Originally posted by: sami01
Laajo and her plight, her self less love for Nikhil have been topic of discussion in this forum for a very long time. We have all felt Laajo's pain and related to her devotion towards Nikhil and his happiness and well being.
AAA i have to reply for this . I could n't stop myself .
Yes Di the reason why iam seeing the show . Selfless love of laajo not because
of irritating cheap nikhil and ishaaana chemistry whatever or the funny side
characters . No other character can come even close to laajo 's . Its her
story i feel .
We all are bit upset at Nikhil for being insensitive or we are sad that makers made Nikhil find out about laajo's love too soon or too early in the story.
Not bit di so much upset for nikhil being such a jerk and so much frustrated
with makers that they did n't made nikhil realise his love before laajo's revelation .
Here is my 2 cents:
this story is not about 2 people who had aankhon hi aankhon mein ishaaara and then dil hua tumhaara type of story. Laajo was not attracted to Nikhil in the beginning and neither was he. She was sad about her marriage at that time but it was more because she felt she wanted to study and had aspirations to be something much more in life. They were not because she was pinning for a better guy.
Agree its not normal story it is one side love story until now .
Begining laajo was not attracted to him and she was sad about marriage
then and also now . Nothing to feel happy about this marriage then
and also now .
Fate put her through this marriage and even at that time she expressed her doubts to her mother who in turn reassured her by those words CVs love to remind us again and again--- Hamar babuaji man ke bahut hi ache hain--kabhi bhi tum ko beech araaste mein chod ke nahi jaayenge.."
And her mothers words failed . He left her on the middle way right ?
how we all knows the fiasco how he behaved and talked treated laajo
so cruelly thrown her literally by his verbal abuse before laajo left previous
day and now he is ready to engagement. He broken her family 's trust . 😭
everything Nikhil did on her own was for Laajo.at every point of his life he chose Laajo over Ishaana ,even how much unconsciously it was done, it did happen. We can remember many instances like when Laajo got lost or even bringing her back to his house, supporting her, taking care of her small needs.
I always hell bent on proving my point as how u always support nikhil
and his deeds and always tries to see his good qualities even though he
dont have any . partcularly i mean iam talking with respect to laajo not in
general . In general he is a good guy i agree . 😉
He did n't choose laajo over ishaana he chose ishaana over laajo always .
If u feel he chose laajo over ishaana by two or three situations i will say or
prove he chose ishaana always over laajo by giving hundreads of examples.
And coming to taking care of her small needs we will take care of even our
dog's needs also .
Because right from the begining and now also he is doing all for ishaana
and he chose always ishaana over laajo . In short his day starts with
ishaana and ends with ishaana . As simple as that and disgusting .
He has seen laajo as doormat like a servant in his house . I remember
hundreads of scenes how he treated her, neglected her , insulted her even
before ishaana from the begining .
Birthday party literally he left her , he chosen ishaana and left her while
cake cutting . shirt scene , party scene where he went with ishaana leaving
laajo behind , how he shouts at her for throwing ishaana's things ,
flirting with ishaana , giving always importance to her , running away from
laajo many times to meet her , crying about her in laajo's lap, beleiving all her
lies not laajo's , blaming laajo that she destroyed his life , literally shouting
at her to get out of his life , yeah all these surely says he had feelings
for laajo and he preferred laajo everytime .
we have to think he chose laajo over ishaana after seeing all those?
Every every scene he starts to talk with laajo then ,if ishaana call or comes
in person or even in his thoughts, he left laajo and went with ishaana ,always
i say always without even feeling ounce of shame .
And his big worst mistake that i never able to forgive him so cruelly he
made lajo to leave on her own by torturing her mentally with his shameless
acts he had left no choice for her always pining for his ishaana .
He chosen laajo over ishaana when ? In his dreams ? not not even in dreams
i guess may be in our dreams because iam sure in his dreams also
ishaana's face he has seen . 😡
He has chosen ishaana in his life in every step until now over laajo .
Result laajo is in her house and he is now going to engage with ishaana .
So whom he chose ishaana or laajo ? 👎🏼
Really i feel like my blood pressure raises s when anyone says he chose
laajo over ishaana from the begining. Because clearly he chosen opposite.
All that lead to a general buildup of hero worship in Laajo and finally when he shouted in front of his family that Laajo is my wife and whatever she says is truth --it affected Lajo big time and that was what pushed her to love Nikhil>
Love is blind foolish i can say because, there is nothing great to feel about him
and to fell in love with him. we have seen how he treated her before
that scene and after that scene .
It was not a sudden fantasy, and that is why this love ahs so much depth because it came in her heart after seeing Nikhil's goodness as human being, Later on she witnessed his constant effort to make her feel at ease and she started reciprocating it and feelings in her heart deepened.
He never made any efforts to make her ease i never seen . She herself felt at eas
e because she is so friendly she can mix with people so easily . Just because one or two times he wellbehaved with her that is not so great . We can actually
count him beahving well with laajo on fingers whereas uncountable times
he was an insensitive jerk with laajo . 😒
So what I am trying to say is that all of us who are mad at makers for letting Nikhil know about Laajo's love have to remember that this is not love at first sight between 2 people.
Laajo was pushed to love Nikhil for his goodness and what he did for her and feelings she got in her heart as a result were not infatuation or fluke but genuine and ever lasting and strong.
Yes laajo's love was not at all like nikhil's ishaana's pukeworthy love.
Love is blind . At any time with any person however that person is irrespective
of his shortcomings one will fall . Love never sees good and bad . Love does n't happen after seeing and analysing any person . 😳
Pyar bas ho jatha hai kaha kaise kyun patha nachi chaltha .
There wont be any reasons for love .😊
Thats what happened with laajo he is neither worthy of laajo or for
her selfless love . I feel He does n't deserve that kind of love .👎🏼
They made Laajo strong eventually. Yes she went through a path of ups and downs but she emerged as a strong person in end.
Yeah i agree laajo became strong person . she Became bitter all thanks to
MR. Bharadwaj and his family . Literally they eaten away all laajo's
innocence , bubbly nature . Because now the laajo we are seeing is
internally bleeding thanks to hero again for making laajo
strong. credit goes to nikhil and his family and their insults ,
oh ishaana also did her best in making laajo bitter strong emotionless ,
detatched . Kudos to all 😡
So friends Nikhil also needed that direction. He had to know about what Laajo did for him and how much she sacrificed for him to push his heart towards accepting what is inevitable from beginning. His journey of ups and downs will bring him to a deeper realization of his love for Laajo and make him a stronger person in the end.
Definetely he has to become strong why not ? If he has the ability to make laajo
strong person then he should also become strong . Just the way laajo has become with insults, insecurities feeling unwanted always in so many ways .😉
Destiny has brought these 2 together because they r two people who bring out best in other. All Nikhil needs is a self discovery and he needed this knowledge about Laajo's heart and feelings to
do so.
Huh destiny i agree . when he comes to laajo i dont want laajo to accept him
immediately . He should suffer so much he should cry for her he should feel
insecure for her he should know waht a gem she is , he should literally die for her
then only laajo has to accept him . But this wont happen i know
she will readily run into him . 😔
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