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Saumya

@Badala

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Preeti di! come on!

He is not working and I don't see why everyone has problem when Zara herself does not have a problem.

Also, I don't understand why is it hilarious... Girls have all the rights in the world to compare themselves with guys and guys don't...

In Manipur, its still the women who work and guys sit back and look after the family. Its not funny.

Why can't a guy wish to stay back and let his wife earn when there is no problem they are facing.

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PD_forums

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: _saumya_
Preeti di! come on!

He is not working and I don't see why everyone has problem when Zara herself does not have a problem.

Also, I don't understand why is it hilarious... Girls have all the rights in the world to compare themselves with guys and guys don't...
In Manipur, its still the women who work and guys sit back and look after the family. Its not funny.
Why can't a guy wish to stay back and let his wife earn when there is no problem they are facing.

i will tell you why( i am tell you with some personal experience with my friends)... a girls is not physically equal to a guy...

she can work and earn till some time only, because her body changes alot unlike a man's... she has a lot of responsibilities unlike men at home.
a girl after getting pregnant feels like staying at home and take care of kids... as a mother she needs to be with her kids, i donot think a man can take care of his child equally as a woman
it is really sad when we need to tell a man his responsibility instead of he himself knows about it...

if a guy sits at home for sometime it is not an issue but if it continues that it will be like a disease

i never support such a man in reel or real, this is my opinion

Mark my words: a man sitting at home is a pain to the woman who works and earns... this is the naked truth, either it is real or reel

Edited by preethimadhavg - 12 years ago

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Sania

@dynamic_doll

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: _saumya_

Edited by Favouriteofall - 12 years ago

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Saumya

@Badala

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

i will tell you why( i am tell you with some personal experience with my friends)... a girls is not physically equal to a guy...

she can work and earn till some time only, because her body changes alot unlike a man's... she has a lot of responsibilities unlike men at home.
a girl after getting pregnant feels like staying at home and take care of kids... as a mother she needs to be with her kids, i donot think a man can take care of his child equally as a woman
it is really sad when we need to tell a man his responsibility instead of he himself knows about it...

if a guy sits at home for sometime it is not an issue but if it continues that it will be like a disease

i never support such a man in reel or real, this is my opinion

I disagree di! its just a social norm that a guy can not take good care of kids. And if everyone follows a social norm, the society would just be stagnant. we would still live in the world where we were considered mere puppets.

During pregnancy I agree but for that you get maternity leave so no worries about that.

And she can't work after a certain age... I know girls who work and the work is physical work , field work after they have delivered. Smriti Irani worked two days before she delivered. I am not a big fan of hers but she is a good example here. Acting is a strenuous work. If she can why can't others.

Its just a bahana , a way out... otherwise a girl can work as long as a guy can and at least if its not physical work.

Also, I support everything that massages my logic lobes. Therefore, if I can't ask a qualified female friend of mine to work, I can't hate a male friend for the same reason.

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PD_forums

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: _saumya_

I disagree di! its just a social norm that a guy can not take good care of kids. And if everyone follows a social norm, the society would just be stagnant. we would still live in the world where we were considered mere puppets.

During pregnancy I agree but for that you get maternity leave so no worries about that.

And she can't work after a certain age... I know girls who work and the work is physical work , field work after they have delivered. Smriti Irani worked two days before she delivered. I am not a big fan of hers but she is a good example here. Acting is a strenuous work. If she can why can't others.

Its just a bahana , a way out... otherwise a girl can work as long as a guy can and at least if its not physical work.

Also, I support everything that massages my logic lobes. Therefore, if I can't ask a qualified female friend of mine to work, I can't hate a male friend for the same reason.

ok let me tell you in real life examples then

donot need TV stars, i have live examples with me..

my friend worked till 5 days before her delivery...
and other friend has to take bed rest for 6 months before delivery (she took loss of pay for that)

not my friend but neighour as situation her husband donot work and she takes care of every one... as soon as her maternity leave completed she joined the office but died next week because of infection

it is not bahana dear,,, you know i support a woman who works (infact i am not a housewife but a working woman) but husband sitting at home is not acceptable for me in any case...

i always feel a wifes earning should an asset to her husband but a wife earing should never be the only sahara of family...u feel it is old fashion but still i strongly believe in this

a man who simply sits at home and depends on his wife is a burden on earth for me unless until he is physically disabled.

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Saumya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Favouriteofall

Just a que...in other religions the husband is given the responsibility to provide sustainance to his wife...and thora bohat jo mujhe pata hai hindu wedding mei bhi aik phere ka aisa kuch meaning hota hai (i may be wrong) so agar aisa hai to Zara nahin atleast Indira ki material needs to Rishi ko puri karni chahiye...no?
aisa to kabhi nahin hua ke Patni apne Pati ki ex-patni ki zaruraton ka khayal rakhe!
and one more thing agar mard ke ghar bethne se koi problem nahin hai phir to we have no right to criticize Munna Sharma...right?
I did say I had a problem with him sitting back when Indira wanted him to work... did I not... Munna was wrong because Indira wanted his help but he did not (just like Rishi)

aik baar kaha theek hai but baar baar usse sirf Zimmedaari kehna pyaar ki insult hai!

lekin wo usse pyaar nahi karta hai ab... lekin fir bhi wo uski zimmedari utha raha hai... He loves Zara

you are forgetting a very important quality of old Rishi...no matter kitni buri situation ho Rishi kabhi hath per hath rakh ke bethne walon mei se nahin tha...he believed ke haalat ko badla ja sakta hai, but ab usse sirf aik hi kaam hai Zara ke peeche bhagna...that's it 🤢
usne Zara ke peeche bhagna chhod dia tha jab use laga tha ki wo galat hai... aur kitni bhi buri situation handle kari ho usne past me... this one is way too different. Also, its about his love and his daughter. He just can't take chances. jab wo situations handle kar leta tha... those were the days when he had nothing to loose... here he might loose his love once again in life... he might loose his daughter who he has just started to bond with

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Saumya

@Badala

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

ok let me tell you in real life examples then

donot need TV stars, i have live examples with me..

my friend worked till 5 days before her delivery...
and other friend has to take bed rest for 6 months before delivery (she took loss of pay for that)

not my friend but neighour as situation her husband donot work and she takes care of every one... as soon as her maternity leave completed she joined the office but died next week because of infection

it is not bahana dear,,, you know i support a woman who works (infact i am not a housewife but a working woman) but husband sitting at home is not acceptable for me in any case...

i always feel a wifes earning should an asset to her husband but a wife earing should never be the only sahara of family...u feel it is old fashion but still i strongly believe in this

a man who simply sits at home and depends on his wife is a burden on earth for me unless until he is physically disabled.

@red: I would say that is a nice thought and it should be criteria for selecting your partner. Nothing on earth can stop anyone from having certain criteria for choosing their mates. But to pass a judgement on someone else is a different case.

and about the real life situation that you described, Di! I think that the your friend's husband should have started working at least when she was pregnant because she was off pay and they needed money of course for the treatment and another life. He could have stopped working later.

In case of Rishi, he did start working when Indira was diagnosed BT and I am sure he would work again if the situation demands. But I don't want you to consider what I think he would do when the situation demands but for now, I don't hold him really responsible. He is responsible for a lot of other wrong things but not this.