slapping kid on his bday-not justified. - Page 2

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Originally posted by: shona90

No slapping a kid on his birthday is not justified...!!!

But here we need to think it in a different manner.. No i am not saying Indira did right by slapping Ishaan but would like to analyse the situation in which it happened... Indira was emotionally and mentally disturbed... the person she hates the most, the person responsible for her father's re-marriage, the person who snatched her childhood, the person because of whom she grew responsible before time, the person because of whom she became Hitler Didi ---has been in front of her and seeing everyone wooing over her its natural she was disturbed and hurt.. Specially Ishaan who is more like a child to him fails to listen/understand her Bua has really hurted her..!!

Ishaan on his side is correct after all he is a kid and every kid loves getting gifts specially the one what he really wanted.. SO when when Indira asked to return him the gift he din want to and hence out of frustration she reacted that way. ,, Indira tried telling Ishaan firstly in a polite way to return when he did not even raised her voice..But still he was not keen she raised her hand that was only in the moment of anger and frustration... But she realized that soon and said sorry immediately but Ishaan was then veryy hurt..

There has always been a beautiful bond between Ishaan and Indira and i really hope it will not get ruin... Ishaan would surely understand his Bua once he gets to knw how his Bua dadi actually is...!!

Originally posted by: shona90

No slapping a kid on his birthday is not justified...!!!

But here we need to think it in a different manner.. No i am not saying Indira did right by slapping Ishaan but would like to analyse the situation in which it happened... Indira was emotionally and mentally disturbed... the person she hates the most, the person responsible for her father's re-marriage, the person who snatched her childhood, the person because of whom she grew responsible before time, the person because of whom she became Hitler Didi ---has been in front of her and seeing everyone wooing over her its natural she was disturbed and hurt.. Specially Ishaan who is more like a child to him fails to listen/understand her Bua has really hurted her..!!

Ishaan on his side is correct after all he is a kid and every kid loves getting gifts specially the one what he really wanted.. SO when when Indira asked to return him the gift he din want to and hence out of frustration she reacted that way. ,, Indira tried telling Ishaan firstly in a polite way to return when he did not even raised her voice..But still he was not keen she raised her hand that was only in the moment of anger and frustration... But she realized that soon and said sorry immediately but Ishaan was then veryy hurt..

There has always been a beautiful bond between Ishaan and Indira and i really hope it will not get ruin... Ishaan would surely understand his Bua once he gets to knw how his Bua dadi actually is...!!

👏agreed fully! awesome understanding,aptly written!

Originally posted by: indianfighter

Exactly! You echoed my thoughts Shona👏...I have nothing to add. People here need to start thinking from both POVs like you. They are so narrow-minded that they cannot think of any reasons why Indira behaved/reacted as she did, or why Ishaan kept insisting.

Indira was obviously not right in Hitting Ishaan. What people are trying to explain is, that she had some emotional issues which made her react that way. It is not right but forgive able...

Originally posted by: -Ace-

That is quite a condescending statement to make about other members, it was quite unexpected from you Sandeep!

There is not justification for physical violence be it towards younger or older people. It is extreme way to show your frustration towards others. A matured person knows how to handle herself during this type of situation, she knows how to use self control and let thing go.This kind of actions actually put a question mark on her mental growth !

Btw: what's the problem of taking gift a kid?By relationship, that bua is his grandmother , so he has every right to take gift from her and she has every right to give to him .

not only this slap --many other slaps also shown in HD by cvs just to show indira as hitler.

many slaps in this serial not warranted at all.

i can give numerous examples about unwarranted slaps in this serial.

cvs need to be more careful in this aspect in future.
other wise serial will called slap didi instead hitler didi in future.

I always thought Indu's slap was some kind of Slap of Justice! But the cvs have made this into a wanton habit. Birthday or no birthday Indira could have kept her anger in check specially knowing why a kid becomes jiddi when his favorite birthday toy is asked to be returned back to the person who gave it in the first place! Any kid would become upset and rowdy. Ishaan does not fully understand why Indu is biased towards his dadi bua. I hope it does not result in the Indu Ishaan bond going for a toss! Indu did realize she was wrong almost immediately after slapping him which broke her stream of frustration but this is all the besharmas needed against Indu to mold impressionable Ishaan in their own besharam ways!

Originally posted by: indianfighter

Exactly! You echoed my thoughts Shona👏...I have nothing to add. People here need to start thinking from both POVs like you. They are so narrow-minded that they cannot think of any reasons why Indira behaved/reacted as she did, or why Ishaan kept insisting.