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Posted: 12 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Anu_1



aadk, @bold: I will disagree that point. Love and pamper your child,at same time teach the child values and discipline them.
Already I have wrote in earlier post, that every mother will pamper and love their child but at the same time they teach and correct the child's mistakes,when they do wrong, misbehave and does not show respect to elders. That is mother's duty also. That is missing with Swetha. Due to her insecurity, she is afraid to scold Indu when she makes mistakes.

Anu, i wud just want u to read the whole sentence and not a part of it...Disagreeing to the acts of one charcter and being blind to the faults of the other is not justified for me...Both are at fault equally and am no way supporting both of them..That is all i want to tell...I just came here to comment as i saw that only swetha was pointed fingers when both Swetha and Rishi where a part of Indu' upbringing..Or to put it in a better way,both of them were supposed to be a part of propr upbringing of Indu...
Edited by aadk - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anu, i wud just want u to read the whole sentence and not a part of it...Disagreeing to the acts of one charcter and being blind to the faults of the other is not justified for me...Both are at fault equally and am no way supporting both of them..That is all i want to tell...I just came here to comment as i saw that only swetha was pointed fingers when both Swetha and Rishi where a part of Indu' upbringing..Or to put it in a better way,both of them were supposed to be a part of propr upbringing of Indu...
I understand what you are trying to say about being fair in judging both characters but I think people put more blame on Shweta because she is continually shown touting the fact that Indu is her daughter and she has single handedly raised her/loved her and so on. I guess what I'm trying to say is that since she constantly gives herself a pat on the back for raising Indu, then people are bound to hold her more responsible for her failures as a parent as well.
Also, this is a Indian soap opera. There is only one formula for these shows and the main reason people watch these shows- the lead couple. Any character who stands as an obstruction between the lead couple is bound to be disliked by the audience and this is a normal response (and here the writers have given the audience enough reasons to dislike Shweta). Its plain and simple entertainment. These shows are not meant to enlighten us intellectually or morally and if one is using the content to define their moral compass, its time to look elsewhere.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anu, i wud just want u to read the whole sentence and not a part of it...Disagreeing to the acts of one charcter and being blind to the faults of the other is not justified for me...Both are at fault equally and am no way supporting both of them..That is all i want to tell...I just came here to comment as i saw that only swetha was pointed fingers when both Swetha and Rishi where a part of Indu' upbringing..Or to put it in a better way,both of them were supposed to be a part of propr upbringing of Indu...
I understand what you are trying to say about being fair in judging both characters but I think people put more blame on Shweta because she is continually shown touting the fact that Indu is her daughter and she has single handedly raised her/loved her and so on. I guess what I'm trying to say is that since she constantly gives herself a pat on the back for raising Indu, then people are bound to hold her more responsible for her failures as a parent as well.
Also, this is a Indian soap opera. There is only one formula for these shows and the main reason people watch these shows- the lead couple. Any character who stands as an obstruction between the lead couple is bound to be disliked by the audience and this is a normal response (and here the writers have given the audience enough reasons to dislike Shweta). Its plain and simple entertainment. These shows are not meant to enlighten us intellectually or morally and if one is using the content to define their moral compass, its time to look elsewhere.
well said walden..That is where the problem lies..Swetha has been continuously been shown as the one parenting Indu right from d day the latter was born and maybe that is why she is held responsible for everything...Also her recent behaviour has not gone down well with many of us,including me and that definitely is d beginning of the portrayal of her character as a grey shaded one to glorify the leads of the show...
Edited by aadk - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aadk

I would just like to make a point here.Swetha has alwys been bashed left and right in this forum right from the verry beginning and the justification that all the inshi/zashi fans come up with is that Rishi never forced Swetha to do anything

thanks for the reply appu but i need to add many things here.

She herself messed up her life.I agree..That was indeed a mistake from the lady..Atleast she wuldnt have got to have got to hear all the dirty comments made abt her in this forum.
1st of all, yes inshi/zashi fans come forward saying RISHI never forced shweta but you cant blame the entire fanbase making dirty comments, yes we agree that we dont like anyone between InShi but that doesnt mean we make dirty comments, i ll not justify acts of MIDs who call themselves InShians and bash shweta but we the old members never did such. We know that we ourselves has seen bashing in forum from start, once we were in pain due to it, so we can never give d same pain to others. and regarding her acts, yes now i can say it easily that what she is doing is not justified, a real mother would have never accepted her daughter calling name of her father. so finally yes her acts today proved that she never did her duties of mother.

.A woman who has taken care of the child for eight long years,brought her up with all the love that she could give(as the child was lucky enough to get this only from one of the parents) and has taken the responsibility of one bigg family which was no way related to her just a few days back is getting to hear all this..
does bringing up child means every now and then boasting about it?
does caring a family means evry now and then you rule them?
a woman love is selfless, she knows only to give but never expects anything in return but shweta tried to take place of indira though neither ishaan gave her the place of bua nor rishi gave her the place of indira, even inder hasnt forgotten bubbly, she wore the clothes of indira to get love of rishi but she was left empty handed, you know why? because faking yourself being other can never bring you a true love.

I dont say that swetha was right in pampering Indu and i completely oppose the way Indu behaved today in the episode.
yes even today what and how indu behaved was not justified, and moreover see the irony the place where shweta should come and slap indu, shweta came forward to slap zara 😆 wow i just realized can a mother behave in such an immatured way??? 😕 sorry to say but in my family i never ever dared to talk in such tone wid my dad, thats upbringing dear, yes i am talking in a matured way bcz i have seen the world lil more, so such acts of shweta proves that she herself spoilt indu that today without even asking anyone she went to a lawyer to leave RK. what a child??

But am just not able to get how people can point fingers to the person who has selflessly done everything that she could do to a child and a family gets to be blasted soo badly and on the other hand the guy who never bothered to look at his own child and who forgot all his responsibilities as a father is not at all questioned in this issue just because his love for his lost wife was soo pure that he could be forgiven for escaping from his responsibilities...Hw can one possibly justify this???
ahhh!!! was it a question on eternal love???? my favorite tagline, chalo 1st time i ll elaborate for you too. see i m keeping example, if one day destiny snatches me from you, then will u ever be able to give this place to anyone??? think this from your heart... i dont even need your answer here sis because i know you ll never, never - ever. will you ever let anyone faking being me enter your life? again never, yes if someone wil care the same way we develop the soft corner but we cant ever give d same place to him/her. just think from heart, its the answer of all the queries

The one who has done evrything ,though maynot be completely in the right way,is treated sooo poorly and the guy who has not done anything is just left without any further queries because he is permitted to do so because of his pure love for his shreematiji...
you sound here bit biased appu. please rethink about the statement. has he not done anything???? he left everything for indira and you just said he hasnt done anything. and shweta??? rishi has only one person who was a nishani of Indira and yes shweta is in her mission to snatch her too.
sorry to say but i disagree

Am no way mocking the true love that is shared between Inshi/Zashi as i myself am a fan of this couple...But that doesnot mean every action of either of them or both of them is justified for me...

its between me and appu so i wish others not to quote me 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pari117

its between me and appu so i wish others not to quote me 😳

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Posted: 12 years ago
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umm appu??? yeh wahi sis hai jisko tum "u" karke bula rahi ho??. have u lost it?
just for the sake of one character, u turned us in to a basher? please think before saying something. Please.
Edited by -warz- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -warz-


umm appu??? yeh wahi sis hai jisko tum "u" karke bula rahi ho??. have u lost it?
just for the sake of one character, u turned us in to a basher? please think before saying something. Please.

Wardah,what ever i have written is my pov and i stand by it..I wud not like dis argument to continue anymore..Plsss..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aadk

Wardah,what ever i have written is my pov and i stand by it..I wud not like dis argument to continue anymore..Plsss..


What? lol😆 m not even arguing. i told u to make some sensible reasons to point out at your so called sis.😊 whom u don't consider as a sister anymore.😊 oh so m also wardah now...no sis...haha okk got it..😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wardah,am not pointing out at anyone.Pls dont make an issue just because i expressed my opinion...I infact was expressing my dislike to the behaviour of some members..Thats all..Am i not entitled to do that? And as far as poining fingers at the one whom i have loved more than myself,i request you to please not pass such remarks..Pleasee..I alone know the bond that i share with Pari di and i dun want to create anymore drama here...Because of all this messs,i knw that i have lost that person... I have lost...But i wud just say that i knw ...only i knw wat i have been,,,I dun need to go out and prove to everyone..If i was and am true,am sure i will get back my lost one..But its a sincere request from my side to not play with the bond that two people share...
Pari di,i dun have much to say...Am sorry..I knw i have hurt u..But i never intended to do so...Sorry..U hav given ur everything to this forum...Am sorrry if i have erred...i dun think i need to say much,if u truly quesion ur heart,the answer lies there as to whether am true or not...Tk krr diii...
@all am sorry if i have hurt anyone...
Edited by aadk - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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why forget that she has genes of indur, kutumb, vidit, sam... it should not hurt zashi that much... they are used to such people

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