Thoroughly Disgusted....

Originally posted by: Parm.

I am so thoroughly disgusted with Nikhil's whole clan! His mom, Nani, Ayesha, Mama and even his Dad. While Inder hasn't said much against Laajo, I think the biggest problem with him is that he hasn't said anything. He really needs to put his foot down with his wife and tell his MIL to butt out of LaKhil's life!

I'm feed up with Nikhil too. Yes, he was a nice guy to "save" Laajo but please tell me how he envisioned Laajo's life thereafter? No respect from anyone in his family (save Gunja and Rishi but they're too young to really have any say whatsoever in the household), no love from him and to top it off he goes running after his girlfriend in front of her? Then declares his love for his girlfriend while his wife is in the house? What is going on in his head? Does he see nothing beyond Ishana? Why doesn't he just leave Laajo and carry on with Ishana? As it is, in his current situation he really can't have either of the women. He doesn't want to lose Ishana but doesn't want to divorce Laajo? What's up with that? He's doing an injustice to both women...

And then there's Ishana. I simply cannot believe she would run back to him and declare her undying love for him while his wife was in the same house...What the heck was she thinking??? Then she had the gall to look upset in the precap upon seeing Laajo in Nikhil's room...

Than there's Shaila and the other male servant. I can't wait to see them put in their place one day😉


I'm so mad with today's episode that I don't even think I'm making sense😆😆

Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

I am not sure if am more mad at Nikhil, Ishaana or at Shyla...it was very expected of Nani to make grand plans I don't know how Inder tolerates his MIL all the time in his house.. Ishaana ha truly lost it she is in his house now and she expects she wont see Lajjo there, Nikhil is not thinking anything wonder when he start to think about the actions first

Originally posted by: najialuv88

Awesome analysis👍🏼👏!

Couldn't agree more...its just too much. Although Nikhil's father isn't "bad" persay, he surely isn't helping the situation by not DOING anything at all. he is as much as a guilty party for not saying or doing anything when his wife and mother in law keeps on insulting and mistreating Laajo.

Agreed 100%. Allowing the injustices to carry on is as bad as committing them yourself...Just every now and then nodding his head at Barka isn't going to do anything...

Nikhil...with him i at first felt bad and felt respect that he helped Laajo...but nowadays im kind of pissed off at him. okay he stated their couldn't be any emotions/feelings involved btwn the two, but still it doesn't mean anything to at least have RESPECT for Laajo. I mean constantly running to your ex, talking to your ex, leaving her high and dry when it comes to anything concerning your ex. is too much. I agree that he didn't think this through and that he cannot have both. he should have known, i dont want to say he is young and due to his age he didn't know, but i can't take that as an excuse. he must have known, he see how his family is and he must have known that they wouldn't except Laajo. at least that would have prompt him to make arrangements for her to live or rather study do something instead of being locked away and constantly humiliated.


I too felt that way in the beginning in regards to him helping Laajo, but now I too am thoroughly pissed off at him.😡 I agree that he didn't think it through at all but now he has to sit back and think about it. Laajo is his responsibility but a responsibility he is not fulfilling. Just marrying her and then dumping her at his house isn't completing his responsibility...Then to continually run after his girlfriend right in front of her. He definitely needs to start using his head more and think beyond Ishana. I mean they show him feeling bad for Laajo but that's about it. He doesn't seem to be doing anything about it, in fact he leaves it to Gunja to look after her. Is this his idea of a marriage?

Ishana, is just another can of worms that sometimes i feel sympthy and annoyance. annoyance is happening more frequently now-a-days especially with her push and pull. no interference with nikhil but want him to remember important dates and visit her. don't want to be around him and then visit him and gets mad that his wife is close to him...i just dont understand??? Ishana shouldn't treat Laajo like that or even look at her like that when ultimately she ended in this situation beyond her control.

I used to feel sympathy for her too but not so much anymore. She's seems to be playing a game with Nikhil. One minute off, then let's be friends and back to I love you and can't live without you crap!

Shaila and the other servant are going to see really soon that Nikhil's family don't see them beyond being any different from Laajo. They need to get off that pedestal that they are on because its going to get knock out from underneath them

Very true! Can't wait for that to happen!😃😆

Originally posted by: .Nafisa.

Nice post Parm, it was surprising the love declaration Nikhil saying "I'm alive because of you" Surely it should have been I came by the accident because I was chasing you, I took that to mean that he would have gladly gave up his life had Ishana not been alive but because she is he chooses to live, and the declarations didn't stop there, Ishana also reciprocated in kind you are everything to me, you are my happiness and what have you.

Made me want to gag, but at same time I wanted to slap the two of them silly while watching this scene!😆

Seeing this the only thing to do is to find a solution for Laajo to study and leave that house eventually they can divorce when she is independent leaving these two to be together, but Laajo is not thinking of this as a possible solution and Nikhil like you said has put all three lives in this jam without thinking of this solution either. I tell you his such a child.

Yes he is, I think Ishana had it right when she said he wanted to play hero!

The elders need to step in to clear this mess, not to leave them alone but only Baba, Inder and Barkha can solve this with the obvious solution we've all been saying and I brought up again above.

Yes, it would be great if Baba were included but that isn't going to happen in a million years (IMHO) as I don't think Barka will ever allow it and unfortunately she seems to have the final say in this family!


It would be heartbreaking for Laajo to leave the security of the house but her heart is breaking now watching them, I feel when she starts studying she will meet lots of college mates at the hostel etc and she will recover from this pain.



Yes I think so too. She needs to get away from this situation she's in. There is nothing but heartache for her here. Even though Nikhil is polite enough to her, she has no place in that home until Nikhil accepts her fully as his wife (not just in name only). Even then, I'm sure Barka will give her plenty of grief but it would help her immensely knowing Nikhil would be there for her. Right now, he's there for neither her or Ishana fully.

Also we know her she's very enthusiastic she will go into her new life with a lot of vigor and be happy.


Yeah, she's a survivor. 😊 She always tries to see the positive in everything, even if her heart is breaking.😭

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

You have sum up all these questions in one post which may be I asked in different posts.

I probably could have Anju but I was so mad when I saw this last night, I definitely wasn't thinking straight.😆

The one and only guilty person in all these is Nikhil.

Agreed!

You know it Parm when a hubby is not good and he shows his worst part in front of his family the other members also begin to pester the wife and here Nikhil showed more than that...

Agree again!😆 Family may pester still but they can't effect the wife as much if she knows her hubby has her back!


But I want Lajjo to have the gut to leave him.

Would love to see this happen now...

This show GD is in 2013 not like the original one where girls may be have these mentality"Mera pati to mera hain bhala hain bhura mera pati hain"

Did not watch the original so don't know but I hope she doesn't have that type of mentality.

This show is also giving hope to nowadays girls that being the second woman is fine because "once we were in love"

I hope that's not the message being sent out there Anju! There's enough crap in the world for them to have to overcome as it is...


I prefer to stop myself here instead of making a long post...