pain? I do understand her love is forcing her into doing this but how can she claim to love and not consider his side or his POV? She expect him to read her eyes ... when he has never claimed to love her nor they are in a relationship ... has she herself thought about reading the hurt and pain in his eyes? Even in the scene that followed sorry where he spoke about hadd all she took from whatever he said to her was that its none of her business ... she didn't see the pain in his eyes or think about that ... I am not saying arzoos heart is at wrong place nor her intentions its just i feel she is too impulsive and wants things her way always, which doesn't let her see things from other person's POV. Because if she loves him, his pain would be her first priority not her own!

And like her said yes the brother theory makes sense till rehman was not blackmailing ... now that he is blackmailing any ways lets see if she goes and tell him


see starting mei it was different. she was his employee and he hated her guts. plus no matter what reason she gave he would have blasted her and wouldnt have understood so she didnt tell him. and the father thing she gave a legit reason. she had no relation with him so she didnt mention it. but she did tell him what he needed to know as a boss that she would be loyal to the company no matter what. and that was what he needed to know.

and the love thing. she knows he doesnt love her but he has always trusted her and understood her even when everything was against her so she expected him to do the same this time as well. being in love made her expectations higher and him being in love made his insecurity higher thus so much of raita 😆

but the pov thing is bang on. it irks me at times that alvira has to call her aside every freaking time to council her and make her understand sahirs pov. she just cant think from his pov. she is so used to fighting and winning that she has forgotten to think of the other person involved. she is imoulsive and immature that way at times which needs attention and character development soon.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes but i don't think Sahir believed it ... he was confused yes ... and all he wanted was no from her then regardless of whatever he had seen at the hospital he would have believed her ... though i still feel he may not think she is pregnant but won't say more before it unfolds
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Originally posted by: Soaps1

Yes but i don't think Sahir believed it ... he was confused yes ... and all he wanted was no from her then regardless of whatever he had seen at the hospital he would have believed her ... though i still feel he may not think she is pregnant but won't say more before it unfolds

agreed. he didnt believe it. that is why he was trying to understand what was going on and which facet of hers is true. he needed a yes. but at the same time aarzoo had just seen alvira trusting her without any questions and thus she expected the same level of support from sahir as he has always stood by her without any questions.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Only if arzoo knew why alvira was so desperate to believe her 😆 Also like I said Alvira did not see them at the hospital ... he did i wonder what arzoo would have to say when she finds out about it ... if at all 🤣 That would be fun!

i feel arzoo not understanding or thinking about his POV is counter productive for her own self ... I mean we as viewers know he has a past with dhoka so its hard for him to trust anyone (even though he still has trusted arzoo and believed her even when she herself failed to prove) and arzoo also does not know what he saw at hospital ... that is why it is more important for her to consider his pain and hurt and not get engrossed in her own "revengeful" thinking 😆 because in love its always keeping the other before you ... like Sahir has even though he is upset about the pregnancy thing still he is keeping her above his own pain ... as indicated in box scene and even the last scene

Because arzoo stayed back to find his pain and i feel that purpose is lost some where in all this ... unless when she decided to stay back she thought ke when she will ask he will tell 😆

Also if she thinks sahir doesn't trust her she doesn't trust him either yet, if she did she would trust him to solve the issue like he has solved all her other problems so far, can't he his own?

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