Is it always going to be like this?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Is Indira always going to need someone else to tell her Rishi is a good man who loves her? is she always going to weigh him by his actions- good actions=love, bad actions= throw him away?

Why is Rishi always having to prove his love to her? I get it the first time, the second time.. by this time, shouldnt she atleast try and understand him?

I am not defending Rishi's actions- he was wrong in drinking and driving, but many of his other actions like taking care of Vidith, and helping her, have proved that, above all else, his love for her is pure.

what is it going to take Indira, to understand that? and how is that she let sameer talk to her- after he put the hidden camera in her room?

Again, I suppose, Vidith is going to get well and tell Indira what a loving man he is.. or another eloborate sequence to show how much Rishi loves her and then Indira accepts him again!!

I feel as if, Indira as hurt as she is, as selfless as she is, doesnt treat rishi well. she doesnt give him half the leeway and benefit of the doubt as much as she gives her family- the very people, who hurt her!

If Indira's love is conditional on rishi never making mistakes- thats not true love is it? or Is it always going to be like this?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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hd ko chalana hai though aisa hi hoga--
milenge-beechadenge-phir milenge-phir beechadenge--cycle goes on.

yehi sequence kitne baar dekhenge??
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rishi should go to Natasha & marry her.

She is already shown very rich & also loves rishi to the core of her heart.

She will make his life heaven.

Let Indira remain with that psycho Sammer. (Actually she deserves him only 😡😡)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tiya, valid points :)

My thoughts pretty much mirror what you have written. Indeed what Rishi had done was wrong and should be punished for it. But I do feel that he has been punished enough and to a great extent has redeemed himself with the manner in which he took care of Vidith, he's thoughtful about the family and their problems... and above all, the way he has supported Indu every step of the way.

Even I feel as though Rishi's love for Indu is much stronger and far deeper than what she feels for him. Despite everything they have been through, she was ready to see him beaten and thrown out of the house, without giving him a chance to speak. That's something which I don't understand. If she truly loves him, should he not be given an opportunity to put forward his account?

Yes Indu is a strong girl, selfless and she has been hurt. It must have been a shock for her to see her brother in this condition. But again she listened to others and will probably give Rishi a chance once someone else puts in a good word- perhaps someone like Vidith. And it was mind boggling to see Sameer there, to whom she spoke with casually...despite his antics.

Oh well. I guess it's always going to be like this! 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: RafAholic

Tiya, valid points :)

My thoughts pretty much mirror what you have written. Indeed what Rishi had done was wrong and should be punished for it. But I do feel that he has been punished enough and to a great extent has redeemed himself with the manner in which he took care of Vidith, he's thoughtful about the family and their problems... and above all, the way he has supported Indu every step of the way.

Even I feel as though Rishi's love for Indu is much stronger and far deeper than what she feels for him. Despite everything they have been through, she was ready to see him beaten and thrown out of the house, without giving him a chance to speak. That's something which I don't understand. If she truly loves him, should he not be given an opportunity to put forward his account?

Yes Indu is a strong girl, selfless and she has been hurt. It must have been a shock for her to see her brother in this condition. But again she listened to others and will probably give Rishi a chance once someone else puts in a good word- perhaps someone like Vidith. And it was mind boggling to see Sameer there, to whom she spoke with casually...despite his antics.

Oh well. I guess it's always going to be like this! 😆


thats my problem as well... why is that she didnt understand his silence? why didnt she go after him, asking him for an answer or at the very least make an effort to show that she is with him in spirit??? it was all too disappointing from Indira- who should know the value of unconditional support.

and like you said, she has witnessed rishi's devotion for her- he left everything for her and was ready to become, ( in the most basal sense) a "ghar jamai" ie staying in Indira's house... but time and again, she needs proof that his love is real, his intentions arent dubious. and she feels that way because in some sense she is insecure that hell leave her, just like her father... but that solely is her problem, na?? why put rishi through these tests?

I feel and understand Indira's pain and her problems and her personal battle- but one should always understand love,and learn to hold on to it...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tell me something what will u do when u find ur would be husband has came to ur house as a tennant , fallen in love n getting married n suddenly u get to know ur brother who is parlaysed n made him handicapped by him due to drink drive accident n hidden that truth n ready for marriege , will u marry that person n forgive him?

If ur answer is yes then u r the Mahan Girl on this earth. But sadly Indira is not Mahan Girl , she did forgive rishi at many occasions such are bringing fake parents who insulted her badly, Internet profile changing n ruining her reputation , helping mandira to elope to Macau , pregnancy comment n insulting her again infront of family n outsider ,putting allegation on her for stealing her electronic gazzet etc etc etc etc etc , Inspite of that she accepted him in het life happily n started trusting, she fought with whole family n ready to marry because she was in love with him but where was she wrong , girls who look security in thier life but she accepted him inspite os knowing he is jobless, homeless n penniless , she supported him when Rishi own mother was insulting him but what did she get from him " dishonest n big lie " :( I just feel wierd people never think about Indira Pain but I m glad Indira got to know about vidit reality before marrige , things will change in her life hopefully n sadly she will never ever trust anyone thanks to RK Deewan
Edited by Ritu.V - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rishi has hidden biggest truth about Vidit mystry n his medical condition from indira n that is the biggest crime has done by him n people r expecting indira to forgive that person really ? , thank god Vidit is alive but sadly he is paralysed now , how will people react n behave when they see their mother, father , brother, sister , children , relative , friends will be found in that situtaion ?? Think about that apne aap answer mil jayega :( will they think about their love first or family ?I will choose my family for sure because I m connected to them first than love , may be I m selfish n I feel proud when I see girl like indira do the same , hiding n dishonesty is biggest crime but this incident will change both indira rishi, hope rishi learn to honest n respobsible the future n Indira learn not to believe anyone n taking hasty decision without knowing the person completly but will it happen ? God Knows
Edited by Ritu.V - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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finally the story is completely not moving the wheel is moving forward then again backward there's no direction really where to go.
Mean the story has no progress at all,as in another show.
Indira wanted a man who can feed her family including Munna her young brother and his family obviously in her love there's some conditions included.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ritu.V

Tell me something what will u do when u find ur would be husband has came to ur house as a tennant , fallen in love n getting married n suddenly u get to know ur brother who is parlaysed n made him handicapped by him due to drink drive accident n hidden that truth n ready for marriege , will u marry that person n forgive him?

If ur answer is yes then u r the Mahan Girl on this earth. But sadly Indira is not Mahan Girl , she did forgive rishi at many occasions such are bringing fake parents who insulted her badly, Internet profile changing n ruining her reputation , helping mandira to elope to Macau , pregnancy comment n insulting her again infront of family n outsider ,putting allegation on her for stealing her electronic gazzet etc etc etc etc etc , Inspite of that she accepted him in het life happily n started trusting, she fought with whole family n ready to marry because she was in love with him but where was she wrong , girls who look security in thier life but she accepted him inspite os knowing he is jobless, homeless n penniless , she supported him when Rishi own mother was insulting him but what did she get from him " dishonest n big lie " :( I just feel wierd people never think about Indira Pain but I m glad Indira got to know about vidit reality before marrige , things will change in her life hopefully n sadly she will never ever trust anyone thanks to RK Deewan


okay, first of all, this isnt about me, but its about indira.. so dont drag me or give me that crap! lets all remember this is a show and a work of fiction😊

coming to the show, i have already said, rishi isnt blamless and have said he is at fault. but i do feel, that despite that he has proven his love for indira.. so just on that note, he should be given a chance, actually more than a chance to at the very least explain himself.. to HER in PRIVATE.. which he wasnt granted.

plus, Vidith is ALIVE and is making a steady process. in all this tamasha, we have forgotten that the sick person needs attention and that, YES rishi has helped a LOT..

while i think its WRONG and a CRIME to hit and run after drinking and driving, what rishi was about to do, is common. i.e any young person's first instinct is to RUN.
but i think, the bigger point to be taken away is that HE stayed, hearing Indira's voice, which lead to the slow but sure betterment of vidith.

I do understand her pain, her anger- seeing someone who you love so much being hurt by another loved one isnt easy... it wil take time...

but that said, she hasnt given rishi a chance.. a chance she gave others around her. its a chance to make things right, to undo the wrong and explain himself- thats more important to me anyways!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Haha this is fictional character that is why talk crap good going :) best of luck

given chance to rishi , what an excuse , anyways no point talking here :)
Edited by Ritu.V - 13 years ago

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