Poor Sags - Page 2

Originally posted by: seetha74

Laughter and anger are both responses to frustration and annoyance ...and I myself prefer to laugh, since there is less heart ache afterwards !!Sagarika is yet to know about her husband's promise ,and Amma's vices ! When she realizes the fact ,and the real reason behind Bunty's disapproval of her advances ... then, that's what makes the betrayal hurts her so much... the pain, frustration, anger... resultant of a volcanic eruption , -for now she still loves him...but later ,after realization of the falcity and trickery of Bunty ...any girl will do what Sagarika is going to do !

There is a limit for every bad deed ,here everybody exceeds their limit !

Very good post Ayesha ! !Agree with you ..all your frustrations and anger are justified !

Its partly Sagarika's fault for marrying into that illiterate, vulgar, abnormal family! This is why u shd not marry below your social status!

Good points Ayesha, agree with you. 👏

I can not understand that Amma, nor will I try to. She really is very possessive and egoistic, and totally under influence of Satya.😡

I feel so sad for Sags and her ruined HM, I hate Pappu, what kind of brother is he?🤢

She will be so hurt one day, when she find out about Bunty stupid promise to his Amma.

Yes poor Sags, but to some extent I agree with Pallavi above. Sags is partially responsible for this chaos in her life. And I also know this, that love is blind. And at such an age people tend to make mistakes.

But I am sure SagUn would behave and handle things maturely once they u/stand the problem and its u/lying reasons. Then Satya, Amma, Pappu and his wife, or anyone would not be able to create any issues in their life. We just need to give them sometime.

Everyone learns it some way or the other. 😊

Sags is too sophesticated for that mad family ! 😡

Originally posted by: itpostaff

Sags is too sophesticated for that mad family ! 😡

Very good post, Ayesha and you are not alone in your frustrations. Each night after seeing the episodes, there is so much heart-burning in me, I personally find the happenings in the Mishra family very regressive.

Amma is unbelievable. I can understand being dominating, insecure and wanting to control your children's lives but getting a misplaced sense of security in your son not consummating his marriage and wanting this arrangement to continue,is she a psycho??

Satya is sinister, wonder why she is all the time around in that house like a family member, the methods used by Satya are so reminiscent of old Hindi films of 50s and 60s, post-independence, but Indian society has evolved so much, even jealousy and disdain can be handled and expressed better, but what to tell our uninspired CVS😔

Pappu, though he brings in humor sometimes, was always shown as a leech who lived on his family and who sucked up to his wife, he and his wife have always been portrayed as self-centred people who cater to their interests first and last, so not surprised.

Bunty, a nice, caring guy, has taken Sagz for granted, does not try to understand her, and is conditioned only to obey his mom and do her bidding. If he does not change, circumstances will make him change, so waiting for Sagz to stand up to her rights.

Sagz is educated, cultured, trusting but misjudged the family. She's intelligent, she refused Bunty's proposal initially though it hurt her because she did not want problems in the marriage but she was too trusting, when Amma came with the proposal, she thought it was all resolved. Time for her to revolt and call a spade a spade.

The Cvs need drama to work around but I only wish they had a more inspired storyline to depict this drama!

Agreed to your every word Vibha

Originally posted by: vibraj

Very good post, Ayesha and you are not alone in your frustrations. Each night after seeing the episodes, there is so much heart-burning in me, I personally find the happenings in the Mishra family very regressive.

Amma is unbelievable. I can understand being dominating, insecure and wanting to control your children's lives but getting a misplaced sense of security in your son not consummating his marriage and wanting this arrangement to continue,is she a psycho??

Satya is sinister, wonder why she is all the time around in that house like a family member, the methods used by Satya are so reminiscent of old Hindi films of 50s and 60s, post-independence, but Indian society has evolved so much, even jealousy and disdain can be handled and expressed better, but what to tell our uninspired CVS😔

Pappu, though he brings in humor sometimes, was always shown as a leech who lived on his family and who sucked up to his wife, he and his wife have always been portrayed as self-centred people who cater to their interests first and last, so not surprised.

Bunty, a nice, caring guy, has taken Sagz for granted, does not try to understand her, and is conditioned only to obey his mom and do her bidding. If he does not change, circumstances will make him change, so waiting for Sagz to stand up to her rights.

Sagz is educated, cultured, trusting but misjudged the family. She's intelligent, she refused Bunty's proposal initially though it hurt her because she did not want problems in the marriage but she was too trusting, when Amma came with the proposal, she thought it was all resolved. Time for her to revolt and call a spade a spade.

The Cvs need drama to work around but I only wish they had a more inspired storyline to depict this drama!

👏👏👏 Agree with everything you said, Vibha. 😊

Guess in this weeks episode we witnessed the beginning of change in Bunty...he is starting to observe what is going on in his family, he saw how his mother behaved during that shopping, saw that Sagz was sad and bought all the clots she loved to make her happy.
He did not allowed Amma to enter their room (are we a step closer to locking that door)...he saw in taxi in Mumbai that his Mom hurt Sagz feelings when she did not want to talk to her...and finally in today's episode Sagz burst out (waiting for Ayesha WU to see what she told him), so they start to share their feelings and hopefully talk with each other.
After this night nothing will be the same, and Bunty will be on a speed course to change.

He love his wife, he want her to be happy, he thought that he should keep his mother happy in order to keep balance in his family, but from today he'll realize that he should pay more attention to his wife and her feelings, or she will pack her bags and go out. 😛
He will never again take her for granted after chasing her through streets of Mumbai.😃

Originally posted by: vibraj

Very good post, Ayesha and you are not alone in your frustrations. Each night after seeing the episodes, there is so much heart-burning in me, I personally find the happenings in the Mishra family very regressive.

Amma is unbelievable. I can understand being dominating, insecure and wanting to control your children's lives but getting a misplaced sense of security in your son not consummating his marriage and wanting this arrangement to continue,is she a psycho??

Satya is sinister, wonder why she is all the time around in that house like a family member, the methods used by Satya are so reminiscent of old Hindi films of 50s and 60s, post-independence, but Indian society has evolved so much, even jealousy and disdain can be handled and expressed better, but what to tell our uninspired CVS😔

Pappu, though he brings in humor sometimes, was always shown as a leech who lived on his family and who sucked up to his wife, he and his wife have always been portrayed as self-centred people who cater to their interests first and last, so not surprised.

Bunty, a nice, caring guy, has taken Sagz for granted, does not try to understand her, and is conditioned only to obey his mom and do her bidding. If he does not change, circumstances will make him change, so waiting for Sagz to stand up to her rights.

Sagz is educated, cultured, trusting but misjudged the family. She's intelligent, she refused Bunty's proposal initially though it hurt her because she did not want problems in the marriage but she was too trusting, when Amma came with the proposal, she thought it was all resolved. Time for her to revolt and call a spade a spade.

The Cvs need drama to work around but I only wish they had a more inspired storyline to depict this drama!

Vibha ...very well said ! Wonderful analysis !

In our culture the mother-in-law / daughter-in-law relationship is expected to be filled with thorny tensions ! Folk sayings and jokes reflect the anticipated hostility between a Dil &her Mil ! For example, a saying from our state [AP] -''-I wish my daughter: the sun of the winter, I wish my daughter-in-law.. the sun of the summer !''--

Many of us are familiar with both extremes of in-law relationships...caring and amiable ones and uncaring and hostile ones! In between are degrees and variations of both types ...most households display this type of relationships !

In this serial a husband is the culprit who unwittingly causes bad feelings between his wife and mother when he does not make his wife his number one priority after his marriage ,and later unable ,to be decisive and assertive to safe guard the interest of his wife in his family ...he is solely responsible for this situation !!