why NOT men??? - Page 3

Originally posted by: ramya567

U made a excellent post.

but my pov is Rishi is already married to shweta.He can't cheat her for another married woman who just a look alike of Indira.Rishi didnot take responsibility of Indu for all these 8 years.He kept her away.After his loved wife passed away he didnot take her place to see the needs for her family for whom she struggled day and night.He simply kept all tht responsibility on shweta's shoulders

He never cared for shweta's feelings.If he knew the value of friendship he would respect her feelings atleast.But he didnot do that.Many feel that shweta is at fault.But its Indira who stopped shweta from saying the truth to rishi abt Indira pregnancy.She is the one who took promise frm shweta for her relationship with Rishi.Rishi always lectured abt being good husband.Is he a good husband to his present wife.He need not love her but he can give her respect.He always asks her to shut her mouth.This shows how cultured he is.

Does Rishi care for all this.Does he cares to listen shweta's version.?Does such a man who dnt value another person feelings and ignored his responsibility deserve sympathy or good wishes from others to move on with another married woman?

May be fans love for rishi is mking them accept all his faults.But I am fed up of how Rishi is today.In the past he was a perfect husband .He was like an inspiration.But not any more to me.

I am sorry .Not to hurt anyone's feelings here.I dnt have anything against Rishi.I balme cv's for their poor content in the show and butchering Rishi character like this.

Originally posted by: Pari117

Originally posted by: ramya567

U made a excellent post.

thanks!

but my pov is Rishi is already married to shweta.

they never shhowed a complete marriage, they were getting married but in between indira fainted and marriage was interrupted, i guess you forgot a bit storyline 😊 and at last the marriage was incomplete.

He can't cheat her for another married woman who just a look alike of Indira.Rishi didnot take responsibility of Indu for all these 8 years.

he is not cheating shweta, as i told he took agreement from shweta even when she was offering herself being surrogate mother he made her clear that she is just surrogate mother, real parents are only InShi, rishi even made her clear that that she cant take place of indira wen she wore the dress of indira n tried to seduce her, he never made any committments to shweta so we cant say he is cheating shweta.

He kept her away.After his loved wife passed away he didnot take her place to see the needs for her family for whom she struggled day and night.He simply kept all tht responsibility on shweta's shoulders

he never forced her, it was shweta's own wish to take care of indu, even when indu was born rishi took her to indira who was not in her senses, these all only tells what indira meant for him, he is a lawyer, he never forced shweta to spend money on SN.

He never cared for shweta's feelings.If he knew the value of friendship he would respect her feelings atleast.But he didnot do that.

he cared dear, he cared, he hide the truth of indira being mother of indu because of promises he made to shweta, he himself said to munna i cant do this injustice to sweta, he tried being friend to her, but shweta trying to replace indira wearingg her dress and seducing him drifted rishi from her.

Many feel that shweta is at fault.But its Indira who stopped shweta from saying the truth to rishi abt Indira pregnancy.She is the one who took promise frm shweta for her relationship with Rishi.Rishi always lectured abt being good husband.Is he a good husband to his present wife.He need not love her but he can give her respect.He always asks her to shut her mouth.This shows how cultured he is.

rishi was never ready to marry her, till last moments even he wasnt ready, it was indira who forced him dat she will take treatment if he marries shweta, and yes shweta being doctor if hides such truth then she isnt a doctor, such doctors are murderers dear because if within time shweta would have told d reality den it wouldnt have been so late.

Does Rishi care for all this.Does he cares to listen shweta's version.?Does such a man who dnt value another person feelings and ignored his responsibility deserve sympathy or good wishes from others to move on with another married woman?

May be fans love for rishi is mking them accept all his faults.But I am fed up of how Rishi is today.In the past he was a perfect husband .He was like an inspiration.But not any more to me.

no dear, in past too he was under interrogation and even today too, inspite of all his goodness people never bother to see the true sides, may be other things are so dominant that we have closed our hearts to see a good side of him. i was not a born fan dear, i was d fan of d ones who is in ur DP, but wid time i have moved on, i cant compare any two, both are best at der place.

I am sorry .Not to hurt anyone's feelings here.I dnt have anything against Rishi.I balme cv's for their poor content in the show and butchering Rishi character like this.

rishi isnt butchered neither zara.

sorry if i hurt u 😊 i must say this

Originally posted by: karthik80

pari wonderful post..👏

this is much needed in this forum..

i cant understand , why people blaming rishi for shweta life... hadn't they saw the show from the begining of her entry.. if they saw, then how can rishi will be at fault for shweta decisions.. if rishi-indira used her, then shweta is the one who stood in the middle of inshi life and shouted out to use her which is also to benifit her own selfish reasons.. still its inshi/rishi's fault..

but its the mere fact of this forum, that wat ever happens, rishi is the only one to be blamed..

very pathetic..

Originally posted by: preethimadhavg

few blunders Rishi done are to ignore Indu from start though knowing it is the symbol of his love, to stop shweta when DNA report is proved wrong which makes everyone to doubt his intensions about shweta
and allowing shweta to do KC and caring her thinking Zara

Originally posted by: karthik80

Rishi ingnoring indu- i can agree with u to some extent.. but rishi's reason for doing so, is also a valid one.. but still he must have shown his love for her ..

Stoping sweta- he dint begged her to stay there for him or indu.. he read sweta letter of leaving SN because of indira's return.. he just said its not needed now as report is negative.. rishi never asked sweta to stay to take care of them.. its sweta who willingly stayed back in SN for her love(indu and rishi)..

KC- first of all, in wat matter sweta listened to rishi words..

1. from the beginning rishi keep on saying indira is his only love.. did sweta accepted that?

2.rishi clearly stated to not have any expectations from him regarding their relationship.. did sweta listened to it?

3. or did any scene shown where rishi asked her to do KC for him..

the mistake he done here is,when shweta wanted and started KC preparations, he must not came there to break her fast.. but for me, its just looked like he still care for her as a frnd.. not to take any benefit of her fasting for his long life..

Originally posted by: Pari117

hey gayu 🤗

u are here 😳

love to see u back sis

btw its d story of forum from d 1st day sis 🥱 initially only rishiz character was blamed but now see they are comin to bash sumit, MIDs 😆

Originally posted by: adinats07

As usual a very nice post Pari👏

for me it depends on individual to individual .. even if person 4gets or tries to move on his or her life.. thats fine.. atlast life is about wanting happiness...

but if we are not able to move on, like rishi...then what.. bec heart is something which always does what we feel. We have no control on it. Many say please think from brain... yes we do that.. but still there r some relations which we cant be handled by brains... For him it is his 1st and last love and that he cant give it any1.

God tried a lot to change him.. but alas he too failed in his attempt.. he had no other choice then to send his love back may be in Zara form or she can be Indira also...

and the one thing which i dont like is emotional blackmail of remarriage..or giving our ideas foreceably to some1... like Indira using her treatment for remarriage of Rishi or even in real life people forcing some1 and then the same person is blamed for that.

One think is 100% sure and i agree and i respect him for his decision.. God knows what the HD team will do further with this character. But Rishi is one of the most unique character and Sumit as rishi has given 100% justification. Yes HD team has destroyed his character by maintaining inconistency from the day1.. but i salute Sumit more than rishi for his acting who has maintained his consistency for a most inconsistency character named Rishi in HD.

Sorry Pari to hear abt your loss 😔 and May god give all the strength whenever u think abt that person it brings a smile on ur face.