For All HDians--Must Read...!!!(Part- 3)

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey friends here is my another posts..!!
Always these series of my posts are meant for the betterment and improvement of the forum so here i am posting my views on the current situation of the forum..!!!

I knw many posts and threads are being made which are i belive not only indirect but also direct bashing of the stars...!!!

I just wanna ask why are these posts made???what is the need of such posts????
is it any yse of making such posts/threads??? are anyone benefited with those???
why hurting the sentiments and feelings of fellow members???? why no respect towards each other???
why the actors coming in the pictre when the discussion on characters going on????
These actors work day and night and put on ther all efforts to bring up the character on the show which many enjoy so will it not hurt when we see such posts and comments on them..
Character can be right or wrong at times based on the script on which they perform..!!!
So i believe actors are no need to be blamed here and make fun of..!!!

If you don like an actor i don think anyone is even asking to like that, so the likeness or hatness to the actor is ones personal choice and no one ask nor wanna change the views..!!
But is it necessary that again and again making the same post and comments showing your hateness to the actor..i mean it is known that you hate a particular actor or character but why saying same thing 'n' no.of numbers.. do you really think it is fare atleast for the one who admires the same??
Anything getting by making such negative cum bashiing posts??? i mean is it fair coming and taking out all your hatred and making such posts on a public forum???!
obviously its of no use creating unncessary comments and negativity in the forum..!!

And to those you comment on the negative posts would like to ask, is it necssary commenting on that post?? we have many posts threads open and can post anything anywhere then why encouraging the the negative threads????
i man commenting on the negative itself would be encoraging and making the worst out of it..!!

I agree and believe making your point is no where wrong, everyone has the rights to express your feelings but when you knw that the intention of the person is nothing but to create trouble or hatred in the forum it is always better to avoid and ignore..!!!
Its like you post one i'l do 2 and thus it will go on and on..!!

when you the its against the rules of the forum and no bashing and mocking is allowed, then obviously the thread will gonna get close and even WL for the particular member.. so when mods are ther to take of it so why getting into it and spoiling our mood and words.. Things things ofcourse wont matter, koi bhi kuch bhi kahe it should never effect us... some have habit of spreading and negativity so always better ignore no need to react... !!
a person may post once twiceor thrice but when if no reaction is given that person itslef may quit and stop bashing so why should we entertain such posts???

And if making comments saying that since the thread itself is such so the comments can be the same, so i guess i am unaware of this policy as i always believe make or spread positivity.. Even if it is a negative post and will always believe in doing the same...!!!

I hope we can start with a new begining and avoid as much negativity as possible and this forum a peaceful place...!!

Thanks for all reading this post...!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post...I completely agree with u...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Shona first of all 🤗 positive posts r very much needed!!!
Completely agree with u Shona!!!
Has I hav mentioned before both d actors r special in thier own way...both just ausum!!!
I agree dat everybody cannot tink alike , if it had to b so den god would hav just sent Xerox copies to earth y make each one special in thier own way?
V all cannot hav d same pov but v can respect each others pov!!!
d actors r doing a great job..putting every effort..working extremely hard...n Dey should receive all d appreciation for dat fact!!!
Wether u like dem or not is nly secondary...Wen u don't like Sumone does not mean hurt dem or criticize!!!

One Ting dat v all should alwaz remember is dat v all r humanbeings n hav feelings...so try to understand wat d other person is going trough...put ur self in thier position n try to feel wat Dey r feeling!!!

It is very easy to hurt but u will never b happy by doing so...instead y not spread joy u will definitely find peace!!!
Try to tink positive n everyting will go positively!!!
Edited by shiin - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very well said dear 👏 I dont need to elaborate much but i will definately say few words.


The very first thing which i would like to add is that suppose we make something, like a project or any art work, and if our work is mocked how would we feel?? definately hurt, not because of the words but because we spent a part of ourselves to make something and when it doesnt gets little appreciation our heart is broken.

Now see from the point of view of actors, They give a proper part of their life over acting & in return if such things are written for them, how and what will they feel?
whether Rati or Sumit both have sometimes or somewhere started from zero and reached to the heights, both has a very large number of fan following. And both are playing their part very well. And its true the actors have both lovers as well as haters. But whats the need to say such things which hurt the sentiments of others???

Comparing any actor with such things which cant be mentioned even, is it a gud act?

Not only the post maker but the one who comments or votes or even likes are equally needed to think from their side, by favouring such things.. aren't we supporting them? None of us had ever favoured wrong acts in our day to day life, then why on Public Sites like IF we do such things?
Just because noone knows us here?
This is a very lame excuse if i think from my side, sorry to say.

i always say we are the makers of forthcoming days.
Our acts of today will define the acts of tomorrow.

Lets be the Example, So that we are remembered.
i know this message will be taken with a positive note
Hope i didnt hurt anyone.
Edited by pari117 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very nice post shona👏
🤗 for this 😳

agree everyone is different, but we have to respect others feelings, if not at least don't hurt others... i'm on it or not it's hurt to see fighting, using bad words against each other or against actors.

what we get to hurt other? nothing opposite lost many active members... this wont help to bring our show on top ...

we need both actors .. without them our show cant be reach here... (this is the fact, hope everyone know it)
both r doing well their roles, on their best way 👏

i'm sorry if i hurt anyone with my post ...

Edited by InshiBlossom - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think it's quite sad that this happens! I dont understand why some have to resort to such things, like creating mids to bash!

Not only is that an awful thing to do, but frankly I don't understand what petty joy someone can get out of doing this. To drop that low.

Of course no one is forcing you to love someone, but to portray dislike as hate, in such a disgraceful manner is beyond wrong!

You don't have to like anyone, but bashing a celeb or anyone in general, is not ok! Theres a difference between constructive criticism & straight out hate/cyber bullying!

And besides, people need to learn by now, that acting is an art & like all of the arts, it is perceived & interpreted differently by everyone!!

And the same goes with looks. Looks are completely opinionated, obviously it is quite apparent that everyone had different opinions concerning what constitutes good looks & everyone thinks differently about who is good looking according to them!


love the post snehu!! 🤗
it was great, & really needed! :)
Edited by -RaSu- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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just have to write as i was very upset today after reading many polls and topics that were created recently and were eventualy closed by moderators...all the HD actors are very cordial with each other and very respectful to each other as seen from their interviews and all of them work very hard for HD...IF is a forum to appreciate them, like them and the characters they portray...if someone has any points they feel that the character/actor can improve on , then they are always free to leave positive suggesstions, areas of improvements at Zee website feedback section...
using unparliamentary language against actors whom we do not know in person and have no idea about how they are in person is absolutely not done...
it not only hurts their fans but also leaves a very bad taste in the mouth of all the silent readers who come to this forum to read the creative, appreciate posts, know more about HD and their favourite actors here...
Edited by kaya123 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i unreserved my reply
once again i will say awesome post shona 🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey thanks for the much needed post. very good thoughts. We should always appreciate stars as they put in their heart n soul to entertain us in the best way they can. if we cannot appreciate someone we dont have the right to criticize them either. once again a wonderful post shona👍🏼🤗
Edited by synic - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very nice poat shona
i totally agree with u.

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