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Zahra123

@Zahra123

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

silent reader here as well.

this is what is happening with nikhil, (my POV)

as we all know he is confused, he wants to get laajo out of his head but poor soul cant do that, so he gets frustrated and vents his anger on everyone and then he goes to ishaana and romances her and what not. actually he is using ishaana as his "comfort zone". at the moment ishaana is his "comfort zone" as they have been together for long and he keeps reminding himself that he loves ishaana. but little does he know ...love needs no reminding it just pops up in ur head like laajo does.

so basically him romancing ishaana is nothing but him reminding himself that he loves ishaana and laajo mean nothing to him. so i think they are portraying it perfectly well. and yh i agree pace is very slow.

P. S. if you quit the show you will miss the transition of ishaanas nikhil to laajos nikhil. The transition will be interesting to watch.😆 poor nikhil, grow up soon buddy.

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@sami01

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

loved each and every view and I also agree that now when show is in transition we should sit tight and hold on to see Nikhil's journey of finding his ultimate path...

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Avie

@avyarima

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

But i really love this circle. Its totally realistic to me.
Like any normal person in his situation, Nikhil is fighting between his heart and his head.
And moreover, we are not just stuck on Nikhil's scenes. we have Laado carring the show forward...going to school and trying to keep her cool from running back to her confused husband. she is trying to find happiness in little things.
As for Nikhil I love to see his this confused, because this shows that he is not falling in love with Laado because she left him, but because he cant help it. His heart has already left for her without even informing him.

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@sami01

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: avyarima
But i really love this circle. Its totally realistic to me.
Like any normal person in his situation, Nikhil is fighting between his heart and his head.
And moreover, we are not just stuck on Nikhil's scenes. we have Laado carring the show forward...going to school and trying to keep her cool from running back to her confused husband. she is trying to find happiness in little things.
As for Nikhil I love to see his this confused, because this shows that he is not falling in love with Laado because she left him, but because he cant help it. His heart has already left for her without even informing him.

very nicely written, am happy to see these views here, Nikhil is behaving like a normal human being and not a strong male hero...he will emerge as stronger self though through this journey. And so right Nikhil will fall for Laajo as he simply cannot help it...

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Aginaya69

@Aginaya69

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: suwas
For me Nikhil's reaction is very realistic.In fact I like the fact that nikhil is trying to stay the he was with Ishaana all these years...hanging out with her, romancing her.It just that now its become an effort on his part as he is not in love with her any more. But he doesn't know that yet so he is trying to do what is logical, what is expected. Thats what he is doing for so many years & now he is almost making it official. He doesn't understand why is it so hard now, why he is so distracted, why does he keep thinking about Laajo when he is sure he doesn't have any feelings for her other than compassion?
I don't see his getting upset with Laajo moving on as his hurt ego. I think he is missing her badly & he is upset at the fact that both of them are supposed to move on. He is upset that Laajo is away & sees her studying as sign of her being cut off from his life.

I am loving the way the cvs are handling the situation. Even Ishaana & Nikhil spending time together goes with the story at present. Ishaana is his fiance'.They have shown the change in Nikhil just through his expressions & his minor actions.

Just like Gunja said today his apparent hate or anger for Laajo is not really that. Its him trying to cover his subconscious feeling.

very, very well said.

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Swapna

@ziks

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

very good post . I totally agree with ur views .

This how is mainly Laajo's story a village girl's story . Let nikhil go to hell

with his confused (as every one saying i dont beleive ) brain and heart .

See for laajo yaar how she faces her problems how she moves on in life ?

How she acheives her targets ?

Even though many of them saying that he is confused ,poor soul , realistic , fighting

between heart and mind . He and his feelings are far far away from that in my opinion .

Initially i beleived he is confused . But when the scenes repeated 100 times i was

This guy 's feelings or emotions were never realistic , he is not a poor soul

such a selfish soul he appears he is he wants his girl friend and he cant see his

wife to move on .

You are so right since the begining he is like this .

Initially he is ok he is clear in his mind and heart which were filled with Ishaana .

But after Laajo gone he was like

I love u ishaana only u I never ever leave u

I feel iam missing laajo to some extent why am i missing?

Next i love u Ishaana. Iam sorry. Love u only .see what gifts i brought for u

This cycle repeated 100 times after that SOnbarsa epidemic incident

Then he felt that he will die if he dont see laajo and runs like his life is with her

He cant live with out her . Then he was like if she dies he will die . SO intense

emotions . I actually fell for him during that track .

Then again after sonbarsa he once he cried thinking about laajo

and next day he was in Ishaama's lap drinking coke and pizza party

Completly parties , romancing what not everything always love u ishaana lov eu

only never leave u . Gifts to her daily . Sheer torture for us .

He was so haapy and same time hesitating to sign on divorce papers thinking

about her.Just one shallow comment from his girl friend he immediately signs .

Then after signing If any person badmouths laajo he starts to shout at them .

Starts to defend laajo before ishaana . He feel like laajo left him and laajo giving

divorce to him . For making her happy he signed on divorce not viceversa .

Next he comes to know laajo loves him he immediately leaves ishaana and

goes to his room .

Thinks about laajo deeply, next day morning he goes to ishaana hugs her kisses her

gifts her party dance everything

Next day he was like why laajo left me when she loved me ? why she is not saying

anything to me? DId she really loved me ?

Immediate scene jumping , hugging , dancing , joking , shying what not with his

family.

next scene shouting at everyone , he feels like he misses her lot lot

next scene he agrees to engagement enjoys thoroughly

next scene he goes to his room and keeps thinking about laajo and gets angry

He is sad about laajo and immediately he romances ishaana .

In one scene laajo was everything to him and in next scene laajo is nothing .

Is this crazy behaviour realistic ? practical i dont think so . He is a two timer

he just wants both girls in his life for different purposes .

He doesn't want to lose his husbandly rights on laajo . He does nt want to let laajo

free at the same time he dont want to leave ishaana at any cost as if his life lies

within her but he wants laajo he dont want to lose her sametime he wants more

ishaana and he wants laajo also yaar

He is a two timer wanting both girls in his life for different purposes .

He claims to be confusing under that cover he wants to hide his cheap

selfish thoughts .

Nothing like war between heart and mind confusing

poor soul . He is very clever , intelligent man who wants both

girls in his life until now until this stage .

May be he will change later . But iam hell frustrated with his character . His charecter

never appears realistic it disgusts me . No good sane person will behave like him.

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@sami01

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

swapna haha..that is good one...but human heart can be confused..kya karein...bus wait and don't give up on Nikhil yet...

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Swapna

@ziks

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: sami01
swapna haha..that is good one...but human heart can be confused..kya karein...bus wait and don't give up on Nikhil yet...

But Di i know i have to wait . But he is so frustrating i feel If confusion sees him and

meet him confusion feeling will be confused like hell and leave away permanently

from human life i think 😆 🤣🤣

Then humans ever ever will be confused how nice ? Thank u Nikhil ji

u r going to do it sure u can .