Nikhil's state of mind......what is he thinking? - Page 3

Originally posted by: janiya2010

Yesterday was the midblowing episode ...First of all yesterday we all were spared from ishana's scene where she always keep's nikhil reminding that "we love each other" now that has become slogan for her😆.Coming to nikhil yesterday he just said to give the address in fit of rage he was upset when he remembered how lajjo ignored him and didn't even gave a importance to him while leaving the house by not telling him.So according to him he is just pacifying his heart by saying she want's to leave you but somewhere he know's that this is not true😳.So i think now day by day he is getting the clear picture of lajjo stand in his life.I am just waiting for the moment when he will leave to sonbarsa for lajjo and then after some days he will give a deep thought why have he done this .And that will be his final twist in his life where he will not be confused and accept our lajjo.😊

Originally posted by: varshitap

I agree with Sami, I am totally confused with the way the character of Nikhil is shown in the show.Why did he ask Laajo's address when he was not aware why his mom was looking for it?! When he came to know about it from Chaya , he was asking her to give it to his mom so that she could post the divorce papers. What is happening?!!!😲. He remembers Laajo, he is angry that she left him without informing, he unwittingly speaks about her in front of Ishana, he is angry with Gunjan as she reminds him of Laajo by wearing the anklets, this all shows that his mind is full of Laajo's thoughts and yet he asks Chaya to give the address to his mom so that he can be free from her!!! Does'nt he realize that he was the one who told Laajo that she has made his life miserable when Ishana was going to get engaged to Kunal? What does he expect Laajo to do?!! be lying there as an unwanted commodity?!! Now he is angry with her as she left him without informing!!! pathetic😡. After that he knows how divorce may affect Laajo and her family and still he values his habit Ishana over everything else though he doesn't seem happy to be with her either!! This is really grueling .

Yesterday I could not see Laajo suffering so much on emotional as well as physical front , I had tears in my eyes but the only consolation was Laajo's parents. I am inspired by them, though illiterate and coming from a conservative society, they have supported Laajo 👏.Cheers to their maturity which Nikhil's

parents don't have. We can only hope and pray that Laajo's sufferings will end soon and she will get everything she deserves.

Originally posted by: skydome

Thanks for the post, and good comments.

Human mind is a very complex one. If we just take Nikhil's character - we will see that he also has a past history (guilt of his brother's death), he has a mother who is too modern and a father traditional, humane yet remains quite in many important issues (reluctant to voice opinions when his wife is wrong)... Nikil's childhood is a mixture of his father and grandfather's human touch, and his mother's "trying to be modern". Nikhil's mother discriminated between her two sons, and Nikhil being the less loved. So as he grew - he always tried to attract his mother's attention, but guess did not succeed. Then his chrush with his childhood girl friend (who he thinks he loves), and would like to marry her to make his mother happy.

But deep inside Nikhil is an honest, genuine soul. He admires real human qualities (which he sees in Laajo).

That is why he is torn apart between these two issues. Being young he does not understand and remains confused. "Distance makes a heart get closer" - that is what going to let Nikkhil know what he really wants...

Again the other characters are also equally strong and complex: Laajo, her parents, Nikkhil's parents , Ishaana, and her mother, Nikkhils sister, uncle, cousins - all have a story.

The writer is doing an excellent job with these characters- and so is the director and the actors.

I admire the fact- that in the hospital when Laajo is sick and devastated, she has no make up, and her acting is so... natural. While watching the serial, one feels as a part of it.

Bravo to the entire team.

Originally posted by: varshitap

@ Skydome I am really impressed by your analysis of Nikhil's character, well I totally agree with you. I must say that though I don't like the way his character is progressing now. I feel all his problems are due to him fearing to loose on people , relationships and the fact that he is so genuine that he cant say no. He wants to please all people all the time which is not possible because he feels he will loose them, this may be due to the guilt he has of not saving his elder brother and his mother's subsequent wrath of not forgiving him. He has his own past demons which are casting a shadow on his present. Hope he sees the light of the day by realizing his Love for Laajo.😊

Originally posted by: rekhsy

@skydome Apt analysis of nikhil's character.This is what I had in my mind about nikhil's character.Beauty of this serial lies in the fact that we can relate to most of the characters.Writers and directors have done a very good job.Thanks to them we got a nice serial that's not a stereotypical!

Originally posted by: ...Hanna...

Sami Nikhil always confuse me...that I became confused just like him🤣...

But you said everything about his state of mind...n I just love laajo's parents...they way they are supporting their daughter ...hats off to them...off course their daughter pain is their pain...

Originally posted by: rukvij

My only regret is that Nikhil will be forced to realise his feelings for Lajoo in this way when he thinks she is about to die and not when she was alright.An acknowledgement of his love should not have depended on such a life or death situation.In this case it looks more like his own loss in case Lajo dies and not entirely for her sake.